Life isn't easy... Sometimes, stuff happens that isn't your fault, that you can't control. It doesn't mean you've failed or that or that you won't fail again. It just means that you have to fight harder.
You have to be stronger. You can't let the bad stuff win. You have to keep getting up and moving forward even when you're afraid to or you don't think you can.
You start dying slowly
If you do not travel,
If you do not read,
If you do not listen to the sounds of life,
If you do not appreciate yourself.
You start dying slowly:
When you kill your self-esteem,
When you do not let others help you.
You start dying slowly:
If you become a slave to your habits,
Walking every day on the same paths…
If you do not change your routine,
If you do not wear different colors,
Or speak to those you don’t know.
You start dying slowly:
If you avoid feeling passion
And their turbulent emotions—
Those that make your eyes glisten
And your heart beat fast.
You start dying slowly:
If you do not risk the safe for the uncertain,
If you do not chase a dream,
If you do not allow yourself,
At least once in your lifetime,
To run away from sensible advice.
Don't let yourself die slowly.
Do not forget to be happy!
I THINK IT'S BRAVE
I think it's brave that you get up in the morning even if your soul is weary and your bones ache for a rest
I think it's brave that you keep on living even if you don't know how to anymore.
I think it's brave that you push away the waves rolling in every day and you decide to fight
I know there are days when you feel like giving up but I think it's brave that you never do. 🥀🌷
"When someone has seen the worst parts of you and still decides to stay, that's when you know they are worth keeping. Not everyone is willing to stick with you when times get tough so appreciate those who remain by your side when you're at your worst because they are the ones who deserve you at your absolute best."
I hope every woman realizes that they are beautiful regardless of how negatively they perceive themselves.
You are beautiful regardless of your weight or how large your waistline is.
You're stunning regardless of your eyebags and freckles on your cheeks.
You're stunning regardless of your messy hair or the minor flaws you've identified that make you a burden to others.
You're flawed, and your insecurities keep dragging your confidence down into the depths of your emotions, but I hope you've realized that all of those flaws make you more interesting.
You're beautiful just the way you are, and believe it or not, some people are looking at you and secretly admiring every little blemish you despise on yourself.
Being beautiful does not imply that you have to be perfect all of the time, but it does imply that you are willing to accept your flaws to the point where you gradually realize that you look beautiful even with them.
Whatever happens, stay alive.
Don't die before you're dead.
Don't lose yourself,
Don't lose hope,
Don't lose direction.
Stay alive, with yourself,
with every cell of your body, with every fiber of your skin.
Stay alive, learn, study, think, read, build, invent, create, speak, write, dream, design.
Stay alive, stay alive inside you,
Stay alive also outside,
Fill yourself with colors of the world,
Fill yourself with peace,
Fill yourself with hope.
Stay alive with joy.
There is only one thing
you should not waste in life,
and that's life itself...
🌸
The older you get, the more you choose calm over chaos and distance over disrespect. Drama becomes intolerable to you and your peace becomes your ultimate priority. You start surrounding yourself with people who are good for your mental health, heart and soul. This is how you know you are growing.
𝗦𝗧𝗔𝗬 𝗧𝗥𝗨𝗘 𝗧𝗢 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙.💖✨💖
Don't worry about what people think of you or how they're trying to make you feel.
If people want to see you as a good person, they will.
If they want to see you as a bad person, absolutely nothing you do will stop them.
Ironically, the more you try to show them your good intentions, the more reason you give them to tear you down if they're determined to misunderstand you.
Keep your head up and be confident in what you do.
Be confident in your intentions and look forward instead of wasting your time with those who want to drag you back.
Because you can't change people's opinions, you have to believe that real change for you comes from within yourself, not from anyone else."
"This is my wish for you:
Comfort on difficult days,
smiles when sadness intrudes,
rainbows to follow the clouds,
laughter to kiss your lips,
sunsets to warm your heart,
hugs when spirits sag,
beauty for your eyes to see,
friendships to brighten your being,
faith so that you can believe,
confidence for when you doubt,
courage to know yourself,
patience to accept the truth,
Love to complete your life."
• “Perfection is a myth. We stumble. We mess up. We say things we don’t mean. We make wrong choices. But we rise. We reflect. We grow stronger. We keep going. We live and we learn.”
• “We’re human. We falter. We misstep. We hurt and heal. Mistakes shape us, lessons guide us, and resilience carries us forward. Life is about progress, not perfection.”
• “Imperfections make us real. We fall, we fail, we learn, and we rise again. Life isn’t about being flawless—it’s about growth and the courage to keep moving forward.”
To my husband,
i know you’re tired, i know you’re stressed out about work and the responsibilities of providing for our family, but i need you to know that we are so proud of you.
I want you to know that i see you. i see everything you do for us and our family. i choose you and forever will every single day and i’m proud to call you mine. 🤍♥️
Romanticize your life, take pretty pictures of the sky, feel like the main character, light up a candle, read books, go for a walk, listen to some relaxing music, watch your comfort movies and shows, go to the cinema, sit by the sea in silence, enjoy your favorite food and drink, have a nice planet or flower, buy yourself presents, take yourself on a date, do whatever you want, slowdown, be happy ..
Life is already hard enough, so don't be hard on yourself too.
"You deserve a healthy love with someone who sees you, hears you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. Someone who is consistent, communicates clearly, and creates a calm safe space to heal, grow and bloom together. A love you never have to heal from."
I’ve learned….
That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.
I’ve learned….
That when you’re in love, it shows.
I’ve learned ….
That just one person saying to me, ‘You’ve made my day!’ makes my day.
I’ve learned….
That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.
I’ve learned….
That being kind is more important than being right.
I’ve learned….
That you should never say no to a gift from a child.
I’ve learned….
That I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the strength to help him in any other way.
I’ve learned….
That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
I’ve learned….
That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
I’ve learned….
That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.
I’ve learned….
That life is like a roll of toilet paper.
The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
I’ve learned….
That money doesn’t buy class.
I’ve learned….
That it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
I’ve learned…
That under everyone’s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
I’ve learned….
That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.
I’ve learned….
That when you plan to get even with someone,
you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
I’ve learned….
That love, not time, heals all wounds.
I’ve learned….
That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
I’ve learned….
That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
I’ve learned….
That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
I’ve learned….
That life is tough, but I’m tougher.
I’ve learned….
That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
I’ve learned….
That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
I’ve learned….
That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her one more time before she passed away.
I’ve learned….
That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.
I’ve learned….
That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
I’ve learned….
That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, you’re hooked for life.
I’ve learned….
That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.
I’ve learned….
That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.
I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me.
She smiled and said to me..
“I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.
I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me..
I stopped fighting with my in laws..
I stopped fighting for attention..
I stopped fighting to meet public expectation of me..
I stopped fighting for my rights with stupid people..
I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight..
And I started fighting for
my vision,
my dreams,
my ideas and
my destiny.
The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful.”
Some fights are not worth your time.
Choose what you fight for wisely.
I think this phase of adulting is best described as the “It is what it is” era. It’s that space where you learn to let go of things, even when it hurts.
Sometimes, closure isn’t part of the deal, and you’re left carrying the weight of unanswered questions. There are moments when you replay past decisions, feeling the sting of missed opportunities and the weight of regrets that seem to stretch into the future. But despite all of that, life keeps moving forward, and somehow, so do we. We learn, often the hard way, to live with the scars of our choices, even as they remind us of what could have been.
Still, it’s not over—not by a long shot. There’s always time to recalibrate, to set goals that feel true to where you are now, even if they don’t erase what’s already happened. Those chances to prove your worth, to explore the roads you once ignored, are still out there waiting. Sure, it’s terrifying, and some days, it feels like you’re running against the clock.
But if there’s one thing we all know deep down, it’s that the future isn’t set in stone. It’s messy, unpredictable, and sometimes relentless, but it’s still yours to shape.
My silence means I am tired of fighting and now there is nothing left to fight for.
My silence means I am tired of explaining my feelings to you, but now I don't have the energy to explain them anymore.
My silence means I have adapted to the changes in my life and I don't want to complain.
My silence means I am on a self healing process and I am trying to forget everything I ever wanted from you.
My silence means I am just trying to move on gracefully with all my dignity.
Instead of saying, "i know what it feels like", let's say "i cannot imagine your heartbreak".
instead of saying, "you're strong, you'll get through this, let's say " you'll hurt, and I'll be here.
instead of saying, "you look like you're doing well, let's say, "how are you holding up today?"
instead of saying, "healing takes time", let's say "healing has no timeline".
instead of saying, "everything happens for a reason, let's say "this must feel so terribly senseless right now".
and when there are no words to say at all, you don't need to try and find some. love speaks in silences too.
