Happy New Year 2025

 As we bid farewell to this year, let's embrace the upcoming one with renewed hope. Let's release any negativity, making space for fresh beginnings. Reflecting on the past, let's treasure the lessons learned and moments cherished. Here's to a new chapter filled with positivity, opportunities, and growth. Wishing everyone a Happy New Year! 🌟

Tomorrow is a new day

“Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day. You shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.”

Breathe, flow, move forward, you can!

 Don't be sad... we will meet again. Open your little eyes, maybe you can't see me but in your dreams you can find me. 

Don't cling to the idea that I should continue by your side, everything has a beginning and an end but I promise you that I will continue in your memory. 

When you can't find me in your dreams, don't wake up with discouragement or anger, I went to take refuge in your heart. 

There will be days that will fly by and that's okay, it's not necessarily so that you forget me, it's so that your wound heals sooner. 

Life has not been unfair or cruel, life with all its good and bad things, is beautiful, very beautiful. 

No matter where each of us is now, our hearts will continue to connect. 

Don't cry for me, please, I'm very well, in a state of deep tranquility, with a peace that I couldn't explain to you but that makes me feel happy, your tears will not bring me back, don't torture yourself anymore, don't think that It could have been different because that doesn't make a difference, if I have accepted it, accept it too and move on. 

Never think about giving up, be strong, don't give up, you can, you have always been able to and you always will be able to. 

We can't touch each other but we can still feel each other. The magic is not over if you continue to remember me and carry me in your heart. 

Live for you, for me, for whoever you want but live, enjoy this beautiful life that God gave us today we are here and tomorrow maybe not. 

Seek your happiness in those precious little gifts that life gives us; the light of the moon, the wind, the rain, the flight of a bird, the beauty of the landscapes. 

Live and I will continue to live through you. And when you can't feel me by your side, when I no longer appear in your dreams, in those small gifts that we almost never value, you will find me, I promise that I will give you a sign. 

Breathe, flow, move forward, you can! You have always been able to and you always can.

Priority of a man to his wife

 “A man does not need any degree to treat his wife well. Just require a soft heart and good manners.”

A real man treats his woman like a priority, not an option. A real man shows his love through his everyday actions. And a real man doesn't have to be reminded.🫰🏻🤍

You are my forever

 💞 "I will continue to fall in love with you every single day." 😊💌

Love is not a single moment or a fleeting feeling;

It is a lifelong journey, a choice we make every day.

And with you, that choice feels effortless—

Because every sunrise brings me a new reason to love you more deeply.

🌸 I fall in love with you in the smallest, most beautiful ways:

• The way your laughter fills the air like a melody I never want to end.

• The sparkle in your eyes when you talk about the things you’re passionate about.

• The way you make even the simplest moments feel extraordinary.

💖 It’s not just the big gestures that capture my heart,

But the little things you do without even realizing:

The way you say my name, the comfort of your presence,

The way you hold my hand and make the world fade away.

✨ Every single day, I choose you.

I choose to love you through your smiles and your tears,

Through your victories and your struggles,

Through every ordinary day and every unforgettable moment.

🌟 I will love you for who you are today,

And for who you are becoming tomorrow.

Because being with you isn’t just about what we’ve shared,

But about the endless possibilities of what we will build together.

🌿 You are my calm in the storm, my light in the darkness,

The reason my heart beats with hope and joy.

You are my safe haven, my inspiration, my everything.

💫 With every breath, I promise to fall in love with you again.

To see you, cherish you, and choose you,

Not because I have to, but because I want to—

Every day, for the rest of my life.

🌸 You are my forever. My heart. My soul. My home.

🌷

Trust yourself

The biggest mistake I ever made was ignoring the many red flags and the many gut instincts that were presented to me, and blindly choosing someone who ended up bringing the fiercest storms I’d ever experienced into my life.

My ignorance to the red flags and my own instincts also meant that I had a lack of boundaries, and that meant that they were able to do what they did unchecked and unaccounted for, breaking my trust and my spirit over and over again, and as a consequence it negatively impacted every single aspect of my life.

I had countless people try to warn me but I wouldn’t listen because I never thought that someone could ever end up being the person that they turned out to be.

A person without honesty, without accountability, without integrity, without empathy, and without any remorse whatsoever for what they did or what their presence took away; they disguised themselves very well indeed...

I experienced things in my life that had never happened to me before, and that will probably never happen ever again, but that’s a story for another time…

But perhaps the worst part of all, was because of the fact that they were so clever, deceptive, and cunning about the way they went about things, and the way they lied and manipulated the truth to others, it took someone else later on to point out the truth and the reality of the full extent of their manipulation and abuse.

Because when you're in a situation like this, you become desensitised to their toxic behaviours and it begins to feel normal, but at the same time you know it isn't normal, and that something isn't right.

It changes how you think, how you act and react, the decisions you make, how you interact with others, and how you feel about yourself.

In the end it changes you... 

And it changed me and my life in a very big way, all because I wanted to ignore the red flags.

All because I wanted to believe who they told me they were, when everyone else was warning me about who they were.

A situation I would never allow today knowing what I know now.

We don’t always want to acknowledge the red flags and our gut instincts when they present themselves to us because we don’t want to believe them, nor do we want to admit to ourselves that we were wrong.

Sometimes we ignore the red flags and our instincts because we feel we've invested so much time into someone, and we don't want it to end up being a waste of time.

But if you ignore the red flags that you see early on, they will be the very reason that everything ends later on.

The behaviours behind the red flags don't disappear, they become worse over time as the person demonstrating these behaviours realises that they can get away with it.

Don't let them get away with it, and instead know what you're not prepared to tolerate.

Pay attention to what they do, not what they say.

Trust your instincts, and if something doesn't feel right, know that you're feeling it for a reason, and don't ever dismiss it, no matter how much they try to convince you or gaslight you into believing that what you're feeling is wrong!

Trust yourself, because the red flags you see, and those gut feelings that you feel, are presenting themselves to you for a reason...

Dreams have no expiry date

Dreams have no expiry date. And life has no pause button. So instead of wasting your time whining, use it to assess what knowledge and additional skills you can gain. Memories remind us that nothing last forever, you can be happy today and sad tomorrow, time is precious and should not be wasted. Embrace every moment, savor every experience, and fill your days with love, laughter, and purpose. The clock keeps ticking, so make your days count. Live life with full of aspiration , experiences and don't take it for granted , life's had been colorful if you embrace the truest happiness in our soul ✨☘️♥️☘️

To the imperfect souls crafting extraordinary love stories, one day at a time.

 A real relationship isn’t built on flawless perfection but on two imperfect souls who choose to hold on, no matter how rough the road becomes.

In a world where giving up is the easy way out, true love is a quiet act of rebellion. It’s the unspoken promise between two hearts that says, “We’re in this together, always.”

It’s about waking up on the hard days and choosing love, even when it feels distant.

It’s about standing side by side through battles, not against each other.

It’s realizing that arguments don’t mean love is failing—they mean two people care enough to fight for it.

A real relationship isn’t about perfection.

It’s the messy moments that turn into treasured memories.

It’s the misunderstandings that teach you how to communicate better.

It’s the flaws that make you human and the love that makes you extraordinary.

You’ll see each other at your worst and still choose to stay.

You’ll face tears, anger, and doubts—and still believe in “us.”

You’ll learn to forgive more than you criticize and hold on tighter when life tries to tear you apart.

Real love is a choice you make every single day.

When pride tells you to walk away, you choose patience.

When silence grows, you choose to reconnect.

When life’s storms rage, you choose to shelter each other instead of letting the rain wash you away.

A real relationship isn’t a perfect fairy tale.

It’s raw. It’s unfiltered. It’s filled with joy and pain.

And that’s what makes it beautiful. That’s what makes it real.

Because love isn’t about finding someone who makes life easy.

It’s about finding someone who makes life worth it—and never letting go, no matter how imperfect they or the journey might be.

