Time is a gift

 "Time is a gift, not a guarantee.  Don't waste it on worries or regrets.  Enjoy the present moment, create meaningful experiences, and let your life be a testament to the power of time well-spent.

You don't have to put on a brave face

 You don't have to put on a brave face and be strong every day. It's okay to drop that armor and let yourself crumble when you don't feel fine. If you can't get out of bed,

take a rest day and sleep in. If you don't have the capacity to do anything, get under a blanket and put on a movie. And if you feel the need to scream and cry, do it with all your heart. The sky does it all the time and it still shines the next day.

Ahem what made her beautiful

And perhaps

what made her beautiful was not her appearance or what she achieved, 

but in her love and in her courage, 

and her audacity to believe: 

no matter the darkness around her, 

Light ran wild within her,

and that was the way she came alive, and it showed up in everything.🖤

Some people are good at being in love.

 "Some people are good at being in love. Some people are good at love. Two very different things, I think. Being in love is the romantic part—sex all the time, midday naps in the sheets, the jokes, the laughs, the fun, long conversations with no pauses, overwhelming separation anxiety … Just the best sides of both people, you know? But love begins when the excitement of being in love starts to fade: the stress of life sets in, the butterflies disappear, the sex becomes a chore, the tears, the sadness, the arguments, the cattiness. The worst parts of both people. But if you still want that person by your side through all of those things.. that’s when you know—that’s when you know you’re good at love."

You deserve a love that stays

 I want you to know that love should bring peace, not confusion. It should be calm and steady. It should make you feel safe. 

You deserve someone who helps you sleep peacefully at night. Someone who makes you feel at ease, not on edge.

A gentle love lets you rest, not just survive. It brings out your soft side, not your defenses. It makes life lighter, not heavier. Love should not drain you. It should not feel like a battle. It should feel like home.

You deserve a love that stays. A love that holds. A love that heals.

Do not take your life for granted

Do not take your life for granted.

Do not forget to wake up everyday and show deep gratitude for your life.

Try your best to be kind and understanding to the people around you.

Appreciate the small moments that you often overlook.

Everything constantly changes. And you don't want to miss the blessings you've been given by complaining and living inside your mind.

When you loose good people

 When you hurt good-hearted people,

they won't scream,

they'll keep their pain inside.

They will gently and silently drift away

never to return.

They won't stop being good,

they'll never trust you again.

This is exactly when you lost them ..

A real friend is truly a blessing

 Nobody is truly your friend unless they defend your name when you're not around.

A real friend won't stay silent when others speak badly about you. They won't laugh when you're being disrespected. They won't act like it's none of their business.

They will speak up. They will shut it down. They will remind others who you are.

Surround yourself with people who protect your name, who stand up for you, and who stay solid when you're not around.

Because loyalty isn’t shown by what they say to your face, but by what they say about you when you're not there.

A real friend is truly a blessing.

When we give more than heart

 "When we give more than our heart can sing, it is not for us to regret a few of the things we chose to let go. We just keep loving them without holding them, in a way like they can be more beautiful with their freedom."

What's happiness in my opinion

 Happiness is when bills are paid, debts are paid, family is healthy, enough food on the table, having peace of mind. ✨

Important thing to remember

Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship:

Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

Date nights are a must.

Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

Learn each other's love language.

We all don’t perceive love the same way.

Go to bed mad sometimes.

Don’t force a resolution.

Sleeping on it does help.

When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. 

Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

It will get boring sometimes.

Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.

It’s normal.

It will fade.

This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

It’s okay to go to couples counselling.

It helps.

It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

Talk about money.

Talk about your financial goals.

Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

Ask questions like...

“What do you need to see more of from me?”

“How can we understand each other better?”

And most importantly, be kind to each other.

Love each other.

Fight for each other.

Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it. ❤️

Happiness is not something that comes to us when every problem is solved

 One day you will realize that happiness is not what your house looks like, but how you love the people within its walls. 

Happiness is not finding success by a certain time, but finding something you love so much time itself seems to disappear.

Happiness is not thinking you have earned the world's approval, but waking up each day and feeling so at peace within your own skin, quietly anticipating the day ahead, unconcerned with how you are perceived.

Happiness is not having the best of everything, but the ability to make the best of anything. 

Happiness is knowing you did what you could with what you were given.

Happiness is not something that comes to us when every problem is solved and all things are perfectly in place, but in the shining silver linings that remind us of the light of day is always there, if we slow down enough to notice. 

I shut myself

 Sometimes, when everything gets too overwhelming, I just shut myself off. 

I ignore the calls, let the messages sit unread, and retreat to a place where I can just be alone. It’s not about running away from anyone – it’s about giving myself space to breathe. There’s a strange comfort in stepping back from the world, letting myself sit in the quiet, and just feeling whatever I need to feel without explaining it to anyone.

I think we all have days like that – when even the smallest noise feels like too much. So I let myself turn it all down. I take time to sort through my own thoughts, to just sit with what’s weighing on me. 

It’s not easy, but sometimes, facing it alone brings a kind of calm that nothing else can. And slowly, piece by piece, I find my way back to myself, a little stronger, a little clearer.

You have a soft heart

 “You have a soft heart, and a pure soul, that's why you feel everything so deeply. Be clear on one thing: this is your superpower, not your weakness. The world needs more of you so don't suppress who you are. It is not your job to heal every person you meet, but it's your job to make sure your kind nature remains intact throughout your journey.

Stay close to those who genuinely appreciate you, and stay far away from those whose only goal is to take advantage of your energy. You are one of the rare gems the universe has blessed with heightened clairvoyance and divinity.

Keep shining your light everywhere you go.”

Self love

 Self love...

Choose your happiness

Choose your well being Choose your passion Choose yourself, Every time because

The most important relationship in

your life is with yourself.

3 phases of relationship

 In a relationship there are always 3 phases or stages.

The first is when everything is pink, everything is pretty words, no problems and everything is fine.

The second is when you start to know the imperfections of the person, pointless fights start, (this stage is the most difficult as they are not always willing to fix things and therefore they give up).

And lastly, the third is the most beautiful; when you truly fall in love, and you see their perfect imperfections, when they know how to fix the problems without yelling or hurtful words, when you really learn to love. ❤️

To men she's the only person who will be with you

 She the only person who will be with you until the end. The one who shares life with you.

She also chose to live away from her parents like you to live together.

Share defeats, victories, sadness, happiness, sufferings and more.

Think that the only person you have to make happy is your wife. Believe me your love will be profitable.

Because she's your partner and accomplice in everything you do. Make her happy 

Every little thing you do

 "Every little thing you do, give it love with yourself, give it feeling where anything it touches within you heals, not because they were broken but because they are a part of yourself that made you already complete."

A Part of Me Died

 "A Part of Me Died"

It didn’t kill me, but something changed,

A piece of me lost, forever estranged.

I walked away, yet not the same,

A shadowed soul, a quiet flame.

That day took part of who I was,

Left me searching, without cause.

I carry on, but feel the void,

A heart once whole, now destroyed.

It didn’t end me, but I’m not whole—

An echo remains, deep in my soul.

I’m here, I breathe, but truth denied—

A part of me, that day, quietly died.

The loneliest moments

 "The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly. It's not the shattering itself that breaks you—it’s the silence that follows, the quiet space where you realize there’s nothing left to salvage. And in that moment, you know that you’ll never be the same again. You’ll build something new, perhaps, but it will never be what you lost."

Some battles are best won with silence

"At times, I feel tempted to return the disrespect I receive. But when I take a step back and observe their mindset, their way of life, and the challenges life throws at them, I realize there’s no need. Their struggles, their outlook, and the way life treats them are already punishment enough. Some battles are best won with silence."

This is your power, your peace, your truth

 In the quiet moments when others paint you with colors that aren't yours, remember: your truth runs deeper than their misunderstandings. Like a tree whose roots know the earth beneath, even when its branches are mistaken for shadows, your essence remains unchanged by others' perceptions.

There will be days when the world will try to reshape your story, when whispers will attempt to rewrite your character. In these moments, let your heart be your compass, not their words. The greatest strength lies not in shouting your defense to the winds, but in holding your truth close, like a precious flame that burns steady even in the storm.

Know yourself with such depth that others' misconceptions become mere ripples on the surface of your deep waters. Your worth isn't measured by how well you're understood, but by how faithfully you honor your authentic self. Stand firm in your truth, like a lighthouse that needs no validation from the ships it guides.

For in the end, it's not the noise of misunderstanding that defines you, but the quiet certainty in your soul that knows exactly who you are, what you stand for, and the beauty of your purpose - seen or unseen, understood or not. This is your power, your peace, your truth.

Life isn’t always easy

 “If they want to, they will,”

…that’s what we’ve always known, but have you ever thought that maybe…

“If they could, they would’ve”?

What if they really wanted to, but for some reason, they couldn’t, because life intervened, making them rethink and re-evaluate everything?

Life isn’t always easy—problems arise, change and sacrifice become inevitable at times. Really, there are numerous factors that somehow influence our emotions and decisions, one way or another.

What if we’ve just forgotten that most of the time, some people don’t have the choice of doing what they want because they are obliged to do something else. Some people don’t have the privilege to follow their hearts because they need to act rationally led by their practical minds.