When you think about it, there’s a quiet magic in saying “thank you.” While it’s a super simple phrase, it also holds immense power and can transform an ordinary moment into something special.
"How did you know it was love?"
"When all the background noise subsided... when the waves in my heart were finally tamed, when the endless rambling in my mind slowly stopped, and when even my busy days didn't feel so exhausting because his mere presence calms my very being.
I knew it was love when being together not only felt blissful but also calm, serene, and peaceful. It was love when we chose each other amidst every chaos that life threw at us.
It is love because by his side is where I belong. It is love because he's my home."
I'm slowly learning that even if I react, it won't [always] change anything, it won't make people suddenly love and respect me, it won't magically change their minds.
Sometimes it's better to just let things be, let people go, don't fight for closure, don't ask for explanations, don't chase answers and don't expect people to understand where you're coming from.
I'm slowly learning that life is better lived when you don't center it on what's happening around you and center it on what's happening inside you instead.
Work on yourself and your inner peace and you'll come to realize that not reacting to every little thing that bothers you is the first ingredient to living a happy and healthy life."
While you may not be everyone's cup of tea, you don't have to be.
Tea has never apologized for not being coffee, it simply gravitate towards those who chose it.
“Most of my life has been spent trying to shrink myself. Trying to become smaller. Quieter. Less sensitive. Less opinionated. Less needy. Because I didn’t want to be a burden. I didn’t want to be too much or push people away. I wanted people to like me. I wanted to be cared for and valued. I wanted to be wanted. So for years, I sacrificed myself for the sake of making other people happy. And for years, I suffered. But I’m tired of suffering, and I’m done shrinking. It’s not my job to change who I am in order to become someone else’s idea of a worthwhile human being. I am worthwhile. Not because other people think I am, but because I exist, and therefore I matter. My thoughts matter. My feelings matter. My voice matters. And with or without anyone’s permission or approval, I will continue to be who I am and speak my truth. Even if it makes people angry. Even if it makes them uncomfortable. Even if they choose to leave. I refuse to shrink. I choose to take up space. I choose honor my feelings. I choose to give myself permission to get my needs met. I choose me.”
Once you stop trying to prove points your life will be much more peaceful.
Let people say and think what they want. It has nothing to do with you.
LIFE IS SHORT, SO ENJOY IT!
The day barely starts, and suddenly it’s evening. Monday turns into Friday, and before we know it, the year is almost over. Time flies, and we lose loved ones—parents, friends—until we realize it’s too late to turn back.
So, let’s make the most of the time we have left. Find joy in the things we love, add color to our grey days, and appreciate the small moments that fill our hearts with love.
Let’s stop putting things off. Waiting for “later” means missing the best moments—family time, friendships, experiences. "Later" isn't guaranteed.
Life moves fast: priorities shift, health fades, kids grow, parents age, promises are forgotten. One day, it’s too late to do what we should have done or said.
The time is now. The day is today. Life is a short trip—so live it fully while you can, because there’s no turning back.
"Behavior is very important to me. I pay close attention to how someone speaks to me, their actions, and the tone they use in different situations.
If someone's behavior is not respectful—no matter how important they are—I perceive them as a person of low character, and my relationship with them will never be harmonious.
I feel at ease talking to people who communicate with humility and politeness, while I consistently keep my distance from those with unruly behavior."
A sunflower doesn't try to be a rose.
It doesn't apologise for not being a rose;
and it doesn't make itself smaller to avoid standing out.
It doesn't change the shape of its petals or the size of its seeds,
and it doesn't grow thorns just because a rose does.
It doesn't shrink itself or sharpen itself to fit in with the flowers that are different, simply because some people love roses. Instead, it stands tall, proud to be itself.
Because the sunflower knows that there are people out there who love the tall things, the yellow things, the bright things, and it knows that these are its people: the ones who will see it and appreciate it for who and what it is.
Yes, there are people out there searching for a sunflower to love; to cherish; to treasure.
And the sunflower knows
that its people will never find it,
if it insists
on looking like a rose.
𝐈𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞.
Fueling their mind.
Watering their thoughts.
Showing them grace and asking for forgiveness when we’ve fallen short.
𝐈𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞.
Building healthy relationships.
Teaching them manners.
Showing them the power of kindness.
𝐈𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞.
Using words that honor.
Speaking life into our situations.
Refusing to give up when the going gets tough.
𝐈𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞.
Prioritizing the right things.
Making memories in the mundane.
Feeling our emotions rather than bottling them up.
𝐈𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞.
Being there for them.
Opening the lines of communication.
Getting to know them more each and every day.
And each and every day, I pray that home will be a place they remember as learning, laughing, growing, forgiving, and setting a strong foundation for many years to come.
So, tell me about your dream ..
- My dream?
I want to live in a cozy house with big windows that protect me from the world but still let me watch it, and every morning the golden light of sun drips on the curtains and makes me feel warm inside and out.
To stare at the clouds everyday just to remind myself that everything changes and life goes on.
To wake up someday with a heart free of pain, a mind free of worries and eyes free of tears, and to write positive thoughts in my diary instead of writing sad words and depressing feelings.
I want my future home to be filled with books, flowers, plants, fairy-lights, candles and aesthetic vintage things, with my favorite melodies and music playing in the background all day long.
To make a "escape from reality" corner and run to it when things get hard, to have calm days, and quiet nights.. to own a place I can call "Home .. Sweet Home".
To stop thinking about who left me, and forget all the painful memories to start focusing on myself, only myself.
And one day, to look at the night sky with happy eyes and see the stars shining brighter than ever, to feel that warmth in the cold days, covered by my blankets, while listening to the sound of rain.
To work in a job that suits me, to travel to all the countries I wished for my whole life, to see new places and go to many different adventures then, get back to my home and write notes about those exciting moments.
I want the air to smell like a delicate mixture of baking, vanilla and coffee, while I'm reading a book, to sit in the balcony and talk about life, movies, shows and everything with my bestfriend, the moon.
I just want the peace of having my own safe space in this world, to be exactly as I imagine.
That feeling when you're trying so hard to keep it together and not show how much it hurts, while the constant breakdowns are literally killing you inside. it's like you're screaming for help but no one can hear you
Being at peace means that you no longer have the need to prove anything to anyone. You don't need outside validation, you don't need to tell your side of the story anymore, even when you hear a dozen rumors that tell an untrue version. You used to guard your heart, but now you guard your peace, because you know your peace is worth more than proving yourself to anyone.
You know what, allow yourself to feel what you feel. I've been feeling pretty positive today and there's always that lingering feeling in the back of my head that this is only of time and not true because I know that I will feel sad and demotivated again. So? who cares?
Feel what you wanna feel, allow yourself to be happy and allow yourself to be sad. It's okay not to be happy all the time. Don't dramatize it and try to look forward: you will be okay again. and when u do just embrace it.
If I could give you one piece of advice to hold in your heart, it would be to appreciate every second you have with the things that you love; be they places, objects, or people.... Because there is a last time for everything and you don't always know that it's the last time when you're in it.
There will be a last time you see a sunrise, a last time you taste ice-cream and a last time you smell a rose. There will be a last time you enter every room, a last time you hold every pet, and a last time you hear a loved one's voice.
Sometimes we know we're in those moments and we can savour every second of them - but so often we don't know until that moment is gone and it's too late to go back and relive it.
So hold onto those moments while you have them.... live inside them.... appreciate them to their fullest every time so you'll never regret taking them for granted one day when they're gone.
In the quiet moments when others paint you with colors that aren't yours, remember: your truth runs deeper than their misunderstandings. Like a tree whose roots know the earth beneath, even when its branches are mistaken for shadows, your essence remains unchanged by others' perceptions.
There will be days when the world will try to reshape your story, when whispers will attempt to rewrite your character. In these moments, let your heart be your compass, not their words. The greatest strength lies not in shouting your defense to the winds, but in holding your truth close, like a precious flame that burns steady even in the storm.
Know yourself with such depth that others' misconceptions become mere ripples on the surface of your deep waters. Your worth isn't measured by how well you're understood, but by how faithfully you honor your authentic self. Stand firm in your truth, like a lighthouse that needs no validation from the ships it guides.
For in the end, it's not the noise of misunderstanding that defines you, but the quiet certainty in your soul that knows exactly who you are, what you stand for, and the beauty of your purpose - seen or unseen, understood or not. This is your power, your peace, your truth.