Here’s to the real relationships: to the imperfect souls crafting extraordinary love stories, one day at a time.

Work on yourself and your inner peace

 "I’m slowly learning that even if I react, it won’t change anything, it won’t make people suddenly love and respect me, it won’t magically change their minds. Sometimes it’s better to just let things be, let people go, don’t fight for closure, don’t ask for explanations, don’t chase answers and don’t expect people to understand where you’re coming from.

I’m slowly learning that life is better lived when you don’t center it on what’s happening around you and center it on what’s happening inside you instead.

Work on yourself and your inner peace and you’ll come to realize that not reacting to every little thing that bothers you is the first ingredient to living a happy and healthy life."

Be the person who cares

Be the person who cares. Be the person who makes the effort, the person who loves without hesitation. Be the person who bares it all, the person who never shies away from the depth of their feeling, or the intensity of their hope.

Be the person who believes — in the softness of the world, in the goodness of other people, in the beauty of being open and untethered and trusting.

Be the person who takes the chance, who refuses to hide. Be the person who makes people feel seen, the person who shows up.

Trust me when I say — be the person who cares. Because the world doesn't need any more carelessness, any more disregard; because there is nothing stronger than someone who continues to stay soft in a world that hasn't always been kind to them.

Your silent support is most important gift you can give

In our darkest moments, we don’t need solutions or advice. What we yearn for is simply human connection—a quiet presence, a gentle touch. These small gestures are the anchors that hold us steady when life feels like too much.

Please don’t try to fix me. Don’t take on my pain or push away my shadows. Just sit beside me as I work through my own inner storms. Be the steady hand I can reach for as I find my way.

My pain is mine to carry, my battles mine to face. But your presence reminds me I’m not alone in this vast, sometimes frightening world. It’s a quiet reminder that I am worthy of love, even when I feel broken.

So, in those dark hours when I lose my way, will you just be here? Not as a rescuer, but as a companion. Hold my hand until the dawn arrives, helping me remember my strength.

Your silent support is the most precious gift you can give. It’s a love that helps me remember who I am, even when I forget.

Challenges in life

 Water is a remarkable element, capable of withstanding even the most extreme conditions. It can't be destroyed, only transformed. When burned, it turns to vapor. When frozen, it becomes ice. But no matter what form it takes, water always returns to its original state.

This resilience is a powerful lesson for us as we navigate the challenges of life. Just like water, we too can face adversity and emerge unbroken. We can bend without shattering, adapt without losing our essence.

The bamboo tree is a perfect example of this resilience. It's the water within the bamboo that allows it to flex and yield to the forces of nature, without breaking. Similarly, it's the toughness within us that enables us to grow through affliction, to emerge stronger and wiser from the trials we face.

Hardship may try to define us, to reduce us to our lowest point. But we must never let it succeed. We must rise above, drawing on the inner strength that lies within us. We must remember that we are the masters of our own destiny, that we have the power to choose how we respond to adversity.

So let's embrace the resilience of water, let's learn to bend without breaking, and let's rise above the challenges that life throws our way. Let's show the world that we are invincible, that we can face anything and emerge stronger, wiser, and more radiant than ever before.

Staying in a relationship where you’re unhappy isn't okay

 Divorce is okay.

Breaking up is okay.

Starting over is okay.

Moving on is okay.

Saying “NO” is okay.

Being alone is okay.

What’s not okay is staying in a relationship where you’re unhappy, unvalued, or unappreciated. That’s the kind of thing that drains your soul and ruins you.

Family matters

 As you get older...

you find out that true happiness

is not in how much you make,

or how many degrees you have,

or how big your house is, or how fancy your car is...

It's finding peace and joy and a calmness 

in your life that will soon become

the most important thing to you.

Your family is what matters to you,

Love is what matters to you.

Things that are of quality, not quantity.

Value what matters most...❤🌻🦋

I hope you take care of your heart

 I hope you take care of your heart. And that you let go of all of the people who play with it. The ones who take advantage of you, and your kindness, and mistake it for weakness. hope you learn your worth.

I hope you take care of you heart. And above all things, you learn to let go. That you continue to allow light into your life.

That you make room to love. That you make room for the people who deserve to be in your life. You just might not know them yet.

I hope you don't let the world make you become jaded. I know how difficult that can be when you've been through so much. Don't let all of the people who are reckless with the hearts of others convince you that yours isn't worthy of something beautiful, something real.

You are softhearted, you are rare. You let people in. You love with all you have. And you get taken advantage of for this. You try not to let it break you. But sometimes it sticks, sometimes it stings.

You have your days, where you just don't understand why you are never chosen. You wonder when things will get better. You question your heart.

But please, just hold on. You are stronger than anything that is trying to defeat you. And above all, you love the most. That is your power. That is your strength.

If you keep being you, you will make it. Keep pushing. Keep smiling. Keep being who you are. The world needs your heart in this world. It needs that beauty. Defend it. Protect it. And never stop believing in it's worth.

It's okay to be imperfect

 Sometimes you don't get closure. You don't get to stand before the person who hurt you and ask them why they did it, ask them if they see the pain they've caused, ask them if they even care. You don't get the opportunity to go back in time. Sometimes you don't get a second chance. You don't always get the ability to start completely over after you've fallen down. You don't always get to chase the person you left when you weren't ready, take back the words you've said, or unlove the one you gave your heart to.

Sometimes there are no redo buttons, no rewinds.

Sometimes you're simply stuck with the cards you've been dealt, as painful as they may be.

But that doesn't mean your future is hopeless.

You can't completely erase all your mistakes. But you can begin again. You can't make people change, make them love you, make them apologize. But you can learn to learn to let go. You can forgive yourself.

If you hear nothing else today-hear this: You are worth more than the brokenness of your past. And you are deserving of healing most importantly from yourself. Read these words as a reminder: It's okay to forgive yourself. It's okay to let go. It's okay to acknowledge that you've been imperfect, but that longer has to be your identity.

It's okay to look back on the person you've been and slowly release your guilt. It's okay to realize that you've changed, are continually changing, and might make different decisions now. It's okay to come to terms with the fact that you loved people who weren't right for you, that you did stupid things, that you lost your footing, your focus, or your faith a time or two.

It's okay to say, 'lam fine. I am moving on. I am letting go. I am beginning again.'

It's okay to be imperfect. To be human. To forgive yourself for the moments you lost your way. To heal.

Its okay

 It's okay, my love.

It's okay to do your thing. It's okay to reply late. It's okay to be sad and not talk to me. It's okay to turn off your phone and sleep all day. It's okay to be distant.

It's okay to figure things out on your own. It's okay to restore your peace of mind. It's okay to weep silently from the baggage you still carry. It's okay to lie down for a while and forget about everything. It's okay.

Remember that I love you—and that includes understanding your chaos, supporting your journey, and giving you enough distance to think. I know that sometimes, you just need to choose yourself, but your love for me remains the same.

And my love, it's okay.

I am only living

 It seems to me like I am only living because I still wake up every day, not because I still want this life. I have been feeling so empty and tired, and these feelings never go away. People say that I'll be alright in time, but I silently wish it's true. It's been seven years since they promised me that everything would be okay, but it turned out that I've been only lying to myself whenever I say I'm fine. I think it's easier to pretend than to explain why it's been years—but I'm still not okay. It's easier to stay silent than to explain why I'm unhappy. It's just hard to be true sometimes because not everyone will understand me.

At the end of the day, I just wish to see the end of this sadness. I wish to find something that can fill my emptiness. And all I ever wish before I close my eyes every night is to live a normal life—not just try to survive each day.

My love of my life ✨✍️☘️🌹☘️

 I always keep my heart for you eversince I meet you

A time we meet in unconditional moment and place

 It was a unforgettable memories when I give my heart and trust

And the promise's we still together in everything we share

There's nothing can replace the happiness when I'm with you

It's my unforgettable memories that I keep to hold in my heart

Until my last breathe of life 

My inspiration,my happiness ,my beloved angel heart's 

Truly  my endless love 

The most painful goodbyes

 “The most painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and are never explained.