Isn’t this also true? Or have we forgotten that in love and relationships, there’s a ‘giver’ and a ‘receiver’ and a good relationship lasts only when two people can balance this out?

They will call you CRAZY

 "They will call you ""crazy"" because you are, because you were born with the gift of seeing things differently and that scares them."

They're going to call you "intense" because you are, because you were born with the value well placed to allow yourself to feel it all fully and that intimidates them.

They're going to call you "selfish" because that's right, because you found out that you're the most important thing in your life and that doesn't suit them.

You’re going to be called in many ways, with many judgments, for a long time, but stay firm on yourself and what you want, and I promise you one day they’re going to call you to say, “thank you for existing.”

You'll watch yourself fall apart

 You'll watch yourself fall apart in this life my love.

You'll watch yourself shatter,

and you won't really be able to do a lot to stop it.

You'll watch as you lose yourself.

But, just wait...

Because you'll also watch yourself rebuild.

You'll watch yourself gather,

and you'll see yourself put those shattered pieces back together.

You'll watch as you save yourself.

And one day, when you least expect to,

you'll look back and remember...

Not how you fell.

But how you got back up.

And lived.

Not every chapter needs to be revisited

 When someone asked why I no longer speak to a certain person, I gave an honest answer. Their response? “Why don’t you be the bigger person and reach out?”

But being the bigger person doesn’t mean continuously reopening old wounds, hoping for a different outcome. True growth comes from knowing when to step back. It’s about recognizing when a relationship has turned toxic, when conversations go in circles, and when protecting your peace is more important than forcing a connection.

Reaching out repeatedly, only to face the same disrespect, broken trust, or unresolved issues, is exhausting. Being the bigger person isn’t about tolerating mistreatment—it’s about valuing yourself enough to walk away. It’s okay to let go of relationships that no longer serve you, to protect your well-being, and to love from a distance when closeness only brings chaos. Not every chapter needs to be revisited, and some doors are meant to stay closed.

Words...

 It won’t always be like this.

I remind myself of this often.

To help me see through the hard days, but to also pull me into the now.

⠀

Because it’s true.

They won’t always be this small.

And I won’t always be this tired.

They won’t always need me in this way. And I won’t always feel this lost.

They won’t always come to me first.

And I won’t also feel like I come last.

⠀

This is a season.

We will move through it together.

And it will pass before we know it.

⠀

It won’t always be like this.

And my heart aches as I think about what it may look like.

The first school drop off.

The last kiss goodnight.

The nights up late waiting for a call that doesn’t come.

⠀

Because life will be different one day.

And it won’t always be this tiring, messy, or beautifully wholesome.

⠀

It will be watching from afar from a clean house, longing for them to come home for a weekend.

It will be loving them through phone lines, messenger, and the kilometres between us.

It will be losing myself in something new, to busy my mind from what I’m missing.

⠀

It won’t always be like this.

Not the hard.

Or the beautiful.

It will be a different hard and beautiful.

We won’t always be like this either.

We will age.

And our relationship will evolve.

We will be a different type of “us”.

⠀

But this is my one chance at now.

I only get to love them, be there for them, and be needed in this exact way, once.

I only get to know this stage of motherhood like the back of my hand, once.

I only get this time as we are now, once.

⠀

This is it.

I only get one Motherhood.

And they only get one childhood.

⠀

This time is ours.

So I’m breathing it in, in all of its shades, Because it just won’t always be like this.

📖 

If you have an amazing man who keeps your world steady.

If you have an amazing man who keeps your world steady...

He may not be flawless, but he's just right for you.

He works hard and would go to great lengths for your happiness...

He makes you laugh, pushes your buttons, and is not only your partner but also your closest friend-sometimes even your only one.

He's the person you dream of growing old with, the one you're grateful for every single day.

Cherish him, because having someone like that is truly a gift.❤️

A woman's body after delivery

 After giving birth, it takes a woman 6 months to heal her wounds, 12 months to recover physically, 2 years to balance her hormones, and up to 5 years to rediscover her identity. 💗

Relationships often face difficulties during this period of time due to lack of understanding.

Be kind and patient with moms, they are facing more challenges than you know.

You are stronger than the pain

 I hope you heal from all the wounds left unaddressed, the words left unspoken, and the apologies that never came. Carrying the weight of pain from those who walked away without acknowledging their impact on your heart is never easy.

You deserve to find peace, even if it means doing so without the closure you hoped for. Forgiving the silence and the absence of accountability is a heavy burden, but I believe healing can begin within you, even without an apology.

As you navigate this journey, remember that your worth is not defined by the actions or regrets of others. Take all the time you need to heal, to reclaim the pieces of yourself that were affected. You are stronger than the pain, and I hope you find the light that lies ahead.

🌸🌼🌸🌼🌸🌼🌸🌼🌸🌼🌸

It’s okay to go to bed mad

 When I was getting married, I received a lot of bad marriage advice. “Don’t ever go to bed mad” was by far the worst one. 

A few years ago, my husband and I were cleaning up the kitchen late one night. We started talking about our day, and how it was stressful. Somewhere in that conversation, an argument started as we were both tired after a long day, so we headed upstairs to get ready for bed. 

The argument kept going as we got to our bedroom. I felt myself getting flustered and angry. 

We sat on the bed, both exhausted, emotionally and physically drained, just wanting to go to sleep. 

My husband went to lay down as I remember those words in my head.

“Don’t go to bed angry! Resolve it NOW!”

My husband was exhausted and just wanted to go to sleep. I felt myself getting even more angry at the fact that I felt like I had to force a resolution. 

“Do I just apologize?”

“Do I stay up all night and continue this argument even though we are both exhausted?” I thought to myself.

I remember feeling helpless as I kept hearing those words. “Don’t go to bed mad!” 

I knew this argument wasn’t going to be settled tonight, we were both exhausted, and not in any headspace to come to a resolution. 

As I sat there next to my husband on the bed, he sat up, put his arm around me, and said, “I love you so much, but we’re both still upset about this, let’s talk about it tomorrow after we get some rest. We will say things we don’t mean if we stay up until 2am trying to figure this out. Let’s put a pin in it, say I love you, kiss, and talk it out in the morning when we are well rested.” 

“Wow” I thought to myself. I had never thought of it that way. I immediately thought back to all of the times we stayed up until 2am arguing. Saying things we didn’t mean because we were tired and emotionally drained. 

I thought back to all of the times we had both said “sorry” just for the sake of feeling like we couldn’t go to bed mad. 

I laid down, pulled the blankets over me, and let out a sigh of relief. 

As I laid there next to my husband, I felt his hand grab mine. 

We slept facing away from each other, but still touching. 

I realized that night..

It’s okay to go to bed mad. 

It’s okay to not force a resolution, just for the sake of not going to sleep angry. 

It’s okay to say “I love you, I’m still upset about this, but we can talk in the morning.”

It’s okay to admit that when it’s late at night, sometimes we lose sight of what we are even upset about in the first place.

It’s okay to know that “tomorrow is never promised”, but still realize when an argument is not going to be resolved that night, and rest is needed. 

The next morning, we woke up and talked about the night before. Except this conversation was different.

It was calm. 

It was mature. 

It was respectful.

It came to a much better resolution.

I realized in that moment, sitting in bed, laying my head on his chest, and talking about the night before, that sometimes rest is needed. 

Sometimes putting it on pause, but still letting each other know that you love on another, is needed. 

I realized that morning, when we sleep on it, we have a much healthier conversation the next day. 

It’s okay to be mad, still let your partner know you love them, but not stay up all night arguing. 

It’s okay to go to bed mad.

❤️

From the heart of a mother

 Motherhood is cuddling and kisses.

Motherhood is tantrums and crying.

Motherhood is raised voices and frustration.

Motherhood is teachable moments and forgiveness.

Motherhood is testing boundaries and pushing buttons.

Motherhood is the feel of their hand in yours.

Motherhood is endless worry and guilt.

Motherhood is big hugs and excited faces.

Motherhood is frazzling and exhausting.

Motherhood is watching your child’s chest rise and fall in their sleep.

Motherhood is unpredictability and uncertainty.

Motherhood is finding an inner strength you didn’t know existed.

Motherhood is learning to trust your instincts.

Motherhood is learning what it means for your heart to burst with love.

Motherhood is the most difficult thing AND the most beautiful thing.

Motherhood is giving your child your everything

and getting more than you 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 imagined.

Disrespect

Disrespect will close doors that apologies can't reopen. Let that sink in.

Think about it: when you disrespect someone, you're not just hurting their feelings or bruising their ego. You're damaging the very fabric of your relationship with them. You're creating a rift that may be impossible to repair.

Apologies can help to heal wounds, but they can't undo the damage that's been done. Once a door is closed, it can't be reopened by simply saying "sorry". The trust is broken, the respect is lost, and the relationship is irreparably harmed.

Disrespect is like a poison that seeps into the foundation of a relationship, causing it to crumble from the inside out. It's a corrosive force that eats away at the bonds that hold people together, leaving behind only rubble and regret.

So, be mindful of the way you treat others. Be aware of the impact your words and actions have on those around you. Don't let your anger, frustration, or thoughtlessness lead you down a path of disrespect.