"Fall for a woman who doesn’t need you.
One who has rebuilt herself from nothing,
more than once, with her own two hands.
One who is delicate like fire,
who could scorch earth
or warm your soul.
Fall for a woman who isn’t afraid to burn
for what she believes in,
and refuses to force
what isn't meant to be.
Fall for a woman who lights up
when impassioned,
who still romanticizes life,
and is awed by the beauty of the moon.
Fall for a woman who isn’t afraid
of who she’s becoming,
and expects the best of everything.
One who refuses to settle,
and will challenge you to grow
in ways you never knew.
Fall for a woman who is so loyal,
so faithful and determined,
that there’s no room in her life
for anyone who isn’t.
Fall for a woman who sees your pain
and imperfections
as something to pour her love into.
One who accepts people
for what they show her,
not what they promise or claim.
Fall for a woman who values her time so much
she won’t waste it anywhere it isn’t appreciated.
Fall for someone who will inspire greatness
in you and who moves you in the direction
of your dreams.
When you find her,
be there entirely,
bravely,
wholeheartedly.
Give her your hands,
your energy, patience, and attention.
And show her there is no place safer
than the place right beside you.
Then, no matter what,
don’t let her down."
I came across a quote that said:
You'll always be brave in someone's mind and coward in another's, strong to one and fragile to another, good to one and terrible to another.
You will be seen as annoying to one and comforting to another.
Some will feel anxious around you and some will find peace in your company. Some will see you as "too much" while others will see you as a gift.
The world will look at you from their subjective point of view.
The world is never going to agree on a definition of who you are.
So you might as well live the way that feels true to your heart
It's okay..
You'll be okay.
Maybe not now but one day you will.
Don't be so hard on yourself. You're doing your best already.
Maybe you're feeling so overwhelmed and exhausted. Maybe you feel like giving up everything all at once because you just had enough..
But you're stronger than this.
I believe in you.
Don't believe it.
If anyone tells you that once you meet the love of your life, you'll never feel attracted to someone else again, they’re lying to you.
As long as you're alive, you’ll keep seeing people who are more attractive, intelligent, godly, or even better in certain areas than your partner. You’ll meet people who seem richer, more humble, or more submissive—the very things you might desire in a life partner.
They’ll even shine in areas where your partner has flaws.
But here’s the thing: behind that attractive person who’s tempting you to reconsider your partner, there are flaws. And trust me, their flaws might be even worse than what you’re dealing with now.
Attraction can be deceiving because it often focuses on what's new or unfamiliar, rather than on what's real. You might feel excited by someone’s charm, their confidence, or the way they seem to “get you.”
But without knowing the whole picture, that attraction can quickly fade when reality sets in. Some of you already can relate to this.
When I look at others, I see their beauty and how amazing they are. But I also remind myself that they’re human. They've got flaws, and many of those flaws would probably make me not want to be with them, no matter how great they seem upfront.
No one is perfect, and in a relationship, what matters is whether you and your partner can accept each other’s imperfections and grow together.
You’ll come across people who make you feel like your partner isn’t cutting it. But if you spent as much time with them as you have with your partner, you’d start to see their flaws too—and sometimes, their baggage is way heavier than what your partner carries.
What you’re attracted to now could just be the surface.
Deep, meaningful relationships are built on shared experiences, trust, and a deeper understanding that only comes with time. You can’t compare that to a brief moment of attraction.
If the flaws your partner has are things you can live with, and you’ve had a good relationship overall, stay focused on what you have. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Sometimes, it only looks fresh but something is eating it from the inside, and it’s just a matter of time before it starts to wither.
That seemingly perfect person could be dealing with issues that will eventually surface and bring far more challenges than you’ve ever imagined.
Sadly, many people who’ve allowed themselves to be distracted by momentary attraction are now living with regret. They let someone new and exciting draw them away from the solid foundation they had with their partner, only to discover that the “greener grass” was an illusion.
The person who once seemed perfect turned out to have flaws they couldn’t live with, leaving them to realize they’d given up something real for something that wasn’t. Attraction alone doesn’t sustain a relationship, and when the thrill wears off, what’s left is often emptiness, leaving them wishing they had stayed where they were appreciated and loved.
Shift your focus to what your partner is doing right because whatever you focus on, you magnify.
If all you see is what they’re doing wrong, you’ll blow it out of proportion and eventually let it ruin what you’ve built.
But if you choose to focus on their goodness, your relationship will thrive. Gratitude is powerful. When you intentionally notice and appreciate the good in your partner, it strengthens your bond and builds resilience in your relationship.
Learn to appreciate what you have, and build each other up.
When you’re pouring into your relationship, you won’t have time to compare your partner to anyone else because you know their value and how willing they are to fight for the relationship.
Relationships aren’t about finding someone without flaws; they’re about finding someone who is committed to growing with you, even through imperfections.
Compliment each other daily. Take every opportunity to remind them how much they mean to you. Sow seeds of appreciation and contentment.
When you water what you already have, it will bloom and flourish in ways that no outside distraction can ever replace.
Don’t mess up a good thing just because you got distracted. Remember, fleeting attraction isn’t worth losing something real.
My father made a good point when he said:
when a flashlight grows dim or quits working, you don't throw it away, you change the batteries.
when a person messes up and finds themselves in a dark place. do you cast them aside? of course not, you help them change their batteries!
some need AA batteries. attention and affection; some need AAA. attention, affection and acceptance.
some need C. compassion.
some need D. direction.
and if they still don't seem to shine. simply sit with them quietly and share your light.
You don't have to be extraordinary to live a meaningful life there's beauty in the steady rhythm of being yourself, in waking up each day and embracing your place in the world without the need for applause or recognition.
The small, quiet victories completing a task, sharing a laugh, or simply making it through a tough moment are what truly shape us.
These moments remind us that fulfillment doesn't always come in grand gestures but in the way we choose to show up for ourselves and others, one step at a time...
Artist Credit: Mila Marquis
It’s so easy to love someone when things are perfect and everything feels wonderful.
But loving someone when things are difficult, when they’re not perfect, when they’re making mistakes, showing flaws, and struggling—that’s when you truly see how deep your love really is.
Anyone can love someone who’s saying and doing all the right things, meeting your expectations, and seemingly has it all together. But to love someone at their lowest, to love them despite their brokenness, when they feel lost—when you’re willing to stand by them no matter how challenging or difficult things get—that kind of love is far more beautiful.
That kind of love is far more meaningful.
Thank you for loving me in both seasons : when life is good and when life is hard. Thank you for embracing every part of me, accepting my flaws, forgiving my mistakes, and helping me grow into the best version of myself.
The biggest lesson
I've learned is:
It is okay.
It's okay for me to be kind to myself. It's okay to be wrong.
It's okay to get mad. It's okay to be flawed. It's okay to be happy. It's okay to move on.
Enjoy your family right now.
don’t wait for life to get easier,
don't wait for the paycheck to grow,
don’t wait for the dream house.
time doesn't slow down or wait for anyone, and these little moments won't last forever. look around and you'll see that you once dreamed of the very life you're living today.
the busy home, the playing kids, the endless to-do list..
it's all part of the beautiful life you've been creating.
don’t wait to enjoy it. 🩵✨🥰
Find someone who makes life feel lighter—someone who calms your racing thoughts without even trying, just by being there.
The kind of person who doesn’t make you question your worth but reminds you of it, even in the smallest ways. It’s not about big, dramatic declarations but the quiet consistency of someone who sees you, supports you, and lets you be yourself without fear of judgment.
On the hard days, when everything feels too heavy, they’ll stay. Not to fix you or force you to talk, but to sit with you in the silence, offering comfort in ways that feel natural and real. Love isn’t about perfection or always having the right answers—it’s about showing up, even in the messy moments.
It’s about choosing each other, not just when it’s easy, but when it matters most. That’s the kind of connection we all deserve.
"One day you will walk this path without me," her grandmother said.
"And when that day comes remember this - there was a time I used to walk this path with my grandmother, and a time she used to walk it with hers.
Though people come and go the presence of their love remains forever etched in the footprints they leave behind; the sound of their laughter will always echo in the wind; the warmth of their embrace will always be felt in the gentle rays of the sun warming your soul; the light they brought to your life will always shine in the brightest stars illuminating the night sky.
So, know you will never truly walk alone for those who came before you walk forever by your side; they live forever in your heart."
You are kind, the world is not. You are beautiful, society is not. What you think about yourself is more important than what people think about you. Do not feel sorry for being who you are and never be afraid to be judged.