It's the sudden silence, the unspoken words, the unanswered questions that haunt you at night.

You lie awake, your mind replaying every moment, every word, every touch, searching for the reason why.

But there is no answer, just a void that stretches into eternity.

It is the pain of not knowing, of not understanding, of being left in the dark with only your own thoughts to keep you company. And in that darkness, you slowly realize that you may never know why, and that is perhaps the hardest truth of all. ” 🥀🌷

How we’re loved

 Don’t wait til I’m gone

And then stand up to speak

About all the things 

That you loved about me

Don’t sing all my praises

Through all of your tears

When I am no longer 

Beside you to hear

Don’t leave all that love

Like a secret unsaid

But tell me tomorrow

Or right now instead

And I’ll tell you too

Of the things I admire

About who you are

And how much you inspire

I’ll speak from my heart

Whilst you’re still here to know

“You are” not “you were”

Or “it used to be so”

I’ll speak of your light

Whilst you’ll still hear the words

And not leave that love

In the darkness, unheard

So tell me tomorrow

Or right now - don’t wait

Because we don’t know 

When it might be too late

Because we don’t know

When our time might be up

And we need to hear - while we are here -

How we’re loved...

You Are a Woman Beyond Words

 "You Are a Woman Beyond Words"

You are a woman who carries within her the strength of a thousand women, and more.

A woman whose essence is a tapestry woven with innocence, childhood, and boundless care.

You embody feelings so profound they cannot be measured,

Tenderness so vast it comforts even the most broken hearts,

And love so deep it transforms the very world you touch.

You don’t just wear perfume; you breathe it,

Your presence blooms like roses in the spring.

You are the calm in the chaos,

The refuge for a man seeking peace and comfort.

You hold within you all the meanings of femininity and beauty,

Not just in your form, but in your mind, your heart, and your spirit.

You are extraordinary, a being of love and security,

A mountain of patience and a fountain of tenderness.

Your soul is as vast as the deep sea,

And your essence lingers like a melody long after you’ve passed by.

No poet can fully capture your wonder,

No writer can script your beauty,

For you are beyond imagination, beyond description.

You are a dream, not of fleeting passion,

But of peaceful nights and serene joy.

You are the moon illuminating the darkest skies,

A dove of peace gracing the world with hope.

You are the amazement that encapsulates all women.

The one who stands beyond poetry, beyond prose,

A masterpiece of splendor that defies all comprehension.

You are not just a woman; you are the woman.

The epitome of grace, love, and strength,

A wonder that no words could ever truly define.

No dearth of love

"I never could imagine myself hurting you because I love you still like insane 

Neither I ever did consciously nor I would ever do anything that might cause you pain ...

I have been loving your heart with so much attention that I couldn't know when my heart has hit the hard floor

With so much care I have been protecting your back that I couldn't know when I was thrown out of the door  ...

I couldn't know when you have decided for me to fall from your heart

I could never know when you have departed from my sight ripping my vision apart ...

After you left I did let go of my poetry that used to take care of your soul

Nowadays my poetry cuts like a knife as tiny shards of my heart it holds ...

These days I don't allow anyone to come near the walls that's been built freshly around me

My poetry is the writing on the wall like some sort of arcane graffiti ...

They are warnings for trespassers that climb my walls to get a glimpse of me

My self-loathing words bleed all over my face so that my tears none would see ...

This is my way of decorating myself stuck between four walls of this self made seclusion 

Neither I need anybody to show pity nor I need love or care from anyone as my life doesn't need any intrusion ...

I exist here with you and my poetry that's enough for me to be in love with your soul

I dare to love you  sitting amidst the ashes of your remnants that my poetry still dares to hold ...

If my words sound like I'm complaining I'm sorry, I've stopped caring anymore for anyone's sentiments 

I'm not blaming anyone and please don't blame me either when for me my feelings take precedence ...

With my bleeding heart in my palm I will keep on falling for you all through out the year

It's my heart and it's my whims that would decide how to love you forever ...

We are two parallel lines, running side by side now, attentively watching over each other

But atleast those mountains and oceans have given way now, to a distance that's much closer ...

Our stubborn souls never cared out of we two who's giving more or who's at the receiving end 

Now on I will be the only giver in love and you be the keeper for me that's godsend ...

And I won't care about the time of the day or the season of the year, no matter if I'm awake or asleep 

I will be loving you like insane, that too with the raw passion of my soul that always dives so deep ...

I will express my soul through my poetry, not caring about whether it soothes you or it cuts you like a knife 

I dare you, I will always be in love with you like a real man that knows how to love his beloved wife ...

God made your heart with utmost precision and then He decided for you he'd invent me

He knew only I would take care of your heart the way I do, because for His lock there's no duplicate key ..."

Moments. Feelings. People. Flowers.

It has been one of the greatest and most difficult years of my life. 

I learned everything is temporary. 

Moments. Feelings. People. Flowers. 

I learned love is about giving. Everything. 

And letting it hurt. 

I learned vulnerability is always the right choice because it is easy to be cold in a world that makes it so very difficult to remain soft. 

I learned all things come in twos. 

Life and death. Pain and joy. Salt and sugar. 

It is the balance of the universe. 

It has been the year of hurting so bad but living so good. 

Making friends out of strangers. 

Making strangers out of friends. 

We must learn to focus our warm energy. 

Always. 

Soak our limbs in it and become better lovers to the world. 

For if we can't learn to be kinder to each other how will we ever learn to be kinder to the most desperate parts of ourselves.⭐

Never let anything that happens to you turn you bitter.

If I could tell you anything to save you the time and the lessons in this life, I would tell you to never let anything that happens to you turn you bitter. 

Don't let the pain of something that was out of your hands turn your cold, love.

Stay soft, as hard as that is sometimes, try.

Try with all of your heart to stay tender. I know there's a lot of things that hurt, takes us to our knees and threaten our hearts with a stone cold grudge. 

Let it go. You can't change it, but you can choose to not let it change you. 

Don't let the pain define you. You are bigger than that. I hope you know. 

You are never how someone makes you feel. Let it hurt, then let it heal. But don't linger there. 

Remember who you are and rise. 🐦‍🔥

Forever thinking of you

 ღ 🌹♥ My Thoughts for You ♥🌹ღ

Every thought I have, every quiet moment of my day, somehow leads back to you.

You are the reason my mind feels at peace and my heart feels full.

🌹 I think of you when I wake up—

The very first breath of my day carries your name.

You are my sunrise, my light, and the warmth that fills my morning.

🌹 I think of you when the day gets tough—

When the world feels heavy and moments feel unkind, the thought of you softens everything.

You are my safe place, my reason to smile even when I don’t want to.

🌹 I think of you when I’m alone—

In the quiet corners of my mind, it’s you who fills the emptiness.

Your voice, your laughter, your touch—it all stays with me, lingering like a melody.

🌹 I think of you when I look at the stars—

Because every shining light reminds me of your presence,

And how lucky I am to love someone as bright and rare as you.

🌹 I think of you when I close my eyes—

And in my dreams, we’re together—laughing, loving, and building a forever that feels unshakable.

You are my wish, my dream come true, and my forever promise.

You are the softest part of my thoughts,

The calm in my chaos, and the spark of joy in my soul.

No matter where you are, know this—

You live in my thoughts, always. You are my heart’s favorite place to be.