Remember, the doors you close through disrespect may never be reopened, no matter how many apologies you offer. So, let's strive to treat each other with kindness, compassion, and respect. Let's build relationships that are strong, resilient, and built on a foundation of mutual respect

The dream of successful career

 It's okay if you were once a woman who dreamed of a successful career but then became a mom and everything changed.

That does not mean you failed—it means you transformed. Life has seasons, and motherhood is one of the most beautiful ones.

Pouring your love, energy, and time into raising your children is not a sacrifice; it’s an investment. The world often tells women that success is measured by job titles, salaries, and achievements.

But the truth is, raising a child with love, patience, and care is one of the greatest accomplishments of all.

Being a mother is not about giving up who you are; it’s about becoming something even more powerful. You are shaping a life, creating a future, and leaving a legacy of love. 

So, don’t ever feel like you gave up on success—you just redefined it in the most meaningful way possible. 💖✨

Love you give will come back to you

 "Do you notice that when you're happy, your wife is even happier? And when you're angry, she's even angrier?"

"That's how women work—they reciprocate. So if you make their life miserable, yours will be even more miserable.

But if you take care of them, love them the right way, and fill their life with happiness, they'll give it back to you twice as much.

So if you want a peaceful and happy family, start with yourself. Be a good husband, be a loving partner.

Because in the end, the love you give will come back to you—sweeter, more genuine, and filled with even more joy."

Privacy is power

 When you stop telling your friends every detail about your life, your enemies will be starved of information.

No gossip to go around. 

No shaming you about your choices. 

Not all people you think of as, or call your friends, are in fact your friends.. 

Some are pretending to be with you just to feed your enemies.

Be careful who you call your friend because one of the scariest enemies on earth are those people who pretend to be your friend.

Privacy is power, what people don’t know, they can’t ruin.

Authenticity

“Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day. It’s about the choice to show up and be real. The choice to be honest. The choice to let our true selves be seen.” 

A mother is made of unconditional love

The way you treat your mother is the way life will treat you. A mother is the source of love and life.

A mother is made of unconditional love, a love that no one else can give you. Don't judge her. How many times have you sat down to listen to her? To have a conversation with her about her past? Perhaps she never told you about the miserable life she had to endure before you came along.

Maybe she never shared the wounds she carries, the scars that reopen every time she remembers them... the painful childhood and adolescence she lived through. The difficult moments she endured when no one listened to her, when she was mistreated, leaving traces of harsh words, poverty, fears, and abuse.

How many hidden sorrows does she carry in her heart, ones she never shared with you—so you wouldn't have a distorted image of her life? Out of love, she chose not to tell you, or perhaps silence became her refuge to avoid suffering further.

Treat her well, like the unique treasure she is in your life. Doing so will bring you blessings, peace, joy, stability, and a long life.

And remember, the way you treat your mother is how others will treat you. People around you will learn from your actions and the love you show. There is only one mother—if you don’t value her now, you may regret it in the future when sleepless nights haunt you.

It won’t be your mother keeping you awake—it will be your own demons of disobedience and disrespect that refuse to let you rest.

Dear Man work on yourself

When a man is unhappy with himself, he will project that unhappiness onto any woman who tries to love him. He will ruin her happiness because he cannot find his own.

So, dear man, work on yourself because a woman’s love is not a remedy for your pain. It is not her job to heal the wounds you refuse to face. If you carry unresolved anger, insecurity, or self-doubt, you will inevitably turn her tenderness into a battleground where she constantly fights for a love you have not yet learned to give.

She will try to hold you, to remind you of your worth, but if you do not believe in it yourself, her words will feel like lies. You will push her away, not because she is unworthy, but because deep down, you believe you are. And when a man believes he is unworthy of love, he will unconsciously destroy any love that comes his way.

You might criticize her, belittle her, or make her feel like she is never enough. Not because she isn’t, but because you feel like you aren’t. A woman in love will do everything to bring light into your darkness, but if you refuse to let go of the shadows, you will dim her light too.

This is why healing is essential. You cannot pour from an empty cup, nor can you build a loving relationship on a foundation of self-hatred. Work on yourself so that when love comes, you can receive it with open arms instead of rejecting it out of fear.

Heal your past, so you don’t bleed onto a woman who had nothing to do with your wounds. Take responsibility for your happiness, so she doesn’t have to carry the weight of both her heart and yours. Learn to love yourself, so when she loves you, you believe her.

A good woman will love you deeply, but even the strongest woman cannot save a man who refuses to save himself. If you are broken, acknowledge it. If you are lost, find your way. If you are hurt, seek healing.

Your pain is not your fault, but your healing is your responsibility. No woman deserves to suffer because you refuse to do the work. Love is meant to be a sanctuary, not a place of destruction.

So, dear man, work on yourself—not just for her, but for you. Love yourself enough to become the man who can love her the way she deserves.

Be patient in learning

Be patient in learning. Be patient in getting the things you wish for. ♥️

 Some lessons take time, and some good things require more effort.

♥️ 

Trust the journey and know that you are capable of great things.♥️

Never lower yourself

Never lower yourself to match someone else’s bitterness.  Some will test your patience, but don't let their negativity define you.  Choose your battles wisely, and know that walking away from negativity is not losing; it's making room for better things and a better version of yourself.

When we prioritize our own peace

 When we prioritize our own peace, we often become more aligned with our true selves. We're less likely to conform to expectations or to try to be someone we're not. It allows for a greater sense of freedom to be who we truly are.

Become the best example of yourself

You'll encounter obstacles along the way... you'll feel like giving up... you will be disappointed in people... you will be afraid and many times you will feel loneliness beating in your heart. But in spite of it all... you will keep believing that you are capable of winning... you will continue to do good because it tells who you are... you will continue to believe in your qualities even if someone manages to hurt your heart... you will. start anew... you will continue to write your story. Because it’s not about the others.. it's all about you. It's all about recognizing that nothing can limit your potential and ability to grow.. change and become the best version of yourself....

A man cannot be a good father

 A man cannot be a good father without first being a great husband, because children learn from what they observe. As a father, your actions towards your wife shape the foundation of how your children view relationships, respect, and love.

Please remember, your wife is not just your partner; she is also the co-creator of the future. Her emotional well-being, her peace, and her joy directly influence the kind of environment your children grow up in. Ignoring her emotions, dismissing her feelings, or invalidating her efforts will create cracks in the foundation of your family.

Learn to love yourself

 Learn to love yourself before you can truly love another.  Your self-worth is the foundation of a healthy relationship, and when you believe in your own worth, you attract love that honors your strength and your heart.

Don't underestimate the power of consistent effort.

 "Don't underestimate the power of consistent effort. Slow progress is a testament to your dedication. Stay positive, keep working, and you'll achieve amazing things.

Don't wait for someone to paint your life

 "Don't wait for someone to paint your life beautiful.  Create it yourself, using your favorite colors and moments.  You deserve a life you love.

Love to complete your life

"This is my wish for you:

Comfort on difficult days,

smiles when sadness intrudes,

rainbows to follow the clouds,

laughter to kiss your lips,

sunsets to warm your heart,

hugs when spirits sag,

beauty for your eyes to see,

friendships to brighten your being,

faith so that you can believe,

confidence for when you doubt,

courage to know yourself,

patience to accept the truth,

Love to complete your life."

Maturing is realizing you prefer a quiet life

Maturing is realizing you prefer a quiet life. You don't chase after friendships or relationships, you're happy with the few friends you have, no drama, just working on being the best version of yourself, not comparing your life to others, and learning to enjoy your own company instead of relying on others to be happy.

Make your own priority

 When you start taking care of yourself and make it your priority, you feel better, you look better, and you attract more good things around you.  When you start with yourself, you set the foundation for a happier and more fulfilling life.

It's okay to let it go a piece at a time.

It's okay to let it go a piece at a time.

One day soon your heart will feel lighter, you'll notice something about you has changed, that's when you'll look back and realize you're not carrying it anymore.

You'll have let it go without knowing it.

A boring home life

 A boring home life 

We often complain about the repetitiveness of our days.

Day in, day out, the same.

Morning alarm, breakfast, housework, work, looking after everyone else, dinner, baths, bed, wake up, repeat.

But do we ever stop to think how much peace is in consistency? How lucky we are if everyday is the same? No big disasters or nasty surprises? How there is so much value in enjoying home life? To get up and do the same tasks day and night is actually a blessing.

Laying your head on a pillow at night and thinking of what to cook for dinner the next day is a level of restfulness some people will never experience in their whole lifetime. This world can be cruel and unnecessary; so if you have the peace of a ‘boring’ home life, you really have won the lottery of life.

Remember that the right person will never get tired of you, even in the worst times

Remember that the right person will never get tired of you, even in the worst times.

They are the ones who stay when you feel like falling apart, who choose to be there not because they have to, but because they want to. They see your struggles, your fears, and still, they stand by your side, knowing that even in your hardest moments, you are worth it.

They don’t just love you for the easy days, but for the days when you’re feeling lost, when you’re not sure if you can keep going. Their love doesn’t wave, it doesn’t ask for perfection. It simply asks for you, just as you are.