It is not your job to impress people around you. You don't necessarily have to try hard just to fit in the society. In order to feel belonged, you also have to believe and accept yourself. You alone can make the world notice you.
To be accepted, it doesn't require you to be perfect. You only need to be yourself. Darling, let the world witness your kindness and let the society recognize your own beauty.
At the end of the day, I'm a good woman. I am not perfect by any means but my intentions are good, my heart is pure and I love hard with everything I've got because of those things... I'm worth it. Always have been and always will be.
I wish the world was kinder.
A little softer on those who are healing, grieving, waiting,
or just starting to understand how lonely the road can be.
May we greet one another with the same kind of light that we ourselves are searching for.
Just because we look strong doesn't mean we feel strong -
we just carry the heavy things well.
When you love the right person, you learn that people make a move for the people they love without being asked.
It’s not about being romantic, it’s them being romantic for you even if they believed they’re otherwise. It’s not about being used to arranging surprises, it’s about them finding every way to make you feel special. It’s not about them loving all of the things you love, it’s about them giving it a try even when it’s unfamiliar because they know it matters to you. It’s not about having much, it’s about how they make ways to make you happy with what you both have. It’s not about having a lot of free time, it’s about setting a part of their day only for you no matter how occupied. It’s not about being good at words, it’s about their words coming out naturally good when it’s their heart that speaks.
When you love the right person, you learn that people give extra effort for the things they want—to win, to keep, to last forever.
It has been one of the greatest and
most difficult years of my life.
I learned everything is temporary.
Moments. Feelings. People. Flowers.
I learned love is about giving. Everything.
And letting it hurt.
I learned vulnerability is always the right choice because it is easy to be cold in a world that makes it so very difficult to remain soft.
I learned all things come in twos.
Life and death. Pain and joy. Salt and sugar.
It is the balance of the universe.
It has been the year of hurting so bad but living so good.
Making friends out of strangers.
Making strangers out of friends.
We must learn to focus our warm energy.
Always.
Soak our limbs in it and become better lovers to the world.
For if we can't learn to be kinder to each other how will we ever learn to be kinder to the most desperate parts of ourselves...
There are people who enter your life and quietly change everything. They see you in ways no one else ever has, touch parts of your soul you didn’t even know existed, and make you feel understood in a world that rarely pauses to notice. But here’s the catch: once they’re gone, you’ll never find anyone quite like them again.
In a world obsessed with speed and disposability, we’ve been taught to believe that everything—and everyone—is replaceable. Break it? Buy another. Lose someone? Move on. There’s always something newer, better, waiting just around the corner—or so we’re told. But the truth is, some people are once-in-a-lifetime. Their presence, their laughter, the way they make you feel at home—these are things you can never replicate, no matter how many new faces come into your life.
The tragedy is, we often don’t realize their value until it’s too late. We hurt the people who mean the most to us—sometimes out of selfishness, sometimes out of pride, and sometimes simply because we think they’ll always be there. We say things in anger, or worse, we say nothing at all, letting distance creep in like a shadow. We assume we’ll have time to fix it, that they’ll understand, that they’ll wait. But not everyone does.
Some people walk away quietly. They carry their hurt without making a scene, leaving behind a silence that speaks louder than words ever could. And when they’re gone, you’ll feel it. The emptiness they leave behind is unlike any other. You’ll search for them in others, hoping to find their magic in a new face, a new voice—but you won’t. No one else will ever shine quite the same way they did.
The hardest part? It’s not just losing them—it’s knowing that you could have done more. That a careless word, a moment of neglect, or a failure to show gratitude pushed them away. Relationships are fragile, like the finest glass, and once broken, no amount of regret can make them whole again.
So, be careful with the hearts you touch. Handle them with kindness and care, especially those who bring light into your life. Speak with intention, act with love, and never take them for granted. The rarest connections are also the most delicate. When they’re gone, no substitute will ever fill the space they leave behind.
Some people are irreplaceable. If you’re lucky enough to find one, don’t let them slip away.
I don't dream about having the perfect life..
I just think about waking up somewhere safe.
I think about having a pretty kitchen, cozy space, and a nice balcony. Books on shelves. Some flowers and plants. The smell of baking and coffee is always around. Warm movie nights and beautiful music playing in the background..
I could be happy with something peaceful, simple and quiet.
Choose someone who makes you feel loved. A person who means what they say and shows it through their actions. Choose someone who genuinely cares for you, not just with words, but with effort.
Someone who doesn’t make you question your worth or beg for attention. The right person will never leave you wondering if you are enough—because they will make it clear that you are. They will give you the love, time, and loyalty you deserve. You won’t have to chase after them or fight for their effort, because when someone truly values you, they will show up for you.
Always choose the person who brings peace, respect, and kindness to your life. That’s the kind of love you deserve...☘️🌷☘️✨
A big part of being happy is being excited. Be excited for everything making a cup of tea, seeing a friend, the next episode of your favorite show, buying something you've been saving up for, sunsets, traveling, falling in love. Live a life you are excited about.
Every man wishes he had a good woman, but what many don’t realize is that good women with good hearts come with real emotions. They feel deeply. They love hard. They are incredibly affectionate and passionate, pouring their whole soul into the people they care about.
Good women are fiercely loyal, but their soft hearts mean they can also be easily frustrated, upset, or emotional when things feel off. It’s not a weakness—it’s because they care so much.
Yes, they might have their moody moments, but one thing is certain: when a good woman loves you, she’ll give you a kind of love that’s rare and precious. It’s the kind of love you won’t find anywhere else. Treasure it.
Sometimes, when everything gets too overwhelming, I just shut myself off.
I ignore the calls, let the messages sit unread, and retreat to a place where I can just be alone. It’s not about running away from anyone – it’s about giving myself space to breathe. There’s a strange comfort in stepping back from the world, letting myself sit in the quiet, and just feeling whatever I need to feel without explaining it to anyone.
I think we all have days like that – when even the smallest noise feels like too much. So I let myself turn it all down. I take time to sort through my own thoughts, to just sit with what’s weighing on me.
It’s not easy, but sometimes, facing it alone brings a kind of calm that nothing else can. And slowly, piece by piece, I find my way back to myself, a little stronger, a little clearer.
When you open your mouth to judge a mother, bite your tongue first.
Pregnancy hurts.
Birth hurts.
Breastfeeding hurts
Watching your baby cry hurts
Not sleeping well, it hurts.
Serving everyone and being the last hurts.
Not having time for yourself - hurts.
The mother needs help, not to be criticized,
she needs love and not to be judged,
she takes care of everyone, but she needs to take care of herself as well.
Motherhood is not as gentle as it seems, motherhood is beautiful, yes, but it is very difficult.
What's beautiful is the love that a mother has for her child, that love is capable of enduring everything
Try to learn to accept the situation whether it is difficult or easy. No more revenge, no more fighting for attention but fight for yourself. Strive to learn simplicity over complexity. You are unique. Prepare yourself✊
Sometimes the easiest way to revenge is innocence, avoidance, forgiveness. You are too far to catch up💝
That feeling when you're trying so hard to keep it together and not show how much it hurts, while the constant breakdowns are literally killing you inside. it's like you're screaming for help but no one can hear you
Life changes us. It teaches us to adjust, stop, and reevaluate. Within the rooms of our mind, we can shake out the dust, rearrange the furniture, and wash the windows so we see clearer. We might find a few new rooms. You know, like secret passages that lead up and down and sideways. What's there? I'm curious. This evening, though, I walked straight inside my heart's room. There, it is extra kind. Busy is tucked away. It's time for my soul to pin stars to the night's canvas and dream.
A man cannot be a good father without first being a great husband, because children learn from what they observe. As a father, your actions towards your wife shape the foundation of how your children view relationships, respect, and love.
Please remember, your wife is not just your partner; she is also the co-creator of the future. Her emotional well-being, her peace, and her joy directly influence the kind of environment your children grow up in. Ignoring her emotions, dismissing her feelings, or invalidating her efforts will create cracks in the foundation of your family.
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"Private people will post all day and still have a life you know nothing about"
This is a reminder that not everything people share reflects their full reality. It teaches us to respect boundaries, avoid assumptions, and not judge others based solely on what they post. It’s also a reminder to value your privacy—share what you’re comfortable with, but keep certain aspects of your life just for yourself. Not everything needs to be public.
Private people don’t share everything about their lives, even if they post a lot. Don’t assume you know everything about someone, and it’s okay to keep some things private for yourself.
I can't fully remember how many times I held back myself to speak because I thought it would be better for everyone.
I always thought of peace, but my silence only brings chaos under my chest.