ღ Forever thinking of you... forever loving you. ღ

This year has been heavy in ways I didn’t expect

This year has been heavy in ways I didn’t expect. I’ve had to learn to leave people where they choose to stay, even when I wanted to pull them closer. It’s a quiet kind of pain, realizing that some people won’t meet you halfway, no matter how much you care. I struggled with it—wondering if I wasn’t enough or if I did something wrong. But after a while, I stopped fighting for people who wouldn’t fight for me. It wasn’t easy, and the ache doesn’t go away overnight, but I’ve started to understand that holding on too tightly only leaves my hands bruised. I’ve also learned that not everything needs my reaction, though that’s a lesson I’m still trying to master. There were moments when I wanted to lash out, defend myself, or explain my side just to feel heard. But I realized that reacting doesn’t always bring peace—it only drags out the hurt. I’m learning to sit with the discomfort, let the emotions pass, and choose silence when words would only make it worse.  It’s not a perfect process. Some days, the pain feels fresh, and healing feels slow. But little by little, I’m finding strength in letting go—of people, of expectations, and of the need to fix everything.🌹💐🥀🥰

Tears of the Strong

 "Tears of the Strong"

Strong people wear their strength like armor, shielding the world from seeing their cracks.

 They carry the burdens of others, mend hearts that aren’t theirs, and whisper words of hope even when their own voices tremble.

But when the night comes and the world grows quiet, their strength gives way to silence.

 It’s in those moments, under the dim glow of the moon, that the weight becomes too much. 

They cry—not for weakness, but because their hearts need release.

They cry for the battles they’ve fought in silence.

They cry for the pain they’ve endured without complaint.

They cry because they’ve spent so much time holding others together, they’ve forgotten how to heal themselves.

The strongest people know the value of tears. 

They know that crying doesn’t diminish their strength—it amplifies it.

 It’s a reminder that they’re human, that their struggles are real, and that even the strongest need to break sometimes to rebuild.

These quiet tears are sacred.

 They’re the proof of resilience, the evidence of a soul brave enough to face its shadows.

 When morning comes, these same strong people will rise again, their hearts a little lighter, their spirits a little stronger, ready to face the world once more.

So if you ever find yourself crying in the solitude of the night, remember this: you’re not breaking. You’re healing. And that, in itself, is strength.

You are not always strong every day, and that's okay.

You are not always strong every day, and that's okay. I know sometimes you feel so exhausted with your life and you just can't find a courage to fight for your silent battles. I know sometimes you think that life is being unfair to you and you just want to stop living. And I know sometimes you feel so weak that you don't even want to wake-up every morning. I want you to know that it's okay. You don't have to force yourself to be strong when you're already falling apart. It's okay to be vulnerable sometimes. You don't have to make yourself believe that you're okay even when the truth is, you're far from being okay.

You are not always strong every day, and that's okay. Sometimes you just have to breathe and rest. Take a pause for awhile and be vulnerable. It's okay. Even the strongest person cries when he's tired. I want you to know that you don't have to hide all your fears and sadness just to look strong in front of everyone. It's okay not to be strong. It's okay to admit to yourself that you can't take it anymore. And someday, I hope you'll realize that whether you are strong or not, you are still worthy.

When you hurt good-hearted people

When you hurt good-hearted people, 

they won't scream, 

they'll keep their pain inside.

They will gently and silently drift away 

never to return. 

They won't stop being good, 

they'll never trust you again. 

This is exactly when you lost them ..

I wished for happiness and peace of calm mind

This holiday season, I wish for things money can’t buy: the 𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗺 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱, the 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗹𝗮𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗲𝗿 shared with loved ones, and the 𝗷𝗼𝘆 𝗼𝗳 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 that make life feel special.

Above all, I wish for you to 𝘀𝗲𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗮𝗺𝗮𝘇𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲, to 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗵, and to remember that 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗯𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝘀𝗼 𝗺𝘂𝗰𝗵 𝗴𝗼𝗼𝗱 to the world.

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗱—𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗾𝘂𝗲, 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝗶𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗰𝗲𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲. May this season remind you of that, again and again.

I’m slowly learning that even if I react

 "I’m slowly learning that even if I react, it won’t change anything, it won’t make people suddenly love and respect me, it won’t magically change their minds. Sometimes it’s better to just let things be, let people go, don’t fight for closure, don’t ask for explanations, don’t chase answers and don’t expect people to understand where you’re coming from.

I’m slowly learning that life is better lived when you don’t center it on what’s happening around you and center it on what’s happening inside you instead.

Work on yourself and your inner peace and you’ll come to realize that not reacting to every little thing that bothers you is the first ingredient to living a happy and healthy life."

Sometimes I feel that I want your attention

Sometimes I feel that I want your attention a lot more than I should be asking, but I just quietly feel it and wait for you when you're not occupied. 

I know I'm acting like a child at times, and I'm sorry if there are moments I easily get sad when you are doing something all of a sudden. 

I don't want to make you feel like I'm being too clingy or being an attention-seeker, I just want to feel your presence and talk to you whenever possible. 

I know that before all of this, I was used to not seeking attention or just wanting to be left alone, but when you came along, it seemed like I wanted that kind of attention only from you. 

Perhaps this is the kind of love and affection that hit me deeply; that I just want things or stuff when it has to do with you, to feel your love, to feel your existence. 

Because your existence was a gift for me, a gift that comes with your kind of love. I love you deeply and adore you always.

A healthy love

 "You deserve a healthy love with someone who sees you, hears you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. Someone who is consistent, communicates clearly, and creates a calm safe space to heal, grow and bloom together. A love you never have to heal from."

Life is a continuous process

Life is a continuous process of growth and change, a journey of self-discovery where we learn and evolve with each step. Embrace our imperfections, learn from our mistakes, and keep moving forward, for the true beauty lies in the journey itself, not just the destination.

Have a heart of Gold

People who feel everything so deeply, can never turn off our hearts.

We want the world and everything in it. We want to hold it tightly, we want to keep it close by; we don't want to lose it.

We feel obligated to save people, to fix things, to make it better. We need to feel loved and give love as well. Our hearts beat for, and because of, all of the people we have the potential to care for. We're are the eager ones. And yes, we feel too much. I wish I had answers as to why why we were chosen to be the fragile ones, the easy to crumble ones, the heavy-hearted ones. I wish I knew why we are the ones that carry all of our emotions in our back pockets. I wish I knew why all of the easy stuff is so hard for us. Why when it's all said and done we still feel hurt by a world that isn't listening, that isn't the same as us.

But I'd like to think that one day the strength and love we try to give to the world will be appreciated. That caring deeply for others will pay off. Because truthfully, we are rare and beautiful souls. We are needed to make this world a little less heavy.

So wherever you are, whoever you are, if you feel things deeply please don't stop being you. Please don't stop loving the world and everyone who comes into yours. Please don't stop hoping for better days; don't stop trying to get it right, to make things good.

Soon enough you will run across someone who will see all these things in you and call them beautiful. They will be glad to have met you. They will fill that empty place. They will call you home. You dear, have a heart of gold. Don't let the world diminish that.

The right person is going to see your worth

 You are meant to be loved for exactly who you already are!

Don't change who you are just because someone who didn't deserve you failed to see your worth.

The right person is going to see your worth without you even trying, and they'll value you and appreciate every single piece of who you are and who you'll ever be.

What someone is carrying behind their smile or their laughter

You never truly know what someone is carrying behind their smile or their laughter. We often assume that the ones who appear the happiest are free from struggles, but in reality, they might be silently dealing with battles we can't even imagine. A bright face can mask the darkest moments, and the loudest laughter might be hiding the deepest pain. It’s easy to forget that everyone has their own burdens when all we see is the surface.

Be kind. Even when it feels like others don't deserve it, or when kindness seems unreciprocated. The world is already heavy enough, and your small act of compassion might be the only light someone sees in a long time. People need kindness the most when they show it the least, and you never know how much of a difference you could make in someone's life just by choosing to care.

Our world is beautiful

 "Sometimes, the things that we are trying to push away are those which we really want to stay in our life and there are times that when we realized how important it is to us, we then take the risk to have it back because we knew that our world can be as beautiful but never be meaningful, if without it."

How can I miss you in a heartbeat

"To you...."

"How can I miss  you in a heartbeat

When all it does is refuse to beat without you..

How can I leave you broken and beat

When you are by my side while I'm at war with a world-full not a few...

How can I not stare at you

When all I can do is to see through your eyes...

How can I leave you all alone

When my soul remains wrapped around you even after I die...