In those times when you’re at your lowest, when you feel like you’re too much to handle, know that the right person will never get tired of you. They understand that everyone has their tough days, and they won’t walk away because of yours.

They know that loving someone means embracing every part of them, even the parts that aren’t always easy. So when you find yourself in the middle of a storm, remember this, the right person will hold on tighter, never letting go, because to them, you’re worth every single struggle, every tear, and every difficult moment.

You don't have to be brave every day

You don't have to be brave every day. It's okay if some things and events in your life are uncertain right now. It's okay if you are afraid of what is ahead. 

Tell your heart that it is human to feel that way. Allow yourself to take your time. Believe that even in this changing phase life has a purpose and you are going to be okay. 

Remember: sometimes just by showing up, by being willing to walk that extra mile, by putting that one foot in front of the other ---you show courage, you say to life, "even though I don't know the right path, I'm still going to make it through, no matter what."

I am strong

I am strong

Because I have known struggle

I am powerful

Because I have known hardship

I am successful

Because I have known failure

I am confident

Because I have known insecurity

I am beautiful

Because I have known self-acceptance

I am giving

Because I have known loss

I am patient

Because I have known endurance

I am compassionate

Because I have known suffering

I am loving

Because I have known heartbreak

And I am wise

Because I have known life.

Trust your time

 An open letter to those who are exhausted:

 

I know you are exhausted. You are tired of many things in life that you no longer have the energy to do the things that you used to love doing. You are tired of dealing with many people because your social battery is in the worst condition. We often associate productivity with accomplishing a lot of things, so you only do the things you do because you are required to do them. 

There are days like this when you are tired of a lot of things in life, that you are already tired of being tired. You just want to survive and make ends meet. People will always advise you to keep fighting when life knocks you down. And while I know they mean well, I also know that sometimes, what you truly need isn’t words of encouragement but the safe space to feel what you’re feeling, to admit that you’re exhausted.

I hope you will have even just a fleeting moment to rest and then back to fighting in life again. You don’t have to push yourself beyond your limits just to prove your strength, since no matter how strong you are, you will eventually experience burnout.

Nonetheless, may we finally have the rest we deserve that will lead as back to the person that we were before we became exhausted. No matter how tough things seem now, trust that in time, everything will fall into place.

Money comes and goes

 You don’t need a rich man. You need someone with a provider mindset and a kind heart.

Someone who is willing to work for a better future. Someone with dreams. Someone who takes responsibility, stays consistent, and doesn’t run when things get hard.

Emotional intelligence matters too. A man who understands your feelings, respects your boundaries, and knows how to communicate. It’s in the way he treats you, listens to you, and makes you feel safe.

Remember, money comes and goes but the right mindset stays.

Have you seen beauty outside a window

Go to a coffee shop. Sit by the bar with the glass windows and look out. Look at all the people running to catch a train. All the girls with one too many shopping bags. All the couples too in love to care. Then you'll see it-a bit of yourself in everyone. And somehow, sitting alone in a coffee shop had never felt so good."

Sometimes..

 Sometimes you meet someone, and it's so clear that the two of you, on the some level, belong together. As lovers, or as friends, or as family, or as something entirely different. 

You just work, whether you understand one another, or you're in love.

You meet these people through your life, out of nowhere, under the stangest of circumstances, and they help make you feel alive. 

I don't know if that makes me believe in coincidence, or fate, but it 

makes me believe in something.

One day ....

 ..One day, you will meet someone who loves you with such kindness and respect that it will feel almost unfamiliar. They will look at you with eyes that truly see you—your flaws, your scars, your stories—and still choose you, wholeheartedly.♥️

"You will begin to let go of the fear that has held you back from trusting again.💥

.... The hurt you carried, the doubts you whispered to yourself late at night, and the walls you built to protect your heart will start to crumble—not because someone forced them down, but because love, in its purest form, doesn’t demand space; it earns it through patience and understanding.♥️

"This person will come into your life when you least expect it, reminding you that the right connection doesn’t drain you—it nourishes you. Their laughter will fill your quiet moments with joy, and their presence will feel like sunlight warming the coldest corners of your soul.♥️

...They might not have all the perfect words or grand gestures, but they will love with sincerity. Their tenderness, their willingness to stay when things aren’t easy, and their quiet warmth will make you realize that true love isn’t complicated—it’s safe, it’s gentle, and it makes your heart feel at home.♥️

....One day, you will meet this kind of love. And when you do, everything will finally make sense.♥️

Spend time with yourself

 "It is very important to go out alone, to sit under a tree, not with a book, not with a companion, but by yourself and observe the falling of a leaf, hear the lapping of the water, the fishermen’s song, watch the flight of a bird, and of your own thoughts as they chase each other across the space of your mind. If you are able to be alone and watch these things, then you will discover extraordinary riches which can never be destroyed." 

When was the last time you truly sat in stillness and observed the world around you? ✨🌿

Poem

 "I started calling that girl back. The girl who loved living, the girl who danced instead of walking. 

The girl who had sunflowers for eyes and fireworks in her soul.

I started playing music again, hoping she would come out. 

I started looking for beautiful moments to experience, so she would feel safe enough to show herself, because I knew she was in there.

And she needed my kindness and my effort to come to the surface again."

I'm not perfect

 I’m not perfect… not even close.

I mess up. I say the wrong thing.

I lose my patience when I should pause.

I let my emotions get the best of me when I should take a deep breath.

But I apologize.

I make it right when I can.

And maybe you don’t always see it,

maybe I don’t always see it either,

but when we mess up, when we make mistakes,

when we choose to make it right,

we are learning far more than we realize.

We are showing our kids that mistakes aren’t the end of the story.

That owning up, apologizing, and making things right

is just as important—if not more—than getting it right the first time.

Because life isn’t about being perfect.

It’s about being real.

It’s about growing, learning, and showing up—even after we’ve fallen short.

So no, I’m not perfect.

But maybe that’s okay.

Maybe in my imperfection, I’m teaching my kids one of the most valuable lessons of all:

That love, grace, and the willingness to do better

matter more than perfection ever could.

The person who cares will feel the pain of hurt within you

 If someone truly cares about you, they'll feel the pain of knowing they've hurt you. They won't respond with gaslighting, lying, or deflecting Instead, they'll be focused on understanding and making amends. But if they're more concerned with protecting themselves and their image than with your feelings, that's their ego talking, not love. When you call them out and they get defensive instead of protective, that's when you know it's time to walk away for good.

At the end of the day, love is not about finding the perfect person

 The way you treat people will always say more about you than them.

Respect, kindness, and understanding aren’t just things you give when it’s easy—they are choices you make even when it’s hard. A strong relationship isn’t built on perfection but on patience, effort, and the willingness to truly listen.

Love isn’t just about grand moments; it’s found in everyday gestures—the way you show up, the way you make someone feel heard, the way you remind them they matter. If you want a love that lasts, don’t just look for chemistry. Build trust. Choose compassion. Practice respect.

At the end of the day, love is not about finding the perfect person. It’s about choosing the right person and treating them with care, every single day. ❤️

Value the love you get

 Every man hopes to have a good woman by his side, but many don’t realize that women with genuine hearts come with real, powerful emotions. They feel everything deeply, love with intensity, and give their whole heart to the people they care about.

A good woman is loyal to the core, but her tender heart means she can also become frustrated, hurt, or emotional when something doesn’t feel right. This isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s simply because she cares so deeply.

Sure, she might have her moody days, but one thing is certain: when a good woman loves you, it’s a rare, precious kind of love. It’s a love you won’t find anywhere else. Value it.

Fall in love with your life

Fall in love with your life. Wake up early, buy your favorite coffee, go for walks, eat good food, wear what makes you feel confident, and listen to your favorite music. Purposefully create these small moments that make you fall in love with your life.

Hardest decision a woman can make

When she finally leaves, it’s not because she doesn’t love him anymore, but because she’s accepted the reality of the situation‼️

He gradually stopped being the man she knew and trusted. She’s now ready to rediscover herself and find peace, but to do that, she must let go.

This is one of the hardest decisions a woman can make. She can only endure so much. Loving a man isn't a reason to let him continue hurting her and giving the bare minimum.

He couldn’t give her what she needs, so she found the strength to finally let go.

Sleeping With a Heavy Heart Is the Worst Feeling Ever

"Sleeping With a Heavy Heart Is the Worst Feeling Ever. 🥹"

There’s nothing more exhausting than carrying the weight of unspoken words, unresolved pain, and lingering thoughts that won’t let you rest. The kind of hurt that doesn’t just sit in your mind but settles deep in your chest, making it hard to breathe, hard to close your eyes, hard to find peace.

It’s the loneliness that creeps in when the world goes quiet, when there’s no one left to distract you from the ache you’ve been trying to ignore all day. The silent battles, the overthinking, the memories playing on repeat—reminding you of things you can’t change, people you miss, and feelings you wish didn’t exist.

It’s lying there, staring at the ceiling, wondering if they even care, if they miss you the way you miss them, if the love you gave was ever truly appreciated. It’s the pain of knowing that no matter how much you try, some things are beyond your control, some hearts will never feel the same way, and some wounds take longer to heal.

