Sunday, 5 January 2025

The right person won’t need convincing

 Not everyone is meant for you, and sometimes the hardest thing is accepting that truth. We hold on, hoping that if we just love them harder, they’ll finally see our worth. But here’s the painful reality: if they don’t see it now, they never will.


Some people come into your life to teach you, not stay. They show you what parts of yourself need healing, where your boundaries need to be, and how much of yourself you’re willing to lose before you realize you deserve more. No matter how much love you give, you can’t make someone love you the way you deserve.


It’s easy to hold onto potential ; to think, “If only they changed,” or, “If I’m patient, they’ll be what I need.” But the truth is, you deserve more than a maybe. You deserve someone who doesn’t make you question whether you’re enough, who shows up for you fully, without conditions or excuses.


Walking away feels like a failure, like you’re giving up on something you’ve poured your heart into. But staying with someone who doesn’t value you is worse. It’s a slow, painful erosion of who you are, waiting for them to become someone they may never be. 


The right person won’t need convincing. They will see you, appreciate you, and love you without hesitation. They’ll meet you where you are, not leave you waiting, wondering if you’re worth it. 


So, let go. Not because you didn’t try hard enough, but because you’ve given all you can. You deserve love that feels like peace, not a constant battle to prove your worth. And one day, you’ll understand why it never worked with anyone else;  because the right person will make you realize why no one before them was ever enough.

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