Now let me drink your poison

As a magic potion that won't let me die...

Let me walk with your love

Barefoot on  smouldering charcoal

As I know this  fire is nothing but a lie...

Never ever leave my hand

As I promised today I'll never let it go...

You just grip it tightly to signal your commands

So that all the roadblocks on our way I can shove and throw...."

We have two life

 I counted my years 

and realized that I have

Less time to live by, 

Than I have lived so far.

I feel like a child who won a pack of candies: at first he ate them with pleasure 

But when he realized that there was little left, he began to taste them intensely.

I have no time for endless meetings

where the statutes, rules, procedures & internal regulations are discussed, 

knowing that nothing will be done.

I no longer have the patience 

To stand absurd people who,

despite their chronological age, 

have not grown up.

My time is too short: 

I want the essence, 

my spirit is in a hurry. 

I do not have much candy

In the package anymore.

I want to live next to humans, 

very realistic people who know

How to laugh at their mistakes,

Who are not inflated by their own triumphs 

and who take responsibility for their actions.

In this way, human dignity is defended 

and we live in truth and honesty.

It is the essentials that make life useful.

I want to surround myself with people

who know how to touch the hearts of those whom hard strokes of life

have taught to grow with sweet touches of the soul.

Yes, I'm in a hurry.

I'm in a hurry to live with the intensity that only maturity can bring.

I do not intend to waste any of the remaining desserts.

I am sure they will be exquisite, 

much more than those eaten so far.

My goal is to reach the end satisfied 

and at peace with my loved ones and my conscience.

We have two lives

and the second begins when you realize you only have one.

Don't keep the secret of your heart

 "Don't keep the secret of your heart to yourself my dear! Tell it to me secretly, only to me. You smile so sweetly, whisper quietly, my heart will hear you, not my ears. The night is deaf, the home is mute, bird's nest envelops the sleep. Show me the secret of your heart through held tears, through trembling smile, through sweet shame and fall. " 

New resolutions of 2025

 "I'm investing in myself, in my growth, in my happiness.  I'm excited to see the new version of me emerge, stronger, more confident, and ready to embrace a life that reflects my true potential.

In 2025

 In 2025, I welcome: ✨🙏🏻

✨ Dreams worth manifesting.

✨ Books that inspire me.

✨ Stories worth writing.

✨ Coffee dates with myself.

✨ Changes worth making.

✨ Adventures that scare me.

✨ Growth worth celebrating.

✨ Mornings that energize me.

✨ Peace worth protecting.

✨ Friendships that nourish me.

✨ Boundaries worth respecting.

✨ Conversations that expand me.

✨ Love worth sharing.

When you are happy 😊

 When you are happy, you glow differently, you talk differently, you see differently, you feel differently, you love differently, and you live differently...

You are not broken; you are breaking through

 Always remember...🥀

‘When life breaks you, it is because you are ready to be put back together differently.

Every piece of you that feels shattered is a piece that will find a new place, a new purpose, a new meaning.

Trust that the cracks are where the light gets in. And sometimes, in our brokenness, we find our greatest wholeness.

We find the courage to rebuild, to reimagine, to redefine what it means to be strong.

You are not broken; you are breaking through.

You have no authority over how people view

The way people view you.

Sometimes I think about the different characters I play in everybody’s story.

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I’m a terrible person in some people's narratives and a Godsend in others.

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And none of it has anything to do with the person I truly am.

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The lens that others view you through is coloured by their upbringing, beliefs, and individual experiences.

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Some people see your bright personality as endearing and others see it as annoying.

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Some people think you’re weak and emotional and others feel safe to be themselves around you.

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Some people think you’re rude and selfish and others respect the way you stand up for yourself.

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Some people admire the way you take pride in the way you look and others think you’re conceited.

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And none of it has to do with who you truly are as a person.

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What you have to understand is that you have no authority over how people view you so never try to control the way others see you because the only thing that truly matters when the dust settles down at the end of the day is what you genuinely see in yourself.

Your ability to remain intact

 “This is the hard lesson I learned this year:

No matter how strong the bond feels, no matter how long you’ve known each other, no matter how many battles you fought side by side, and no matter how much love you believed was there—people’s hearts can change in the blink of an eye.

It’s a tough pill to swallow, realizing that loyalty isn’t always reciprocated, and promises aren’t always forever. The memories you built together, the laughter, the tears, the silent understanding—everything you held sacred—can be shattered in a single moment of change.

The hardest part isn’t even the loss itself; it’s the confusion. How can someone who once cared so deeply suddenly grow cold? How can someone you trusted to stay become the very person to leave? It’s a feeling that leaves you questioning not just them, but yourself. Did I miss the signs? Was I not enough? Was it all an illusion?

But here’s what I’ve come to understand:

Change is inevitable. People grow, priorities shift, and sometimes, no matter how much we fight to hold on, they drift away. It doesn’t always mean we did something wrong. It doesn’t make the love you shared any less real. It simply means their chapter in your story has ended, even if you weren’t ready to turn the page.

And while it’s painful—while it breaks you into pieces—it also teaches you strength. You learn to love without expectations, to cherish moments for what they are, and to accept that not all bonds are meant to last forever.

In the end, the people who are meant to stay will stay. They will fight for you as you fight for them. They will choose you, over and over again, without hesitation.

So let those who choose to leave, leave. Their departure doesn’t define your worth. Their changing heart doesn’t mean yours wasn’t enough.

Because even when the bond breaks, your ability to love remains intact—and that is where your true strength lies.”

Good morning

 “Sometimes you just have to turn the page to realize there’s more to your book of life than the page you’re stuck on. Stop being afraid to move on. Close this chapter of hurt, and never re-read it. It’s time to get what your life deserves, and move on from the things that don’t deserve you. Don’t try to fix what’s been broken in your past, let your future create something better.

Once you are addicted to someone

Once you find yourself addicted to someone, life begins to revolve around them. Their voice becomes the music that soothes your soul, their messages the words that light up your darkest days. One call from them can transform despair into hope, and their mere presence becomes the sanctuary your heart longs for.

This kind of connection isn’t just love—it’s a dependency on their essence. Their happiness dictates yours, their sadness feels like your own, and their laughter becomes the melody you wish to hear every day.

Such a bond can feel overwhelming, yet it’s the purest form of vulnerability and surrender. It’s the realization that their existence brings meaning to yours, and no matter how much the world tries to separate you, they remain the anchor that keeps you steady.

Hold onto them. Cherish their presence. Because once someone holds your heart this deeply, you’ve found the kind of love that transforms lives.

A gift from fate

 A gift from fate is a person

who hears your words. 

This is the one 

who understands every sentence,

feels the meaning behind your phrases 

and is always ready to listen to you. 

Such a person is a rare find – 

he gives weight to your thoughts

and makes you feel valuable. 

A gift from heaven is a person 

who hears your soul. 

This is something even deeper – 

a person who feels what is hidden behind the words. He sees the invisible, 

understands the unspoken and shares your emotions, even when you are silent. 

This is a relationship that does not need explanations, because your souls communicate in their own language. 

Appreciate these people – 

they are the true gifts in life. 

In them lies the warmth 

that we need 

to move forward with a smile and strength. 

Live with joy and gratitude! 

Because every day is a chance to discover such treasures – people who truly hear and feel us.

It was difficult this year ..

This year has been heavy in ways I didn’t expect. I’ve had to learn to leave people where they choose to stay, even when I wanted to pull them closer. It’s a quiet kind of pain, realizing that some people won’t meet you halfway, no matter how much you care. I struggled with it—wondering if I wasn’t enough or if I did something wrong. But after a while, I stopped fighting for people who wouldn’t fight for me. It wasn’t easy, and the ache doesn’t go away overnight, but I’ve started to understand that holding on too tightly only leaves my hands bruised. I’ve also learned that not everything needs my reaction, though that’s a lesson I’m still trying to master. There were moments when I wanted to lash out, defend myself, or explain my side just to feel heard. But I realized that reacting doesn’t always bring peace—it only drags out the hurt. I’m learning to sit with the discomfort, let the emotions pass, and choose silence when words would only make it worse.  It’s not a perfect process some days, the pain feels fresh, and healing feels slow. But little by little, I’m finding strength in letting go—of people, of expectations, and of the need to fix everything.