But even on the heaviest nights, remember this—tomorrow is a new day. The pain won’t last forever, the heartache will eventually fade, and one day, you’ll go to sleep with peace instead of sorrow. Hold on. Brighter days are coming. 🖤

𝘿𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙗𝙚 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙧𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙤 𝙖 𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙜𝙚𝙧

𝘿𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙗𝙚 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙧𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙤 𝙖 𝙣𝙖𝙜𝙜𝙚𝙧..𝙗𝙚𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙧𝙨𝙩 𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙘𝙚, 𝙮𝙤𝙪’𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙤𝙣 𝙬𝙝𝙮.

It’s never easy for a wife who has been loyal and devoted to suddenly change. But in just one night, all the trust she built, all the love she gave, and all the sacrifices she made came crashing down.

At first, she was silent. Maybe she was waiting for you to explain. Maybe she was hoping you would understand her pain. But after countless sleepless nights filled with unanswered questions, after days of begging for your time and attention but being ignored, she reached her limit. She had no choice but to let it all out.

And now, here you are, complaining that she’s not the same woman you married. The once sweet and gentle wife has turned into someone who argues, questions everything, and raises her voice at you. But let’s be real...she didn’t change; you broke her.

You were the first one who changed in the relationship.

You were the first to break her trust.

You were the first to break your promises.

A wife doesn’t nag for no reason. She nags because she’s scared....scared that history will repeat itself, scared that she’s no longer enough, scared that no matter how hard she tries, she’ll never bring back the man she used to know.

A woman who gets tired of nagging will eventually fall silent. And when she does, that’s when it truly hurts.

Because when she stops complaining, she stops caring. When she stops asking questions, she’s no longer interested. When she stops demanding your time, she’s already given up.

So if your wife still nags, listen to her. Don’t wait for the day she stops talking, stops arguing, and simply says: “Never mind, I’m done.”

Sometimes, a wife nags because she’s still fighting for the relationship, still hoping things can be fixed.

If you broke her, don’t complain about her pain. Because when she finally walks away, you’ll realize that silence is the loudest goodbye.

Some people are irreplaceable

 Some people quietly enter your life and change everything. They see you in ways no one else ever has, touch parts of your soul you didn’t even know existed, and make you feel seen in a world that often looks right past you. But here’s the truth: once they’re gone, you’ll never find anyone quite like them again.

In a culture of speed and disposability, we’re conditioned to believe that everything—and everyone—is replaceable. Break it? Buy a new one. Lose someone? Move on. There’s always something or someone else around the corner, or so we’re told. But some people are once-in-a-lifetime. Their presence, their laughter, the way they make you feel like you’ve come home—these are things you can’t replace, no matter how many new faces cross your path.

The tragedy is, we often don’t realize their significance until it’s too late. We hurt the ones who matter most—sometimes out of selfishness, sometimes out of pride, and sometimes simply because we assume they’ll always be there. We let distance grow in silence, speak in anger, or worse, say nothing at all. We convince ourselves there’s time to make it right, that they’ll understand, that they’ll wait. But not everyone waits.

Some people leave quietly. They carry their pain with them, saying nothing as they slip away, leaving behind a silence louder than words ever could be. And when they’re gone, you’ll feel it. The void they leave is unmatched, and you’ll search for them in others, hoping to rediscover what they gave you. But you won’t. No one will ever shine in quite the same way they did.

The hardest part isn’t just losing them—it’s knowing you could have done more. That a careless word, a moment of neglect, or a failure to appreciate them was enough to push them away. Relationships are fragile, as delicate as the finest glass, and once shattered, no amount of regret can piece them back together.

So, treat the hearts in your life with care. Especially those rare ones who bring light, understanding, and warmth. Speak with intention, act with love, and never take their presence for granted. The rarest connections are also the most fragile. When they’re gone, no one can truly take their place.

Some people are irreplaceable. If you’re fortunate enough to find one, hold on to them. Don’t let them become the one that got away.

This is how you lose her when she wanted to be yours

This is how you lose her when she wanted to be yours..

You lose her when you stop paying attention to her. To her feelings. To the changes in her behavior. To the sadness in her eyes. To the things she's been subtly asking you to do but you've been oblivious to them all.

You lose her when you give her the feeling that her presence in your life is not important.That you're fine without her, that you don't need her in your life as much as she needs you.

When you make her feel that spending time with her is a burden not an obligation & not something that will make your day better.

Hard way in life

 one thing i've learned the hard way is that you don't have to please the right person.

ever since i've known the concept of romantic love, i have always been a partner pleaser.

i adjust according to their likes. i behave anxiously to avoid making them upset. i view their red flags as natural imperfections and not signs of toxicity.

i could be at war with myself just to give them peace of mind. i could keep my scream and silent cries to myself to keep them longer. and i could tolerate their shortcomings to avoid confrontations and unnecessary fights.

until someone came and made me realize that i could actually be unapologetically weird or be at my worst state, and still be worthy of staying with.

i could voice out boundaries, start arguments, demand change, and still be in an actual healthy relationship.

i realized that being in love does not mean that you have to forget about your worth just to prove your love to your partner. you could have a relationship that's grounded, worthwhile, and all the things that you hoped for without being a people pleaser.

because that right one does not need to be pleased to choose you.

Protect your peace

 Protect your peace. Be mindful who can access you. Don't argue with people who waste your time and energy - avoid them. 

Everyone doesn't deserve the best version of you. 

Protect yourself at all times & open up to the people who prove that they're trustworthy.

This is how you lose her when she wanted to be yours..

You lose her when you stop paying attention to her. To her feelings. To the changes in her behavior. To the sadness in her eyes. To the things she's been subtly asking you to do but you've been oblivious to them all.

You lose her when you give her the feeling that her presence in your life is not important.That you're fine without her, that you don't need her in your life as much as she needs you.

When you make her feel that spending time with her is an obligation & not something that will make your day better.

Make peace with situation

 The key to life is just letting things be. You can't sit around wondering why this happened or didn't. It doesn't matter. Make peace with the situation and move on.

Living two separate lives

 Right now, it feels like I’m living two separate lives. 

On the outside, I show the world a version of myself that seems completely fine. 

I smile, talk to people, and go through my daily routine as if everything is normal. 

But underneath, there’s a different reality, one filled with deep pain and emotions I keep to myself. 

My heart feels heavy, silently crying out for comfort and understanding. 

It’s hard to juggle these two sides, and every day, the weight of what I don’t say feels even heavier. 🖤🕊️🤍

Maturing is realizing you prefer a quiet life

 Maturing is realizing you prefer a quiet life. You don't chase after friendships or relationships, you're happy with the few friends you have, no drama, just working on being the best version of yourself, not comparing your life to others, and learning to enjoy your own company instead of relying on others to be happy.

From childhood till being Adult I've learned so much

 “leassons I've learned

— real friends are proud of you, not jealous

— peace is always better than revenge

— a private life with your favorite people is a happy life

— don’t be afraid to start all over again, you may like your new story better

— communication is good, but understanding is everything

— forget who forgets you

— if they don t see the value of having vou, don't try to convince them

— it gets better, you find better, you experience better, you become better

Spend time with your own

 “The most important relationship 

is the one you have with yourself.

You should trust yourself, motivate

yourself, take your own advice, 

inspire yourself, pick yourself up

when you’re sad, talk to yourself,

believe in yourself.”

Emotional safety is necessary

 When a man is gentle, soft, and consistently respects you, that's when your nervous system starts healing. 

That's why some women have that special glow when they're being loved right in a relationship. 

It's not the love itself; it's the emotional safety.

Surround yourself with people who uplift you

Surround yourself with people who uplift you, inspire you, and make you feel valued. Your worth matters.  Sometimes, the best way to find that worth is to leave a place where it's not recognized. Be brave enough to seek a supportive environment.

How beautiful it is to have a relationship

 How beautiful it is to have a relationship where you can openly talk about things. For example:

"Love, I got a little angry—sorry—but I didn’t like your attitude either. This kind of thing annoys me."

It’s not toxic to tell your partner what bothers you. It’s not toxic to share your problems and seek help from your partner. It’s not toxic to express concerns about something that makes you feel insecure.

What’s truly toxic is keeping your doubts and insecurities to yourself, avoiding communication out of fear of ruining the relationship.

Communication, honesty, loyalty, and the ability to accept mistakes are the foundational pillars of a successful relationship. Things should be talked about..

Introvert

 "You think you are an introvert because you like being alone.

But in reality, you just love being at peace. And you're actually extroverted around people who bring you peace."

When woman stops ✋️

 When a woman stops

          *caring😙

           *being jealous😏

           *asking questions😤

           *bothering about you😓

           *calling as usual😩

            *texting you first😒

            *going thru your phone😣

            *asking about female friends😖

             *having sleepless nights😢

And starts replying with

          *nah😛

           *its cool😌

           *oh okay😏

           *Ah fine😃

           *I see😙

           *oh yh😏

           *Am not mad😉

          *oh k...😷

Then know that....

Her

Last

Tears

Has

Dropped 

For 

You and

She no longer

Cares anymore😌😏

      Woman have the heart to love but once you break her ,u won't find her the same place u left her❤😌...