It's true that I am not vocal but don't take this as an advantage to mute what I feel. Because words aren't the only thing that expresses what I feel, my actions too, but I guess, you're all blind to recognize them.
It's after fifty that you look back and realize that the time you have left in front of you is less than the time you've lived.
It's after fifty that you no longer have time to waste with those who have never had time for you.
It's after fifty that you rummage through your desires and try to make those dreams that you still have locked away in drawers come true.
It's after fifty that you need lightness, ballast is no longer for you
and then you eliminate everything that keeps you tied to things and people that are no longer good for you.
It's after fifty that you take care of your soul like a little flower that grows on the asphalt even though you know it will die.
It's after fifty that you start living seriously again, thinking less and acting for your own good and doing only the things that make you feel good
everything else will only be an illusory side dish...
When you hurt genuinely kind-hearted individuals, they won't react impulsively or dramatically. Instead, they'll quietly bear the pain, maintaining their warmth and compassion. However, beneath the surface, a subtle shift occurs. They'll begin to create distance, not out of anger, but as a gentle acceptance of the changed dynamic.
Over time, they'll establish boundaries, slowly walking away without fanfare or recrimination. These individuals, who once valued and trusted you deeply, will quietly protect their emotional well-being. Though they won't lose their inherent kindness, their perception of you will forever change.
Remember, losing the trust and affection of a kind-hearted person is irreparable. Treasure them while you can, for once they're gone, they're truly gone.
I want to say sorry if there are days when I seem distant, if it feels like I’m not the same person you know.
There are moments when I just need space to sit with my thoughts and face the parts of me that feel broken. It’s not easy admitting that I’m struggling, that I don’t always have the strength to show up for everyone, but please know it’s never about you. I’m just trying to figure out how to keep going when I feel like I’m falling apart.
I’m not invincible. I feel the weight of everything too, and sometimes it leaves me weak and overwhelmed. But even on those days, I remind myself that it’s okay to pause, to let the cracks show, because that’s how I’ll heal.
I’m learning that it’s not weakness to acknowledge my pain—it’s courage. And little by little, I know I’ll get stronger, not by pretending I’m fine, but by honoring every part of my journey.
I just don't think I'm looking for the big moments in life anymore. It's more the simple ones that make for a beautiful day now.
Like the sun rising and the moon dancing and the wind singing and the leaves grooving, and kids laughing and music playing, butterflies twirling, heart-smiles staying...and me being present to witness all these little beautiful things.
This is what makes for a happy and peaceful life, I'm sure..
You don't have to be extraordinary to live a meaningful life there's beauty in the steady rhythm of being yourself, in waking up each day and embracing your place in the world without the need for applause or recognition.
The small, quiet victories completing a task, sharing a laugh, or simply making it through a tough moment are what truly shape us.
These moments remind us that fulfillment doesn't always come in grand gestures but in the way we choose to show up for ourselves and others, one step at a time...
And I want you to know that I will be screwed up, I will shut you off, and I will show my demons. I will become a mess, I will go through downfalls, and I will become less of myself.
But I want you to stay by my side when I do. I want you to constantly hold on to me even when I am slowly turning away to that person you loved most. Because I won't run on another arms but yours. I won't spend another fight, another promise, or another run-away with anyone else. I won't share a night, a future, and a piece of me to someone not you.
Please never stop seeing the good in me, because I am just a person trying to deal with my issues, with the world, and with everything. I am just a person who wants assurance that I am still loved even in my times of chaos, coldness, and breaking apart.
Maturing is realizing you can't be around everybody.
Some people are carrying brokenness they refuse to heal, & no matter how much love or loyalty you give, broken glass will always cut you. It's not about being better than anyone-it's about protecting your peace, your growth, & your future.
You can't build solid foundations with people who only know how to destroy. It’s not your job to fix or bleed for anyone. Protect your peace. Choose people who lift you up.
Growth means not everyone can come & that’s okay. ❤🌻🦋
"Have you ever noticed that when someone can't face their own faults they make you the problem instead? It's easier for them to paint you as the villain than to confront their own mistakes or take responsibility for their actions. By placing the blame on you they create a convenient distraction from the truth they've been avoiding. But no matter how much they deflect or shift the narrative it doesn't change the reality of their behavior.
Their actions are a reflection of their own inner struggles and insecurities, not a measure of your worth or who you are.
You don't have to carry the weight of their unresolved issues. Those belong to them, not you."
Yes, always remember that when someone struggles to acknowledge their own faults, they often resort to shifting blame onto others, painting them as the problem rather than facing their own shortcomings.
By casting you as the antagonist, they evade the discomfort of confronting their mistakes or owning up to their actions.
This tactic serves as a convenient distraction from the truths they seek to avoid.
Despite their attempts to deflect or distort the narrative, the reality of their behavior remains unchanged.
Their actions stem from their internal battles and insecurities, reflecting their struggles rather than defining your value or identity. You need not bear the burden of their unresolved issues; those burdens belong solely to them, not to you.
"To anyone out there feeling lost or overwhelmed—keep pushing forward. It might feel like you're stuck in place, like things are falling apart, but this moment won’t last forever.
Every storm passes, and brighter days are ahead.
So hang in there, no matter how tough it feels right now. You’ve got this! 💪🏾
They say, "If it's meant to be, it'll happen."
But someone says, "Sometimes, you have to make it happen."
They say, "Never go to bed angry."
But someone says. "Sometimes, it's okay to sleep on it."
They say. "You should always be yourself."
But someone says. "Sometimes, you have to adjust to make a relationship work."
They say, "If they really loved you, they'd never hurt you."
But someone says, "Love isn't perfect, it's messy and real.
In the end, it's not about listening to everyone else's advice. It's about trusting what feels right for you. People will always have something to say, but only you know what your heart needs, what your mind believes, and what your soul craves.❤️❤️❤️
To my future self,
Don’t worry. Things will get better. Things are getting better. And soon, you’ll find yourself again in the harmony of living with all those things you work hard on. Hang in there a bit while I am still fighting to have the life we ever wanted. Don’t lose hope because you are the only reason for me to keep going. I need you to be ready to witness all the fruits of the hardship and efforts I poured my all to. I may move slower than others but I know at the end of this you’ll be the proudest one I made it all happen. So please, be patient with me, I’m working on our present to have the future we both desire and deserve to live on.
If you wait awhile,
It will all make sense
Too often we try to rush
the process.
The answers will arrive
when the time is right.
Adopt the art of
patience.
Have faith that what
you are seeking
will be revealed
in the appropriate moment.
Until then,
drop all expectations
and remain in the present
That, which already holds
so much, to be ingested
and savoured.
Too often we rush to
the next thing,
before we have truly absorbed
and appreciated this moment
There's no rush.
Maybe you're not yet ready
for the next phase.
Move slowly and diligently,
and trust that each day
will unfold as it should
And what is meant for
tomorrow
will arrive
All in good time ...
Let them judge you.
Let them misunderstand you. Let them gossip about you. Their opinions aren't your problems.
You stay kind, committed to love and free in your authenticity. No matter what they do or say, don't you doubt your worth or the beauty of your truth. Just keep shining like you always do.
The truth is, I am scared.
I always show to people that I can handle it all by myself, I am independent, I don't need anyone, that I enjoy being alone, but the truth is, I still want someone who will tap my head when I did a great job. I still need someone who is willing to help me when I get tired walking to the path of where I wanted to be.
I am an independent person but at some point in my life I still dream of someone who will stay with me when life gets worst. I want someone who is willing to sip with me on my cup of problems. I wish that someday I have someone whom I can share my victory.
The truth is, I am scared. I am not afraid to take a risk but I need to be honest to myself, I still want someone to be here with me.
"Surround yourself with strong women, women who inspire you, who teach you, who lift you up. Learn from their power, celebrate their beauty, and together, weave a web of support for all women.
You are not always strong every day, and that's okay. I know sometimes you feel so exhausted with your life and you just can't find a courage to fight for your silent battles. I know sometimes you think that life is being unfair to you and you just want to stop living. And I know sometimes you feel so weak that you don't even want to wake-up every morning. I want you to know that it's okay. You don't have to force yourself to be strong when you're already falling apart. It's okay to be vulnerable sometimes. You don't have to make yourself believe that you're okay even when the truth is, you're far from being okay.
You are not always strong every day, and that's okay. Sometimes you just have to breathe and rest. Take a pause for awhile and be vulnerable. It's okay. Even the strongest person cries when he's tired. I want you to know that you don't have to hide all your fears and sadness just to look strong in front of everyone. It's okay not to be strong. It's okay to admit to yourself that you can't take it anymore. And someday, I hope you'll realize that whether you are strong or not, you are still worthy.