I miss Myself

 I missed myself. There, I said it. It's been a long time coming, a journey that felt like a war I barely made it out of. Here I am. Here I am. It means a lot more now. I worked so hard to let go of the parts of myself that were hurting. I worked even harder on the healing.

And here I am now. I found myself, laid down all that was never mine to carry and refused to ever settle for less than everything I ever wanted. This is me. I never lost sight of my worth, I only took a detour into the deepest parts of myself and discovered there's nothing I can't do. I missed myself. It's been a long time coming, a journey that brought me back home to me. It was worth it. I was worth it.

Love grows stronger when we share our thoughts

Husband and Wife lying silently on the bed at night, each lost in their own thoughts. No words are exchanged, just quiet.

Wife's mind is a storm of worries:

1. "Why isn’t he saying anything to me? Is he upset with me?"

2. "Have I stopped being beautiful in his eyes? Maybe I don’t look the way I used to."

3. "Oh no, maybe I’ve gained too much weight lately. Is he noticing?"

4. "What if he saw the fine lines and wrinkles on my face? I’m aging... am I still enough for him?"

5. "What if there’s someone else? What if he’s found comfort in someone outside our home?"

6. "Is he tired of me constantly complaining or nagging? Have I become too much for him to handle?"

Each thought spins into the next, leaving her restless and uncertain. She looks at him quietly, searching for answers in his still face, wondering why he seems so distant.

Meanwhile, in the husband’s mind, there’s just one simple thought:

"Why is my hair falling out so much? I need to do something about this before I go completely bald!"

The Bigger Picture:

Women often carry an ocean of unspoken thoughts, overthinking every small detail of their relationship, questioning their worth and the love they receive. On the other hand, men often focus on simpler, practical worries that don’t carry emotional weight, completely unaware of the storm brewing beside them.

What We Learn:

This small, humorous yet real difference shows the importance of communication in relationships. The wife’s worries could be eased with a simple reassurance, a hug, or loving words. The husband’s silent concern could be addressed with a shared laugh and open conversation.

Key Message:

In a relationship, both partners need to remember:

Don’t let silence create distance.

Communicate your thoughts, even the simple or silly ones.

Reassure each other often because small gestures of love can ease big worries.

Laughter and understanding bridge the gap between overthinking and simplicity.

Moral:

“Love grows stronger when we share our thoughts—no matter how big or small. A little understanding and laughter can turn quiet nights into moments of connection.”

Just bring yourself; and be yourself

 When I invite you over, you always ask “what should I bring?”

And I always say “just bring yourself.” 

But what I really mean is...

Bring your woes and your worries. 

Let us talk them out if you want to.

Bring your sadness and your sorrows and 

let me hold you whilst you cry, if you need to.

Bring your heaviness and heartache and 

let me lighten your load a little if I’m able to.

Bring your achievements and accomplishments and 

let me celebrate your successes with you.

Bring your happiness and hope and

let me share your joy and listen to your dreams.

Bring your flaws and your failures and 

let me accept you regardless.

Yes, when I say “just bring yourself,” what I really mean 

is that I want you to feel so comfortably yourself with me that you can bring your smiles and frowns, laughter and tears, joy and grief, highs and lows.

So just bring yourself; your whole self.

And be yourself.

Because your whole self is welcome here.

The peace of a 'boring' home life

 𝗔 '𝗕𝗼𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴' 𝗛𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 ❤🌻🦋

We often complain about the repetitiveness of our days.

Day in, day out, the same.

Morning alarm, breakfast, housework, work, looking after everyone else, dinner, baths, bed, wake up, repeat.

But do we ever stop to think how much peace is in consistency? How lucky we are if everyday is the same? No big disasters or nasty surprises? How there is so much value in enjoying home life? To get up and do the same tasks day and night is actually a blessing.

Laying your head on a pillow at night and thinking of what to cook for dinner the next day is a level of restfulness some people will never experience in their whole lifetime.

This world can be cruel and unnecessary; so if you have the peace of a 'boring' home life, you really have won the lottery of life. 

Maturity is realizing

 Maturing is realizing you prefer a quiet life. 

You don't chase after friendships or relationships, you're happy with the few friends you have, no drama, just working on being the best version of yourself, not comparing your life to others, and learning to enjoy your own company instead of relying on others to be happy. ❤🌻🦋

The Essence of Her

When a woman matures, the world often forgets her right to be loved,

Yet, like fruit, her sweetness lies in the ripeness of her soul.

She stands as a queen, her love a precious gift—

Offered only to hearts that truly see her worth.

A woman is a tender plant; in the hands of love, she blooms,

Rooted deep in her femininity, a sea of mysteries—

Unfathomable to those unskilled in its tides,

For her depths can cradle or consume.

She is silent poetry, her intentions veiled,

A muse for the poet who dares to unravel her verses.

Like dew, she graces the earth with quiet strength,

Calm yet storm-bound, fierce yet fragile.

In her wild eyes, magic brews,

A sorceress weaving spells of allure.

She is an Arab enchantress, a Greek goddess,

Her smile a radiant sun commanding celestial orbits.

With age, she gathers the wisdom of all her yesterdays—

A lover when her heart is given,

A girl in her tears, generous in her joy.

She reigns as queen and dances as princess,

Her chemistry a sacred enigma,

Known only to the hearts brave enough to love her truly.

Patience visited me

Patience visited me

And it reminded me

That good things take time to come to fruition

And grow slowly with stability

Peace visited me

And it reminded me

That I may remain calm through the storms of life

Regardless of the chaos surrounding me

Hope visited me

And it reminded me

That better times lay ahead

And it would always be there to guide and uplift me

Humility visited me

And it reminded me

That I may achieve it

Not by trying to shrink myself and make myself less

But by focusing on serving the world and uplifting those around me

Kindness visited me

And it reminded me

To be more gentle, forgiving and compassionate toward myself

And those surrounding me

Confidence visited me

And it reminded me

To not conceal or suppress my gifts and talents

In order to make others feel more comfortable

But to embrace what makes me me

Focus visited me

And it reminded me

That other people’s insecurities and judgements about me

Are not my problem

And I should redirect my attention

From others back to me

Freedom visited me

And it reminded me

That no one has control over my mindset, thoughts and wellbeing

But me

And love visited me

And it reminded me

That I need not search for it in others

As it lies within me.

Things will never be the same

There are times I feel so alone

Trying to do this thing called living

Aimlessly I wander and roam

A path that's rocky and unforgiving

There are times I want to quit

I'm trying so hard to rid my depression

It isn't easy I must admit 

Sometimes I feel it's my only possession 

I'm so comfortable feeling this way

A familiar place to be 

And sometimes I would rather stay

In the dark, instead of free

Some people just don't understand

When you've been through trauma and pain

It doesn't matter who holds your hand

Things will never be the same

Loneliness...

 "Loneliness is not just the absence of people. It is the absence of purpose, the absence of meaning. When you find yourself in a world where everything seems alien and distant, where every connection is superficial, and every attempt at understanding is met with indifference, you realize that true loneliness is not being alone, but feeling alone in a world that no longer makes sense."🥀🌷

We're not easy to love

The truth is

We’re not easy to love

We sometimes get too angry

Too quiet

Or say things we don’t mean

But with all that, still, some people decide to stay

And love us with all our moods

May we all find someone who decides to love us even when we are unbearable.

There is a kind of sadness

 "There is a kind of sadness that comes from knowing too much, from seeing the world as it truly is. It is the sadness of understanding that life is not a grand adventure, but a series of small, insignificant moments, that love is not a fairy tale, but a fragile, fleeting emotion, that happiness is not a permanent state, but a rare, fleeting glimpse of something we can never hold onto. And in that understanding, there is a profound loneliness, a sense of being cut off from the world, from other people, from oneself."

