What Changed?

 What Changed?

You used to love them. Not just love them...adore them. You looked at them and saw your future, your safe place, your everything. They were the reason your heart raced and the reason it felt at peace.

But now? It’s different. The way they talk, the way they act, the way they make you feel; it’s not the same. And deep down, you’re asking yourself, what went wrong?

The truth is, love isn’t just about feeling. It’s about choosing. And somewhere along the way, maybe they stopped choosing you. Or maybe you stopped choosing them. Love isn’t enough when respect fades, when effort dies, or when one person carries the weight of something that should be shared.

Maybe they became someone you no longer recognized. Or maybe they were always this way, and you were too blinded by love to see it. You gave your all, but love shouldn’t be one-sided. You were building a home together, but suddenly you realized you were the only one holding up the walls.

It hurts because you remember how they used to make you feel. But memories aren’t love, and nostalgia isn’t enough to stay where your heart feels unwanted.

So, what changed? Sometimes, it’s them. Sometimes, it’s you. And sometimes, it’s life showing you that the person you thought would be your forever… was only meant to teach you how to love yourself enough to let go.