"Let me share a little secret about adult friendships:
Sometimes, they’re really, really hard.
But often, these friendships are what keep us from falling apart when life gets overwhelming.
The truth is, even the strongest bonds aren’t set in stone. Just as life is constantly shifting, so too are our friendships.
Your closest friends might drift into the background.
Background friends might step forward and become part of your inner circle.
New people might walk into your life and become the friends you never knew you needed.
And sometimes, your heart will ache for the friendships that once were but no longer are.
Wherever you are on your friendship journey, don’t overthink it, and don’t get stuck in the past.
Instead, embrace the ride.
Welcome the ones who come into your life.
Send love and peace to those who drift away.
And cherish the friends who are by your side right now.
I'll never that "me" again.
She already knows her value, her worth. She healed in such a way that she fell in love with herself all over again. She knows that nothing was ever easy, but maybe that was the beauty of it. She is unbothered— by people's opinions, dishonesty, fakeness & inconsistency.
She learned to forgive those who have done her wrong in the past, because she knows that they help her build the woman she was today— and that woman is me, and i will never be that girl again.
I'm a quiet observer. I tune out the noise whenever possible. I'm internally comfortable.
Some call me an introvert, but really there's so much more to me than what you see on the surface.
I may seem distant, but I'm actually taking in every nuance and I'm connected with everything around me.
I'm sensitive and feel things deeply in my soul. If others only knew everything that's happening inside of me, they'd be amazed.
At the end of the day — I want to leave this world with a heart that is worn-out and
tender all over, with a heart that aches from loving, and feeling, and caring in the best way possible. I want to leave this world knowing that I poured love into everything I did, that I crashed my soul into each and every single day, that I tried for something while I was here, that I risked. At the end of the day, I just want to be proud of the way I turned every loss into a lesson, of the way I believed in the light even when I could not see it. At the end of the day, I just want to be proud of the way I connected, I just want to be proud of the person I have become.
“Do the kind of things that come from the heart. When you do, you won't be dissatisfied, you won't be envious, you won't be longing for somebody else's things. On the contrary, you'll be overwhelmed with what comes back.” ❤️✨
Promise me something..
-" I'll love you forever "
No, not that.
Promise me you'll understand my little insecurities, my doubts, my reasonless fears.
Promise you'll get it when I want to push everyone away.
Promise me that even when we fight, you still believe I'm a good person.
Maybe I need someone who knows me too well and still choose to love me.. Rather than someone who loves me because they don't know everything.
Some promises last forever.
You're sewn into my habits,
Like the way I make my tea,
You’re stitched within my waking hours,
Threaded through my dreams
The fibres of you run through
Words and phrases that I say
And all my memories of you
Embroider every day
The jokes you told embellish days
That otherwise are bare
And all your little quirks make up
My life of patchwork squares
It’s you that knitted colour,
That tied knots and bonds so strong
That your beauty and your essence
Still remain now you are gone
See, we are like a tapestry
All stitched and woven tight
And I know you’re always with me
In the fabric of my life
So when I start to feel things
Tangled up inside my heart
I stop and realise love
Is an enduring work of art
Every man wishes he had a good woman, but what many don’t realize is that good women with good hearts come with real emotions. They feel deeply. They love hard. They are incredibly affectionate and passionate, pouring their whole soul into the people they care about.
Good women are fiercely loyal, but their soft hearts mean they can also be easily frustrated, upset, or emotional when things feel off. It’s not a weakness—it’s because they care so much.
Yes, they might have their moody moments, but one thing is certain: when a good woman loves you, she’ll give you a kind of love that’s rare and precious. It’s the kind of love you won’t find anywhere else. Treasure it.
Keep silent,
When you have nothing pleasant to say...
Keep silent
When anger takes hold of you.
Avoid stabbing your soul,
Because some wounds never fade...
Keep silent
In the face of what does not concern you.
Do not waste your energy on futile causes,
Not everyone deserves
Your strength, nor your time...
Keep silent
When someone does not please you.
Take a step back,
It is often the healthiest path...
Keep silent,
Do not hurt,
Do not hurt,
Do not offend,
Do not argue.
Protect your peace, in your own way,
Without shouting or outbursts.
Step away for a moment,
And come back when the storm has calmed down...
The world already carries so much anger,
Why add more?
"Sometimes, you have to figure out who you aren’t to realize who you are.
Sometimes, you have to understand what a good relationship isn’t to understand what is.
Sometimes, you have to walk alone to understand the value of your inner circle, you have to be rejected to appreciate acceptance, and you have to get a little lost in order to understand what path is really yours.
Sometimes, you have to identify everything you don’t want before you can claim everything you do."
“Tell your story.
Shout it. Write it.
Whisper it if you have to.
But tell it.
Some won't understand it.
Some will outright reject it.
But many will
thank you for it.
And then the most
magical thing will happen.
One by one, voices will start
whispering, 'Me, too.'
And your tribe will gather.
And you will never
feel alone again.”
Each of us is born with something special,
a gift that’s only given just to us,
a talent or a quirk or a way of seeing life,
a knack of finding light amidst the dust.
It’s your special little gift that’s going to take you,
to the places you’ve dreamed of in your head,
it will open doors and bring in souls who marvel at your skills,
it will harvest joy and chase away the dread.
But there’s something that you must be quite aware of,
when it comes to knowing just what is your gift,
people search for theirs in vain their whole life through,
a thankless chase like that can cause a rift.
Your gift you see, is not always a grand one,
it’s not the being fast, or saving lives,
it’s not always the singing voice, the dancing feet or more,
it can sometimes be a simple quirk of life.
Your gift can be a constant splash of colour,
a way of showing light through cloudy days,
your gift could be the way you make others feel at peace,
or bring some calm to someone’s messy day.
Your gift could be the ears that always listen,
when someone is in need of being seen,
your gift could be the way you view
the world as something small,
and believe that we are all just one big team.
Your gift could be the passions that you share,
with others who are not that way inclined,
spreading art and spreading music all across your world,
is something that can change a lot of minds.
So take a minute now to look within you,
and see what little gift you’ve stored away,
let it out and show it love and bring it to the front,
your gift will stay with you now, all the way.
A good read... Growing older gracefully…
Old age, I decided, is a gift.
I am now,
probably for the first time in my life,
the person I have always wanted to be.
Oh, not my body!
I sometimes despair over my body -
the wrinkles,
the baggy eyes and the sagging butt.
Often I am taken aback by that old person who lives in my mirror,
but I don't agonize over those things for long.
I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life,
my loving family for less grey hair or a flatter belly.
As I've aged,
I've become more kind to myself and less critical of myself.
I've become my friend.
I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie,
or for not making my bed,
or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need,
but looks so avante-garde on my patio.
I am entitled to overeat,
to be messy,
to be extravagant.
I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon;
before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.
Whose business is it if I choose to read until 4:00 am and sleep until noon?
I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 50s & 60s,
and if I,
at the same time,
wish to weep over a lost love, I will.
I will walk the beach in a swimsuit that is stretched over a bulging body and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to,
despite the pitying glances from the bikini set.
They, too, will get old.
I know I am sometimes forgetful.
But there again,
some of life is just as well forgotten and I eventually remember the important things.
Sure, over the years my heart has been broken.
How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one
when a child suffers,
or when a beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength understanding and compassion.
A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.
I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turn grey and to have my youthful laughs forever etched into deep grooves on my face.
So many have never laughed and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.
I can say "no" and mean it. I can say "yes" and mean it.
As you get older,
it is easier to be positive.
You care less about what other people think.
I don't question myself anymore.
I've even earned the right to be wrong.
So, to answer your question,
I like being old.
It has set me free.
I like the person I have become.
I am not going to live forever,
but while I am still here,
I will not waste time lamenting what could have been,
or worrying about what will be.
And I shall eat dessert every single day.
''Love begins where infatuation ends and life begins.
And life, although beautiful, is sacramentally difficult.
The rose glasses that we put on at the beginning disappear and suddenly it turns out that the partner also has mistakes.
There will be problems, work, fatigue, sometimes not enough money and a million other worries.
Therefore, true love is about constantly working together, compromising and the willingness to give.
Its constant support, mutual help, conversations and time together.
And thus is the whole art of love...''
It's okay..
You'll be okay.
Maybe not now but one day you will.
Don't be so hard on yourself.
You're doing your best already.
Maybe you're feeling so overwhelmed and exhausted.