Despite the pain, I hold on because I care

 I give it my all, time and time again, offering people second chance after second chance. I hope that they'll recognize my efforts, feel my love, and meet me halfway. Despite the pain, I hold on because I care. However, after many attempts, I come to a painful realization: I'm the only one fighting. I've lost myself in the process. Walking away isn't giving up; it's about survival. I need to reclaim the parts of myself that I've lost. While it hurts to let go, holding on to someone who doesn't see my worth hurts even more.

What would it mean if my purpose

What would it mean if my purpose, my path, from this moment on were really this simple: to be able to look into the eyes of another with such such compassion, such acceptance, such unconditional tenderness and devotion? To offer as much love to others. It would mean seeing the vastness of my own soul and finally embracing it fully, without fear or judgement. It would mean standing in the world in all my vulnerability, wide open, and knowing that even when I have no idea what. To do next, I can choose to do the loving thing, and it will be enough. It would mean letting go of the notion that I can make people love me by doing things for them or by acting a certain way, and believing that I am lovable just as I am. It would mean loving others that way too, just as they are and simply for being human. 

A way to pick up the lamp

They say beauty comes from a spirit that has weathered many hardships in life and somehow continues with resilience.Grace can be found in a soul who ages softly, even amid the tempest. I think the loveliest by far is the one whose gentle heart bears a hundred scars from caring, yet still finds a way to pick up the lamp, one more time, to light the way for love.

To You...

 To you ...

"No matter right now, how far we are or we are together 

We always share the same sky, the moon and the stars ...

No matter what you're doing at any given point time 

I am always hugging your heart in this heart of mine ...

No matter how busy you are inside the struggle of your day

I am crawled up inside of your soul, no matter you work or play ...

No matter how fed up you are I am always there in your deepest sighs

And no matter which world you're into, I always see the world through your eyes ...

No matter right now what you are missing in your lonely heart

I am the missing piece of you, laying so many miles apart ...

No matter how cold you're feeling, it's always my thought that gets you wet down there

No matter how warm you are feeling right now, just the thought of me kindles your fire ...

No matter how frigid your emotions are, thought of my lips on yours ignites your desire

No matter how lonely are you right now, thought of us together always lit up the bonfire ...

No matter if you're alone or feeling lonely in a crowd, I'm your shadow that follows you everywhere

No matter how unloved you're feeling right now, just the thought of me makes you feel loved forever ...

No matter how long it takes, one day I will overcome this distance to make up for the lost time

That day the passion of our love will overflow, together our bodies would entwine ..."

What I want in a partner

 When someone asked me what I want in a partner, my response was simple yet profound. I need someone who will accept me for who I am, without condition or pretension. I need them to see my flaws, my imperfections, and my rough edges, and yet still choose to love me.

I crave a deep understanding, one that transcends words and explanations. I need someone who can sense my emotions, my thoughts, and my desires, even when I struggle to articulate them. I need them to listen with empathy, with compassion, and with an open heart.

In times of conflict, I need someone who can offer me security, a sense of safety, and a reminder that our love is stronger than any disagreement. I need them to be my rock, my shelter, and my haven.

I long for someone who knows me intimately, without the masks, the filters, or the pretenses. I want someone who sees the real me, in all my complexity, and still chooses to love me, to accept me, and to cherish me.

That's what I want in a partner – someone who loves me for who I am, without condition, without apology, and without expectation of change. Someone who sees my true self and says, 'I love you, just as you are.

Quotes

 “Silence is pure and holy. It draws people together because only those who are comfortable with each other can sit without speaking.”

Just do what you can

Christmas can be hard,

When someone you love isn’t near.

But look deep within your heart,

And you’ll feel them still here.

The star in the sky,

The soft falling snow,

The robin that visits—

It’s as if they all know.

If this season feels heavy,

And you’re struggling to cope,

Take it one moment at a time,

And hold on to hope.

There’s no need to be merry,

No need to shine bright.

Just do what you can,

And trust it’s alright.

To shine your brightest light is to be who you truly are

 Now, more than ever, we need to bring the light ..

Light is commonly associated with quality of life. It can be found in the twinkle of the eye, in the warmth of a smile, and even within the soul.

The light inside our hearts can breathe life into anything it touches, whether it be our thoughts, feelings, the things we do, or the people we know.

The joy of witnessing the sunrise, fireworks, stars, and candlelight all bring life into the vast darkness.

It goes to say that we cannot appreciate the light if there is no darkness, like happiness

without knowing sadness ..

''To shine your brightest light is to be who you truly are.”

Mirror mirror 🪞

Mirror Mirror on the wall, I'll get up every time I fall, Whether I walk, run or have to crawl,

I'll set my goals and achieve them all. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

People with high emotional intelligence

 People with high emotional intelligence

don't listen to words, they read energies, moods, body language and small things like the look in your eyes.

They may not say a lot but they do notice everything. You'll have a very hard time hiding your true colors from them as they feel and see what isn't said.

Moments create memories

Life really is about the little things.

Laughing with your loved ones.

Conversations that last for hours.

Being silly.

Embracing your inner child.

Moments create memories, capture every second with those around you and never take time for granted.

If one day you never hear from me again

 If one day you never hear from me again, just remember that I loved you and made you my priority. I had and still have many options, but out of all those options, I chose you, even when you didn’t choose me.

I hope my absence gives you the peace that my love couldn’t bring you.

When someone has seen the worst parts of you

 "When someone has seen the worst parts of you and still decides to stay, that's when you know they are worth keeping. Not everyone is willing to stick with you when times get tough so appreciate those who remain by your side when you're at your worst because they are the ones who deserve you at your absolute best."

Maturity is saying no

 If you're not sure, it's a no. If you don't want to, it's a no. If you're not ready, it's a no. If your intuition says no, it's a no. If it feels bad, fake, forced, off, uncomfortable, or weird, it's a no. Maturity is saying no without apologizing when enforcing your boundaries.

She is not angry but despair

 You think she's angry, but you don't see,  

The weight she carries silently.  

It’s not the rage that fills her eyes,  

But tiredness in a thin disguise.

She's not furious, but worn and torn,  

From dreams abandoned, hopes forlorn.  

She’s tired, she’s weary, she’s feeling lost,  

Paying life’s relentless cost.

She’s sinking deep in a sea of doubt,  

Crying softly, without a shout.  

Frustration builds, but not from hate

It’s the closed doors, the heavy weight.

She promised much, her dreams were bright,  

But now she battles every night.  

She wants to give, to rise, to shine,  

But life’s harsh currents pull the line.

So when you see her weary stare,  

Know it’s not anger, but despair.  

She’s fighting hard to find her way,  

Hoping tomorrow’s a kinder day.

It's about the people

 At the end of the day, it's about the people who are by your side when life gets hard. It's about the people who are there when you need them the most.

It's about the people who say "we've got this" when you are facing challenges. It's about the people who notice when you're not yourself. It's about the people who check in on you when you have been more quiet than usual.

It's about the people you'd rather sit in comfortable silence with than make small talk with. It's about the people who raise an eyebrow and know you're lying when you say you are okay when you're not.

It's about the people who know your coffee order off by heart, and when you need one. It's about the people who text you to say they are thinking of you on the days that are difficult for you.

Put simply, it's about the people who think of you. 

It's about the people who notice. 

It's about the people who show up in the smallest but most meaningful ways. 

It's about the people who stay, through it all.

You are the center of my life

 I don't have all of the words to express how much you mean to me. I can only say that you are the center of my life and everything else revolves around our love for each other I will keep caring, adoring and loving you forever, during the easy times and the challenges we will face. We are in this together, and you are my partner for life.💕💕💕💕

The attitude

The attitude of "that's just how I am, take it or leave it" is still a signof immaturity. As an adult, it's your responsibility to figure out which of your traits are toxic and are negatively impactful towards other people and the ones you love, and to eventually learn how to fix them. At some point, we all gotta start making ourselves better individuals. 