 Woman I hope I'm saying the truth🙄🙄🙄🤔

Please update your daily status with your partner

 Updating your partner is the most important thing in a relationship. Being busy is not a reason not to update your partner that took hours waiting for your response or updates. 

Entering a relationship is a big responsibility and if you can’t handle the bare minimum he or she asks for, then don’t enter a relationship. 

A real man or woman, no matter how busy he or she is, he or she will grab the opportunity to update you, because that’s how relationship works.

I'm always going to be here loving you with everything

 I'm going to love you 💘

I'm going to love you

in your weakest moments

to your strongest ones.

I'm going to love you

when you're happy

and I'm going to still love you

the most when you're sad.

Don't you understand?

I'm here, and I'm not going

anywhere. I want to love you,

each and every piece of you.

I want you with your imperfections

as much as I want you for you.

And I'm always going to want you,

I'm always going to be here

loving you with everything.

Life is for living

Life is for living. Open the windows. Dance in the kitchen as you cook. Play that music loud. Turn off the news. Check in with someone you love. Get some fresh air.

Watch the beautiful show nature is putting on for us right now.

Leave the negative online discussions behind.

Unfollow the chaos.

Feel alive again.

Don't give up on yourself

 It's okay not to be a fighter sometimes. You don't have to be strong all the time. It's okay to be sad, to be tired, to feel hopeless.

Just don't give up on yourself. 

Believe that one day, all the sadness in your heart will disappear. You're a good person, and you deserve happiness and peace.

Be brave enough to demand more

 Your entire life can really change in a year.. you just gotta love yourself enough to know you deserve more, be brave enough to demand more, and be disciplined enough to actually work for more.

Girls, take one solo trip in your life

 9 REASONS WHY EVERY WOMAN NEEDS AT LEAST ONE SOLO TRAVEL IN THEIR LIFETIME. ✨✈️📝💡

1. You experience the great sense of freedom.

2. You learn the best lessons for life that no one ever told you.

3. You’re truly being yourself .

4. You overcome the fear of being alone.

5. You know you better.

6. You look at the world differently.

7. You learn to appreciate your life.

8. You become a great storyteller.

9. You realize: There is no place like home.

Do something different for yourself, girls! ✨💗🧿💯

Love isn’t just about the present

 "Always Remember Why You Fell in Love"

Love isn’t just about the present—it’s about the journey. It’s about the first time your heart raced at the sound of their voice, the way their laughter became your favorite melody, and the comfort of knowing they were the one you wanted to share your life with.

Over time, life happens. Arguments arise, routine sets in, and challenges test your patience. But in those moments, remember why you fell in love. Was it their kindness? Their strength? The way they understood you like no one else? Hold on to those reasons.

Love isn’t perfect. It’s a choice—one you make every single day. When things get tough, don’t look for an exit. Look for a way back to the beginning. Revisit the little things—the late-night talks, the way they made you feel safe, the way they saw the best in you even when you didn’t see it in yourself.

Because true love isn’t just about staying when it’s easy. It’s about remembering the why when it gets hard. The spark that started it all is still there—you just have to nurture it.

Never forget why you started. Never stop choosing each other.

Moments of peace ✌️

 And one day, you realise it was never about the big things. 

You realise it's actually about the little moments that feel like magic. 

It's about the simplest of seconds that make you smile. 

It's about the genuine experiences that fill your heart with joy.

It's about the conversations that make you believe in kindness and compassion. 

It's about the hugs you want to hold for that little bit longer. 

It's about surrounding yourself with people that feel like sunshine. 

It's about the moments of peace and stillness that prove how beautiful the world can be. 

It was never about the big things.

I must refrain other's noises for silence

 I have removed my own chair from that table a long time ago. I closed the curtain where other people's story might slip away and reach me. I am done with that phase. I don't like hearing some gossips nor judgements about other's whereabouts. I am no longer there to receive such side stories. I'm growing up, and that's the best part of my growth. Where peace can be felt and childishness vanished. 

It's the peace that comes after not knowing anything about anyone. It's the kind of peace that I am willing to bargain with anything. Truly that when you have lesser connection, the more peace you will acquire. It's best to just read and analyze your own story, than to receive plot twists from anyone. 

This is the best lesson I've ever learned, that in order for me to have some silence I must refrain other's noises. 

To shine through their scars

 Remember to be kind - everyone is carrying something invisible...

The heaviest burdens are often carried by those who make it look effortless - remember to see beyond their smile. They're the ones who have mastered the art of dancing with their shadows, of breathing through storms while making it look like a gentle breeze. Their strength isn't in the absence of struggle, but in their grace under pressure, their ability to keep moving forward when standing still would be easier.

Look closer at those quiet warriors - the ones who lift others while carrying their own mountains, who offer light while navigating their own darkness. Their smiles aren't masks of deception, but badges of resilience. Their laughter doesn't deny their pain; it defies it.

So next time you see someone making the impossible look easy, remember: beneath that peaceful surface often runs the deepest current. Sometimes the strongest hearts are the ones that have been mended countless times, and the brightest spirits are those who've learned to shine through their scars.

Life humbles you

 Life humbles you. As you grow old, you stop chasing the big things and start valuing the little things. 

Alone time, enough sleep, a good diet, long walks, and quality time with loved ones. 

Simplicity becomes the ultimate goal.

Silent boundaries

 Silent boundaries.

It's not about an ego.

But when I feel ignored or unwanted. I choose to distance myself quietly, without needing to explain further.

Until someone treats you right

 Until someone treats you right, you will keep on believing that it’s normal for busy people to fail to show you how much they value you. You will keep on buying the excuses. You will keep on compromising. You will keep on putting your mental health aside. You will keep on believing that there are a lot of things that are more important than you.

Until someone shows up and makes you feel weird for how right you’re being treated, until someone does things for you without asking, until someone makes a way to see or hear you against the circumstances, until someone proves to you that it’s possible to hustle and still have time to check on you, remember you, and reassure you that you matter everyday,

Until someone treats you right, you’ll never learn that people make time for things that matter to them. People find ways for the people they love. And if you’re loved, you’ll learn this even without trying.

If you’re loved, you won’t even wonder if you’re loved.

Life

 Let them bicker, let them cry,

Let them chase the perfect lie.

Let them whisper, let them scheme,

Lost in shadows of their dream.

Let them stumble, let them stray,

Let them waste their days away.

Let them boast and let them blame,

Trapped within their endless game.

Let them hunger, let them yearn,

Lessons only they can learn.

But through storms that rage and call,

Do not let them make you fall.

Stand in light, embrace the true,

The only path is one for you.

Stay strong 💪 ✨️

 JUST KEEP GOING ...

Sometimes those around you will not understand your journey. That's Okay. It's not their path, it's yours. Remember, if you live for people's ACCEPTANCE you will die from their REJECTION.

So don't worry about people's opinions of you. God never told you to impress people, only to love them. Also, try to then make a conscious effort to sorround yourself with positive, nourishing, and uplifting people. People who believe in you, encourage you to go after your dreams, and applaud your victories.

Stay Strong.

Keep your life simple

 Don't complicate life. Missing somebody? Call. Wanna meet up? Invite. Want to be understood? Explain. Have questions? Ask. Don't like something? Say it. Like something? State it. Want something? Ask for it. Love someone? Tell them. Keep your life simple.

To all who are struggling

 To all who are struggling, to all who feel unseen—may you know that you are not alone. Somewhere, someone is thinking of you with kindness. 

May warmth find its way to you, may hope rise like the quiet light of morning, and may love, in some gentle way, remind you that you matter.  

What would it mean to you to feel truly seen and understood

 The worst loneliness isn’t being alone—it’s being misunderstood. It’s standing in a crowded room, surrounded by people who neither see nor truly know you. It’s the ache of invisibility, the feeling that your truest self is hidden, unacknowledged, and fading into the background.

This kind of loneliness isn’t about the absence of people—it’s the absence of connection. You crave to be seen, to have someone understand your quirks, dreams, and the depth of your soul. But when misunderstood, it feels like a glass wall separates you from the world, leaving you questioning whether you should change just to feel accepted. Yet even then, the loneliness remains, and the essence of who you are dims.

But there’s strength in holding onto your true self, even when unseen. Your uniqueness is your light, and it deserves to shine. One day, someone will look past the surface and truly see you, hear you, and love you for who you are. Until then, embrace your essence, nurture your soul, and trust that the right connections will come.

What would it mean to you to feel truly seen and understood?

Will you hold my hand for a while

 Will you… hold my hand for a little while?

I don’t need you to save me.

No need for you to fix anything.

No need for you to carry my pain.

But will you simply hold my hand?

I don’t need your words,

Your thoughts,

Nor your shoulders to carry me.

But will you sit here for a while with me?

Whilst my tears stream,

Whilst my heart shatters,

Whilst my mind plays tricks on me,

Will you, with your presence, let me know that I am not alone, while I wander into my inner unknown?

For my darkness is mine to face,

My pain is mine to feel,

And my wounds are mine to heal.

But will you sit with me here, while I courageously show up for it all, my dear?

For I am bright because of my darkness,

Beautiful because of my brokenness,

And strong because of my tender heart.

But will you take my hand lovingly when I sometimes journey into the dark?