Maybe you feel like giving up everything all at once because you just had enough..
But you're stronger than this.
I believe in you.
"And just when the darkness
became too much to bear
and the struggle too hard,
the light broke through
and the caterpillar emerged
a butterfly
delicate but unbroken,
wild and gentle,
finally free to spread its lovely wings
and fly away on the wind.”
To someone who's single,
Enjoy your season of waiting. Don't settle for less than you truly deserve. You would rather be alone than be in a toxic relationship that will just drain your whole being.
Nothing is wrong with you. It is not just your time yet. Take your time and love yourself even more. Reach your biggest dreams. Travel the world.
Embrace everything about yourself because no one will do it for you. Address your insecurities because it is you alone who can conquer them.
If that someone comes, then good, but if not, then you will have so much time to date yourself.
There is so much we miss everyday. So much that passes us by, that we barely even see let alone notice.
The leaf in the shape of a heart. The toddler dancing to the music playing in the supermarket. The puppy carrying a huge stick in the park.
Little things that make us smile.
Things that we share with the people we love when we get home and say “guess what I saw today.”
And yet, we don’t do it enough. We are tunnel visioned, living always a few steps ahead, thinking that we’re closer to some elusive light at the end of that tunnel.
But the little stuff is the light. It’s the things that slowly light us up from within that romanticise our everyday lives. That remind us there is joy everywhere if we look for it.
We can’t always rely on the big stuff - the holidays, the parties, the weddings, the weekends - to fill us up with joy. They are too short-lived, too fleeting.
We need to slowly drip feed joy into our lives. Our veins. Our souls. That’s how we’ll hold on to it.
And just like a child or a puppy or a plant that grows without us even noticing how big it’s getting, our joy - our love of life - might just do the same.
So that one day we might not cling to the holidays and the weekends.
And one day we might look around and realise that we’re not in the tunnel at all.
But that we are the light at the end of it.
It's rare that you find someone with enough emotional and mental patience and maturity to work through shit with. Like actually communicate, and lose their ego because they value the connection more than their pride. You gotta leave your ego at the door in love. It's a must.
As I grew older, I learned that the key to surviving the day is not positivity, it's acceptance. Accepting that not all days are good and happy, you will have bad days, you make mistakes, you fail, you mess up, everythings not going to fall into place and that's okay.
One day, you’ll realize that some people are truly one of a kind, and you’ll never find their like again. Not everyone is replaceable. Be gentle with the hearts you touch, and even more careful with the ones you wound.
In a world that moves so quickly, we’ve grown used to thinking everything is temporary. We glorify the idea of “moving on,” convinced there’s always something—or someone—better just ahead. But some connections are once-in-a-lifetime. Their essence, their understanding, and the way they made you feel seen and valued—these are irreplaceable. Losing someone like that isn’t just losing a relationship; it’s losing a part of yourself that only they could bring to life.
Too often, we hurt those who matter most, whether through carelessness, fear, or pride. In heated moments, it’s easy to forget the lasting impact of our words and actions. We assume they’ll always be there, that there will be time to make things right. But the truth is, time doesn’t always heal, and second chances aren’t promised. The person you hurt might be the one who understood you best, and when they’re gone, the void they leave behind can feel endless.
Not everyone waits for an apology. Not everyone offers infinite chances. Some will walk away silently, carrying their pain with them, and you’ll only understand what you’ve lost when it’s too late. You might search for their presence in others, but no one will shine quite the same way. Their laughter, their love, their unique magic—these are unmatched.
Be mindful of how you treat the people who matter most. Harsh words, neglect, and indifference can create wounds that never fully heal. A moment of carelessness can destroy a connection that took years to build. Relationships, like glass, are fragile; once shattered, they can never be restored to their original beauty, no matter how deep your regret.
Cherish the souls who bring light into your life. Speak kindly, act with intention, and express gratitude while they are still close. Love deeply and with authenticity, knowing the rarest connections are also the most delicate. Once lost, they may never return, and no one else will ever fill the space they leave behind. Some people, some bonds, are simply irreplaceable—treat them as such.
𝗦𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 ❤🌻🦋
Stop worrying too much about what may come in the future or what has happened in the past. Our seconds tick by too fast to waste on things you can't change or control. Just let it be. Take a deep breath, be in the moment, and just be thankful for where you're at right now. The present is all we really have. Forget about the 'what ifs' and the 'should/could-haves.' Accept what was and what is.
Remember, you've got one life, one opportunity to live.
Don't let it slip away while you focus on the wrong things. Breathe in. Breathe out.
Make every moment count. 💖☘️✨
“Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning.
You have to love.
You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth.
You are here to risk your heart.
You are here to be swallowed up.
And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness.
Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could.”
One conversation, could fix so many things.
Just by listening and being honest.
But people nowadays always think you are trying to argue instead of trying to communicate.
“Life is amazing. And then it's awful. And then it's amazing again. And in between the amazing and awful it's ordinary and mundane and routine. Breathe in the amazing, hold on through the awful, and relax and exhale during the ordinary. That's just living heartbreaking, soul-healing, amazing, awful, ordinary life. And it's breathtakingly beautiful."
It’s worth the wait. Wait for someone who lets you be yourself without any fear. Wait for someone who makes you feel safe, even when the world feels heavy. Wait for someone who listens to you, not just to respond, but to understand. Wait for someone who supports your dreams and cheers you on every step of the way.
Wait for someone who shows up for you, not just when it’s easy, but when it really counts. Wait for someone who brings peace into your life, not drama or confusion. Wait for someone who loves you through your good days and your bad ones. Wait for someone who believes in the love that grows stronger over time.
It’s worth the wait because the right person will make every second of waiting feel like it was meant to be. In the end, you’ll see that the wait wasn’t a waste-it was preparing you for the love you truly deserve.
When we die, our money remains in the bank, untouched. Yet, while we are alive, we often feel we don’t have enough to spend. The truth is, when we’re gone, much of what we worked for remains unused.
Consider this story: A wealthy business tycoon in China passed away, leaving $1.9 billion in the bank. His widow eventually married his chauffeur. Reflecting on this, the chauffeur said, “All along, I thought I was working for my boss. Now I realize he was working for me.”
The reality is harsh but simple: It is more important to prioritize health and well-being over accumulating wealth. Life is about making the most of the time we have, not hoarding what we may never use.
A high-end phone? 70% of its features go unused.
An expensive car? 70% of its speed and gadgets are unnecessary.
A luxurious home? 70% of the space is rarely used.
A wardrobe full of clothes? 70% of them are never worn.
At the end of a lifetime of earning, 70% of it often benefits others. The challenge, then, is to cherish and fully utilize the 30% that truly matters.
Live wisely and intentionally:
Go for regular health check-ups, even if you feel fine.
Drink water often, even if you’re not thirsty.
Let go of problems, even when they seem overwhelming.
Be willing to compromise, even when you’re right.
Stay humble, no matter your wealth or status.
Practice gratitude and contentment, even with less.
Take care of your mind and body, no matter how busy you are.
Invest time in people you love and cherish.
Simple rules for a fulfilling life:
Love deeply. Pray often. Spend time in reflection.
Eat mindfully: Breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince, and dinner like a pauper.
Live with energy, enthusiasm, and empathy.
Read, dream, and smile often.
Sleep well, exercise daily, and take quiet moments for yourself.
Avoid gossip, grudges, and hate—they waste precious time.
Forgive freely and focus on the present.
Call your family, make others smile, and give generously.
Spend time with both the young and the old—they teach us different lessons.
Do the right thing, even when it’s hard.
Remember:
Life changes, and so will your challenges—nothing is permanent.
Start each day with gratitude.
Happiness is an inside job; don’t rely on others for it.
Embrace simplicity, laughter, and love.
Life is short—live it fully, love unconditionally, and cherish every moment.
Life never goes as planned. We set goals, make plans, and hope everything will happen right on schedule. On the dot. Just the way we imagine it to be. But more often than not, things take longer than we expect. And that's okay.
It's easy to feel down when we don't reach our goals as quickly as we'd like. We get impatient. We see others moving forward, hitting milestones, and start to wonder if we're falling behind.
Just because it's taking you a little longer doesn't mean you'll never get there.
Think about a tree growing. It doesn't rush to get tall. It takes it's time, growing slowly but surely. With each passing year, it becomes stronger and more beautiful. One's journey is like that tree. The time it takes is not wasted; it's helping you grow and become stronger.
When things take longer than expected, we have a chance to learn and grow in ways we might not have if everything went perfectly.
Think about the lessons and the experiences that we could have missed if we were not where we are now.
Every delay brings you closer to your destined path.
It takes a little longer than you thought because something more - something beautiful - something greater than what you could anticipate at this moment is waiting for you at the end.
Somewhere along the line, you chose.
you chose to walk the road less traveled.
you chose peace over retaliation.
you chose to take the things that could have turned your heart cold and became a light instead. you chose to see the miracles.
you chose to wake up and find goodness.
you chose faith over fear and loved even when it was not easy.
again and again you chose.
dear soul, beautiful people are not born, they are built.
When someone loses interest, their actions will speak louder than words. You'll feel it in how they pull away.
They stop making time for you, and every call or text feels like an effort. Excuses become constant, and their presence becomes distant. What once brought you together now irritates them, and they seem annoyed by everything you do.
Emotionally, they begin to shut you out, no longer sharing their thoughts or feelings. You sense something is wrong, but you can’t quite put your finger on it.
Trust yourself. These changes signal that something has shifted. Remember, you deserve love that chooses you fully, every single day.
I hope you heal from all the wounds left unaddressed, the words left unsaid, and the apologies that never came. It’s painful to carry the weight of hurt from those who’ve walked away without acknowledging their impact on your heart.
You deserve to find peace, even if it means doing so without closure. It’s a heavy burden to forgive the silence and the absence of accountability. But I believe that healing can begin within you, even in the absence of an apology.
As you navigate this journey, remember that your worth isn’t defined by others’ actions or regrets. Take the time you need to mend, to reclaim the pieces of yourself that were affected. You’re stronger than the hurt, and I hope you find the light that lies ahead.
Those who have been shattered by the cruelty and heartlessness of others, yet still manage to be compassionate towards others, are truly remarkable individuals. Despite having been broken and bruised, they continue to radiate warmth and kindness, refusing to let the darkness they've endured define them. Instead, they choose to empathize with others, to listen, to understand, and to offer solace. Their capacity for love and compassion is boundless, and they deserve to be loved more deeply than the oceans, more profoundly than the depths of the sea. For they are the beacons of hope, the embodiment of resilience, and the epitome of selfless love.
Forgive Yourself.
Forgive yourself for what happened.
For the mistakes you made. For your poor choices.
For not showing up the way
you needed to. For being the person
you wanted to be. You're human.
You did the best you could in the moment
given what you knew and what you had,
and that's all you can ask for yourself.
You're still learning. You're still finding
your way. That takes time.
And you're allowed to give yourself that time.
You're allowed to show up in the world imperfectly.
You're allowed to fail at
things you tried hard for. You're allowed
to realize you made the wrong decision.
You're allowed to be someone who's still
figuring out their path and their purpose.
You're allowed to forgive yourself.
You can't go back and change the decisions you've made, but you can choose
what you do today. You can keep choosing,
again and again. You can start over.
And that's where your power is -- in today.
So no more beating yourself up. No more
going over and over it again in your head
and torturing yourself with the past.
What happened is over, and all the shame and
self-hatred in the world won't undo that.
Today, you're starting over.
Today, you're moving forward
with the new knowledge and experiences you have.
Today, you can be the person you want to be and live the life you want to live.
You're not a bad person.
You're not a disappointment or a failure.
The dark side of grief says, "Don't move. Sit. I will paralyze you." But look: the door is open. The transformative side of grief is pure light inspired by the love that was yours and still is. That love will lead you out the door and back into your own life; one that combines past, present and future. When you are ready.
Instead of saying, "I know what it feels like", let's say "I cannot imagine your heartbreak".
Instead of saying, "You're strong, you'll get through this, let's say " You'll hurt, and I'll be here.
Instead of saying, "You look like you're doing well, Let's say, "How are you holding up today?"
Instead of saying, "Healing takes time", let's say "Healing has no timeline".
Instead of saying, "Everything happens for a reason, let's say "This must feel so terribly senseless right now".
And when there are no words to say at all, you don't need to try and find some. Love speaks in silences too.
You're holding a cup of coffee and someone accidentally bumps into you, causing it to spill everywhere.
Why did you spill the coffee?
"Because someone bumped into me."
Wrong answer.
You spilled the coffee because there was coffee in your cup. If there had been tea in the cup, you would have spilled tea.
Whatever is inside the cup is what will spill out.
So, when life shakes you up, whatever is inside you will come out.
It's easy to pretend everything's fine until you're shaken.
So, we have to ask ourselves, "What's in my cup?"
When life gets tough, what spills over? Joy? Gratitude? Peace? Humility? Anger? Bitterness? A victim mentality? A tendency to quit?
Remember LIFE gives you the cup; YOU choose what to fill it with.
Uncertainty is part of life, and it's actually one of the things that makes life so interesting. Not knowing what's going to happen next can be a very scary thing, but the more you fight against it, the more difficult it will be to initiate change. Instead of fearing what could happen, consider accepting the future for what it is: something beautifully unknown.
In English, we say, "Can I be a child again?"
But in poetry, we say,
"take me back to when laughter was endless, and my dreams were bigger than my fears."
Sometimes, the best way to love yourself is to learn to unlove those who don't appreciate you. If someone is ignoring you, just maintain the distance and treat them as they treat you. It's time to move on.
"The most meaningful compliments aren't about your looks, but about who you are—your mind, your spirit, your heart. Those are the compliments that truly touch us.
Don't force anything: not plans, not creativity, not friendship or love. Because though you may know what you want, life knows exactly what you need.
What is meant for you will always be yours. And those things will flow to you with ease; they will bring you peace; they will show up in the most beautiful and unexpected ways . . . They will remind you just how magical life really is.
At the end of the day
what really matters
is not what we bought, but what we built
not what we got, but what we shared
not our competence, but our character
and not our success, but our significance.
Live a life that matters.
Live a life of love ..🪽
Sometimes in life, there are situations that leave us lost for words. Times when we don’t know how to respond and don’t know what to say to others.
Times when we’re scared to acknowledge the obvious because we don’t want to upset people.
And yet...
Our grief is never lessened because someone pretends that it isn’t there.
Our sadness never ups and leaves because someone skirts around it.
And our worry does not dissipate because someone acts as if it’s invisible.
And whilst there is something to be said for perspective and distraction,
there is also something to be said for someone holding your hand and saying “I’m sorry this is happening. It’s ok if you need to cry.”
Sometimes we just need someone to acknowledge what we’re feeling.
Otherwise it’s like seeing a huge, grey cloud overhead and everyone saying, “look how blue the sky is!”
It doesn’t make us feel better. It actually makes us feel like we have to hide. Like we have to ignore what we feel. Like we have to pretend.
There is no point in pretending the sky is always blue because in reality, sometimes it is grey. Sometimes the clouds fill with rain until they simply can’t contain it anymore.
And no one pretends they’re not heavy. No one avoids telling them they’re grey. Because it would be futile. Instead, we look up at the sky and we say, “it looks like rain”.
Because acknowledging the rain doesn’t make it worse. It actually makes us better equipped for it. It actually means that, instead of drowning, we put on our coats, and we prepare for the downpour.
And we listen to the rain.
But we do it together.
Under the same umbrella.
"You do not always have to save others. There are times that no matter how big your love is for them, you will have to do yourself a favor and not think of anyone else but you.
Please, keep looking. Not for a person, but for your passion, your love, your courage, your goals, your dreams, your happiness, yourself. Keep looking. Explore yourself before you explore another. Know your worth, know yourself. Only then will you know what you need over what you want. You need yourself to become your own.
Today is a gift. How we choose to use that gift is up to us. Life will not always be perfect or go according to plan. Every day may have its struggles and challenges, but it's important to remember that our lives are not determined by what happens to us, but by how we choose to react or respond to what happens to us. No matter how tough life may feel right now, keep hope alive in your heart. The birds don't just sing on the good days, they sing each and every day.
Forever
is a long time
to miss someone
Especially when
their absence leaves
such a lasting mark
on your heart
They say time
heals all wounds
But some absences
create such deep scars
in our hearts, that
time moving forward
only seems to
deepen our longing
Yet in this ache
there is comfort in
the small things ~
old pictures,
a familiar scent,
a song …
a connection that
existed on earth and
now in Heaven
To miss someone forever
is to keep a part of them
alive within us ,
to hold onto who they were
and what they meant to us
As life moves forward
you learn to carry
them with you,
not only in your thoughts
but in who you are
And so life goes on
New memories are made ~
Yet that special
place in your heart
always remains theirs
Forever is a long time,
but it also a testament
to the ever lasting
power of love
Until we meet again …