I don’t ask for you to take my darkness away,

I don’t expect you to brighten my day,

And I don’t believe you can mend my pain.

But I would surely love it if you could sit for a while and hold my hand, until I find my way out of my shadowland!

So, will you… hold my hand until I return again?

Way to connect is to step back

I choose silence over arguments.  It's tiring to constantly explain when I'm not being understood.  Sometimes, the best way to connect is to step back and let the silence speak.

In the end, I chose to build a wall, around my once fragile heart

In the end, I chose to build a wall, around my once fragile heart. Not to forget, but to protect the remains of myself that are still intact.

Stone by stone, I piled up the wounds and lessons. Every crack in the wall is a story that I no longer want to hold.

However, if one day there is a patient hand that knocks without breaking, maybe this wall will slowly collapse. And I will learn to open my heart once again, without fear of being hurt.

♥️💐♥️

The love you give will come back to you

 "Do you notice that when you're happy, your wife is even happier? And when you're angry, she's even angrier?"

"That's how women work—they reciprocate. So if you make their life miserable, yours will be even more miserable.

But if you take care of them, love them the right way, and fill their life with happiness, they'll give it back to you twice as much.

So if you want a peaceful and happy family, start with yourself. Be a good husband, be a loving partner.

Because in the end, the love you give will come back to you—sweeter, more genuine, and filled with even more joy."

True love isn’t about perfection

 When a woman is consistently spoken to with softness and love, she transforms into a new version of herself—one that radiates abundance, confidence, and peace. The simple act of speaking to her kindly can rewire her nervous system, nurture her inner being, and awaken her feminine energy. This transformation, however, doesn’t happen overnight. It requires commitment, patience, and a deep understanding of the intricate layers of her being.

For a man to consistently embody this level of softness is no easy task. It demands immense effort, not only in understanding her but also in confronting his own inner world. As men, we carry traumas, fears, anxieties, and insecurities from childhood. These unresolved wounds can easily resurface in relationships, triggered by seemingly small things. It’s crucial to recognize that these triggers are not the fault of the woman; rather, they are opportunities for growth and healing.

When a man chooses to speak softly and love deeply, even in moments of conflict, he creates a safe space for a woman to heal. He becomes her sanctuary—a place where her soul can rest. This, in turn, begins to heal generational wounds, not just for her but also for their future children. The ripple effect of this love extends far beyond the present moment.

A woman who feels emotionally, mentally, and spiritually safe allows her feminine energy to blossom. She begins to trust her intuition, her creativity flows effortlessly, and she steps into her full potential. Her heart, once burdened by unspoken traumas, becomes lighter, and her joy becomes infectious. She doesn’t just exist—she thrives. And when she thrives, so does the relationship.

However, this kind of healing partnership requires a man to be deeply introspective. He must be willing to examine his past, uncover the roots of his pain, and take responsibility for his triggers. It’s not easy to admit that present reactions are shaped by unhealed wounds from the past. Yet, awareness is the first step toward transformation.

When a man embarks on his healing journey, he not only changes himself but also creates a profound shift in the woman he loves. His presence becomes more grounded, his words more intentional, and his actions more aligned with love. She feels this shift, giving her the courage to let her walls down. Together, they co-create a relationship rooted in trust, understanding, and deep emotional intimacy.

Supporting a woman’s healing also means learning to listen without judgment. She doesn’t always need solutions; sometimes, she just needs to be heard. In moments of vulnerability, when she shares her fears and insecurities, a man’s calm and loving response can heal wounds she has carried for years.

Consistency is key. It’s not enough to show softness on good days and withdraw it on hard days. True commitment means showing up with love even in difficult moments. This unwavering presence helps a woman feel secure, and security allows her to rest and rejuvenate fully.

So, dear man, when a woman feels loved and respected, she naturally becomes a magnet for abundance. Her energy shifts, her confidence grows, and her ability to attract positive experiences multiplies. This doesn’t just benefit her—it uplifts the man as well, creating a partnership where both individuals grow and flourish.

When a man takes responsibility for healing his own wounds to support a woman’s growth, he isn’t just healing her—he’s healing himself, their relationship, and future generations. This journey is far from easy, but it is one of the most rewarding paths a man can walk. True love isn’t about perfection; it’s about growth, healing, and walking the path of transformation together.

It's not about perfection; it's about perception

 Romanticize your LIFE

You don't need grand gestures or far-off destinations to add a bit of magic to your everyday life. Sometimes, it's about seeing the beauty in the simple, the wonder in the ordinary. It's about savoring the moments you might otherwise overlook, and finding joy in the smallest of things.

Start with how you greet the day. Let the morning light be more than just the signal to start your routine let it be a moment to pause and feel gratitude for a new beginning. Sip your coffee or tea slowly, letting its warmth fill you up, savoring each sip like it's a tiny luxury. Notice the world around you. The flowers blooming on your walk, the patterns of light and shadow dancing on the walls, the laughter of strangers passing by. These are all little gifts waiting to be unwrapped, each one a reminder that life is filled with moments of quiet beauty, if only we choose to see them. 

Treat the everyday like a treasure hunt for simple pleasures. Wear your favorite outfit, even if there's no special occasion.

Pick fresh flowers for your desk, or write yourself a love note just because. Slow down enough to feel the softness of your sheets, the coolness of a breeze, or the sweetness of your favorite dessert. These small acts are ways of telling yourself that your life is worth celebrating. Remember, you are the author of your story.

Romanticize the moments that make up your days, turning the routine into something remarkable.

 It's not about perfection; it's about perception.

When a woman speaks

 When a woman speaks...

Consider that everything is fine.

When a woman argues...

Still, believe that everything is fine.

But... 

When a woman becomes silent...

Understand that something is seriously wrong.

Silence for a woman is her last resort.

She explains, speaks, convinces, compromises, argues, and even cries.

But... 

When she feels that everything is pointless,

completely in vain,

she chooses silence and withdraws into herself.

Do you know when a woman appears calm on the outside?

It's when she is shattered inside,

broken and utterly devastated.

Never take a woman's silence lightly.

Because...

The woman who can love deeply

is also the one who finds it unbearable to live without the person she loves the most.

Behind every smile is a heart trying to heal

 I'm in pain, but I need to pretend that I'm okay. 

Each passing day, I have to hide the sadness and pain I feel. 

I can't show others the weight I'm carrying because I know there are people counting on me. 

So even when it's hard, I force myself to keep going. 

Behind every smile is a heart trying to heal, and behind every laugh is a soul fighting to stay strong. 🖤🕊️🤍

Genuine affection

 Perhaps it's not just physical desire you're feeling ...

it's a longing for human touch, genuine affection, intimacy, and meaningful connection. 

Your heart craves more than fleeting passion; it yearns for mental stimulation, warmth, honest conversations, and unfiltered vulnerability.

What you truly seek is a profound bond where masculine and feminine energies harmonise effortlessly. 

It's not merely about someone sharing your bed; it's about someone who touches the depths of your soul, ignites your inner fire, and sees you for who you truly are.

The soul knows its truth and its worth—and it will never settle for anything less than the richness, depth, and fulfilment it deserves.

The truth is I was never acting

 I gave you my love, my trust, my whole heart,

Believing we were building something real, something unbreakable.

I stood by you through storms, through struggles,

But in the end, it was you who shattered us.

I told you I was hurting,

Showed you the wounds only you could heal,

But instead of holding me closer,

You made me feel like I was the problem.

You knew my fears, my insecurities,

And still, you made choices that cut me the deepest.

While I fought for us,

You gave pieces of yourself to someone else.

Now I stand here, exposed to the world,

Painted as the woman who should just “move on.”

They say I’m dramatic, that I should forgive,

That love means looking past the pain.

But where was love when I needed honesty?

Where was love when I was crying myself to sleep?

Where was love when you looked into my eyes

And still chose to betray me?

Now you’ll say I’m playing the victim,

That I’m making you the villain.

But the truth is...I was never acting.

I was just a woman who loved too much,

And you're the man who didn’t know how to love me back.

May you find what you're looking for

 I wish everyone I've ever met on my journey nothing but peace and love. Whether we separated on good, bad, or indifferent terms, I wish you well, I wish you success. May you find what you're looking for.

I want to hear you tell stories

 Tell me about your day; how it went, or what are the things that you did. Tell me about the thoughts that had entered your mind while you were walking down a road going back to our home—the silliest, or even the most important ones. Tell me about everything you did just to spend your whole day, be it on your own or with your friends. Tell me about your work in the office, tell me about your stress, if ever you have it, and anything you want to say, or to vent. If you think that you will sound so boring, please, drop that kind of notion within your mind; that will never happen, really. I want to hear you tell stories, or even random stuff. I want to see the glimmer on your eyes once you share the moments that made you feel so happy, or the scenarios that excite your soul. I want to hear your laughter while you muster jokes, even though I already knew about its punchlines. I want to see your smiles, by the time you dream about the future we will have together. I even want to hear how you rant about the mishaps that you encountered, it's all fine.

You will never sound so plain, or dull, either uninterested to me. I will always wait for this moment in every single day of our lives;

because on those instances, all I can see is the genuineness of your soul; the raw and pure you, the real you, the unmasked version of you;

and the person that I fell in love with. And for each day, I will forever fall in love with you the same way I did when we first met.

I will never ask for help but I will remember who offered

I will never ask for help but I will remember who offered.

I will never ask for help, not because I think I can handle everything on my own, but because I have learned that people don’t always show up when you need them. and because I don’t want to be a burden. but even if I don’t ask for help, I will always remember the ones who offered. The people who noticed when something was wrong, even when i tried to hide it, and reached out just to remind me that I wasn’t alone. and even if I don’t say it out loud, I will always be grateful for those people.

So if life ever gives me the chance, I hope to return that kindness and be the person who offers without hesitation, the one who stays when everyone else walks away, who listens without judgment, and who offers kindness without expecting anything in return. Just as they did for me.

The capacity for change resides within you

 "You can change your routine, your interests, your career, your focus, your circle...

You can change,

Don't stay stuck, do better!"

Embrace the transformative power of change; it is within your grasp to reshape your life's path. Your daily habits, aspirations, profession, priorities, and relationships are all workable aspects of your existence. 

Don't allow yourself to remain stagnant in patterns that no longer serve you. Actively seek opportunities for growth, evolution, and improvement. 

The capacity for change resides within you; seize it and create a life that is more fulfilling and aligned with your hopes.  ❤☀

A mother's love

 Your mom is irreplaceable.

No one else can do even half of what she’s done for you, and no one can ever compare to her. She may be just one person, but she’s the one who means the most. Whether she’s here with you or watching over you from heaven, nothing in the world compares to a mother’s love. 🧡

We must learn to focus on warm energy, always

 It has been one of the greatest and most difficult years of my life. I learned everything is temporary.

Moments. Feelings. People. Flowers. I learned love is about giving- everything- and letting it hurt.

I learned vulnerability is always the right choice because it is easy to be cold in a world that makes it so very difficult to remain soft.

I learned all things come in twos: life and death, pain and joy, sugar and salt, me and you. It is the balance of the universe. It has been the year of hurting so bad but living so good, making friends out of strangers, making strangers out of friends.

We must learn to focus on warm energy, always. Soak our limbs in it and become better lovers to the world, for if we can't learn to be kinder to each other how will we ever learn to be kinder to the most desperate parts of ourselves.''

I'm at peace ✌️ 😌

There is nothing I love more than minding my own business, finding new ways to grow, and thriving in silence/private.

You say antisocial, I say at peace.

What a wrong person can do to you

 The wrong man in your life will teach you that you can do it all by yourself‼️

The right man will know you can, but will not let you. 

He will stand by your side, share the load and assist you in thriving together. 

Because in a true partnership, strength is found in unity, not isolation. And it's a real a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. This is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. 

She can't feel safe with you if you're not leading properly..

Listen when it's raining

Listen when it’s raining

As the water hits the ground

And you’ll hear a million secrets

That are hidden in that sound

The pitter patter raindrops 

Hold the whispered words inside

Of the people who have shared them

With the velvet midnight sky

The drops that pound the pavement

Spill out anger loud and harsh

They’re the words and thoughts of people

Who have cried beneath the stars

The rain that adds to oceans

And their vast capacious flow

Is the grief of people holding on

For fear of letting go

The waters flooding cities

Overwhelming homes and towns

Are the silent words of suffering

Entrusted to the clouds

And when the clouds are heavy

When our secrets fill the sky

When our thoughts are too oppressive

Then the Earth begins to cry

So listen when it’s raining

If you’re quiet then you’ll hear

All the secrets and emotions

That are muffled by Earth’s tears

Keep going on

 Keep walking forward, even when you feel like turning back...

Keep looking ahead... even when you feel like looking down.

KEEP going!

Good things are out there and are heading your way.

Friendship is the type of love that chooses you

Friendship is the type of love that chooses you.

It is a love that chooses you 

when there is nothing to make it stay.

A love that says 

"I have seen you at your highest,

I have seen you at your lowest 

and I will persevere. 

Not because I feel obligated to or because we signed a contract

but simply because you are you. Because you matter to me."

Friendship is the kind of love that doesn't need a lot of grand gestures 

but it's the kind that chooses to make small gestures that mean a lot.

It drives out of its way to drop off treats at your door when you're not feeling well.

It sends surprise notes in the mail to say "I'm thinking of you."

It sends messages without needing a reply when you're going through a tough time. Because it knows that you might not have the energy to respond. 

But it wants you to know that it's here.

Yes, friendship is the kind of love that chooses to exist.

The kind of love that chooses you for no other reason than the fact that

you are you.

And that's why 

it is so incredibly special.

Feel very free to reinvent yourself

 Don't be afraid to become someone new. You owe no one an explanation as to why you've chosen to see yourself in a different light at whatever point in your life that might be. Who do you want to be right now? Be that.

Feel very free to reinvent yourself.

I just hope

 I just hope that no matter how many times this world tries to turn me into a cold person, I remain soft and kind. may I still be full of love. may I still see hope in everything. I hope i'll never become something that once broke me. I want to be a reminder that even in a world that can be cruel, there is still room for gentleness. that love still exists, that hope still flickers, that kindness can survive, even in the hardest of places.

Live with Joy

 No matter what comes your way, keep living.

Don’t give up before your time.

Hold on to who you are—don’t let go of hope, don’t lose your path. Stay connected to yourself, feel alive in every part of you, from your skin to your soul.

Keep going: learn, explore, think deeply, read widely, build new things, imagine, create, speak your truth, write your story, chase your dreams, design your future.

Stay alive inside your heart and mind, but also embrace life around you. Let the world’s colors brighten you, let peace settle in, let hope guide you.

Live with joy.

Because the only thing you should never waste… is your life. 🦋🌻💗

Everyone has their own stories

 "Everyone's story is unique, and everyone has the right to tell their own story.  Respect boundaries, listen to others' experiences, and remember that there are many ways to see the world.

𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝗻𝗷𝗼𝘆 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲.💖

Learn how to make yourself enough for you without needing someone by your side.

Enjoy shopping, listening to music, singing, walking and sitting alone. Make yourself your one and only partner that no matter what will always be there for you. Loneliness isn't bad if you know how to make the best out of it. No one will feel or understand you except yourself. ✨🌻

Life is so colorful

 Dreams have no expiry date. And life has no pause button. So instead of wasting your time whining, use it to assess what knowledge and additional skills you can gain. Memories remind us that nothing last forever, you can be happy today and sad tomorrow, time is precious and should not be wasted. Embrace every moment, savor every experience, and fill your days with love, laughter, and purpose. The clock keeps ticking, so make your days count. Live life with full of aspiration , experiences and don't take it for granted. Life is so colorful when you embrace the truest happiness in our soul. ✨☘️♥️☘️

No matter how unclear the past may seem

 Sometimes, we search for closure in situations that leave us feeling lost or unresolved, but the truth is, the only closure we truly need is the peace that comes from having a good heart. Holding onto kindness and compassion, even when others may not understand or appreciate it, gives us the strength to move forward. We don’t always get the answers or apologies we expect, but staying true to ourselves, acting with integrity, and choosing love over bitterness is the ultimate form of closure. It’s a reminder that we are in control of our own peace, and that’s something no one can take away from us.

Having a good heart doesn’t mean ignoring the hurt or pretending everything is fine—it means choosing to heal through empathy and self-love. It’s knowing that, despite what may have happened, we still have the power to show up in this world with grace and kindness. Sometimes, the real closure comes from letting go of the need for validation and instead, finding contentment in simply doing the right thing. When you carry a good heart, you carry everything you need to move forward, no matter how unclear the past may seem.

Things that visited me

 Patience visited me

And it reminded me 

That good things take time to come to fruition

And grow slowly with stability 

Peace visited me 

And it reminded me 

That I may remain calm through the storms of life 

Regardless of the chaos surrounding me 

Hope visited me 

And it reminded me 

That better times lay ahead 

And it would always be there to guide and uplift me

Humility visited me 

And it reminded me 

That I may achieve it 

Not by trying to shrink myself and make myself less

But by focusing on serving the world and uplifting those around me

Kindness visited me

And it reminded me 

To be more gentle, forgiving and compassionate toward myself 

And those surrounding me

Confidence visited me

And it reminded me

To not conceal or suppress my gifts and talents 

In order to make others feel more comfortable 

But to embrace what makes me me 

Focus visited me

And it reminded me

That other people’s insecurities and judgements about me

Are not my problem 

And I should redirect my attention 

From others back to me 

Freedom visited me 

And it reminded me 

That no one has control over my mindset, thoughts and wellbeing 

But me

And love visited me 

And it reminded me 

That I need not search for it in others

As it lies within me.

Let patience shine upon your face

 Little eyes are watching near,

Learning from what they see and hear.

Not just words, but what you do,

Shapes the path they’ll follow too.

Show them kindness, teach them grace,

Let patience shine upon your face.

For every act, both big and small,

Becomes a lesson they recall. 🥹

It is always your choice.

 It is always your choice. 

To be quiet ... or defend yourself. 

To listen ... or to walk away. 

To complain ... or offer a solution. 

To be kind ... or hurt through words. 

It's always your choice. 

I hope you choose to pay forward something good.