If you truly believe you don't have to change anything about yourself, even at the very least the worst in you, and that people will just have to deal with it, then sorry, you're still a child. ❤️🌻🦋

We are coming to the end of another unique year

We are coming to the end of another unique year.

You have a couple of weeks left,

to let it all go.

Let go of worry, what will be will be.

Let go of regret, what’s done is done.

Let go of anger, it’s prolonging your pain.

Let it all go and make way.

You cant reach for the new, if your arms are full of yesterday’s baggage.

We can’t go back, my friends, but we can move on, lightly, without that load.

So...

Let it all go, set it all down.

It’s dragging you back.

And you're not going back,

You’re going forward.

So go forward, with peace.

You did what you did,

life gave what it gave, 

and we are who we are.

March on… 

Love first.

♥️♥️

Falling down is a part of life

 There comes a time in your life, when you walk away from all the drama and people who create it. 

You surround yourself with people who make you laugh. Forget the bad and focus on the good. 

Love the people who treat you right, pray for the ones who do not. 

Life is too short to be anything but happy. 

Falling down is a part of life, 

getting back up is living ..

Don't wait to enjoy life

The best advice l ever got:

Enjoy your family right now.

Don't wait for life to get easier, don't wait for the paycheck to grow, or wait for the dream house.

Time doesn't slow down or wait for anyone, and these little moments won't last forever.

Look around and you'll probably see that you once dreamed of the very life you're living today.

The busy home, the playing kids, the endless to-do list...

It's all part of the beautiful life you've been creating.

Don't wait to enjoy it.🤍❤️

Make yourself unavailable to everyone

Sometimes you have to make yourself unavailable to everyone for a while so that you can become available to yourself. Sometimes you have to shut the whole world out so that you can tend to your inner world. Sometimes you need to quieten all the noise so that you can hear the only voice that matters . . . the whisper of Love in your heart saying, "I'm still here."

Love the edges

 If you’re going to fall in love with me, love all of me. Don’t just love the part of me that’s kind, caring, and full of joy. Love me in my messy moments too—when I’m moody, when sadness lingers, when jealousy creeps in, and when my insecurities surface.

 Love the edges as much as the softness, because they’re all part of who I am.

Everything is changing

At this age, everything is changing. Day by day we dont notice, but just look back over the past year and you will realise everything has. People you thought that were going to be there forever aren't, and people you never imagined you'd be speaking to are now some of your closest friends. Life makes little sense, and the more we grow the less sense it will make. So make the most of now, before it all changes once again, because in the near future, all of this is only going to be memories.

Walk in Nature

There is a reason why walking amongst nature is most people’s best advice when depression strikes. 

Because walking in nature is a return to ‘home’. 

You are not a lover of nature, or a fan of nature, you ‘are’ nature.

You are as much nature as the trees in your garden and the bees on your picnic. 

You were designed to live your days out in the wild with your fellow creatures and plants but progress, humanity, had different plans for us all. 

And so we exist day-to-day, in our homes, but never ‘home’. 

The quickest route back to self, to inner peace, is bare feet on grass, arms around trees, head in the clouds and heart in a forest. 

Put your bones in water, whenever you can, smell each flower you see and crumble dirt between your tired-of-typing fingers. 

You are nature, go home once in a while. 

It will bring you much you didn’t even know you were missing. 

2024 is going to be over

One thing I came to peace with in 2024 is that  I DON'T HAVE TO. I don't have to go out of my way. I don't have to be the bigger person. I don't have to fix anything I didn't break. I don't have to support those who don't support me. I don't have to try to make everyone happy. I don't have to explain myself to anyone. And I don't have to keep people in my life who don't bring me peace.

I am sorry to unlove you

 I'm sorry for forcing you to stay. I'm sorry for forcing you to make time for me and to give me attention. I'm sorry for forcing you to love me even when you don't want me anymore. I thought I could make you love me right. I thought if I continue holding on to you, you would learn to treat me right. But you didn't. In fact, you always make me cry. You always make me sad and always make my heart pounding with pain.

I'm so unhappy, and you never care at all. Why do you have to make me feel so alone when I'm with you? Why do you always have to make me beg for your love? I wish I could just learn to unlove you. I'm hurting so bad, yet you always have a way to hurt me even more. I'm tired— not of loving you, but I'm tired of all the sadness and pain that you're making me feel.

I thought loving you hard will make you love me better. But it wasn't enough. I was not enough. Most of the time, I just wish not to wake-up anymore. So that you would never see me again. So that my heart would stop aching. And maybe, when I'm gone, only then you would realize that I was always been there for you all along.

It makes me sad how you treated me poorly despite of loving you so selflessly. It was sad loving someone with all I have and realized that I was still not enough.

Who we need!!

We need someone who sees us for who we really are, without any masks. 

We need someone who understands our struggles, our dreams, and accepts us, flaws and all. 

We need someone who doesn’t have to be perfect but is genuine. 

We need someone who listens when we need to talk, who stays when things get tough, and who supports us without judgment.

 

We need someone who brings out the best in us, who pushes us to grow, and who loves us even on our worst days. 

We need someone who makes life’s journey easier and more meaningful.

She...

 She opens up her suitcase

And it’s loaded to the brim

She simply doesn’t have the room

To squeeze more baggage in

Her hold-all’s filled with years and years

Of things she has endured

But you think she has no hold-all

‘Cause she acts so self-assured

But just because she’s confident

And acts like she’s alright

It doesn’t mean her baggage 

Is inconsequentially light

For though her life looks rosy

It doesn’t mean to say

That she doesn’t carry burdens

That weigh her down each day

She’s fought off many monsters

Often swam up from the depths

She’s walked through many fires

And pulled herself back from the edge

So never think she walks on air

When she’s actually walked through hell

You just don’t know her load is heavy

Because she carries it so well

Quote

 Some of the best moments are never captured by cameras and are not posted in any social media platforms.

They are kept in private and are cherished together with the best people.

Live with joy and gratitude

 A gift from fate is a person

who hears your words. 

This is the one 

who understands every sentence,

feels the meaning behind your phrases 

and is always ready to listen to you. 

Such a person is a rare find – 

he gives weight to your thoughts

and makes you feel valuable. 

A gift from heaven is a person 

who hears your soul. 

This is something even deeper – 

a person who feels what is hidden behind the words. He sees the invisible, 

understands the unspoken and shares your emotions, even when you are silent. 

This is a relationship that does not need explanations, because your souls communicate in their own language. 

Appreciate these people – 

they are the true gifts in life. 

In them lies the warmth 

that we need 

to move forward with a smile and strength. 

Live with joy and gratitude! 

Because every day is a chance to discover such treasures – people who truly hear and feel us.

I'm so confused about life

 Maybe I still don't know what exactly I want in my life, but I do really know what I don't want. 

I don't want stressful and messy life, toxic relationships, unclear intentions, uncertain feelings or temporary people.. I don't want more tears before sleep, sad days, or painful nights..

I just want to forget everything and start again.

She's an Old Soul

 She’s an old soul. 

She’s the type of girl who doesn’t care much about flashy things. She wants you to wake up at 7 am and take her for a quiet walk in the park, holding her hand and talking about life. 

She wants you to surprise her with little notes left on her pillow or tucked in her purse, telling her how much she means to you.

She values deep conversations over small talk and would rather spend an evening at home, listening to music and sharing dreams, than going out to a noisy place. 

She appreciates the simple things—a cup of tea together, a thoughtful gesture, or just knowing you’re thinking of her. 

She’s not looking for grand gestures; she just wants to feel loved, cherished, and understood in a world that often forgets the importance of these little things.

If you have her in your life, treasure her. She’s one of a kind.

Quote

 You will be "too much" for some people: too loud, too soft, too this, too that. But you will ALWAYS be just right" for the people who Love you.

People who choose

 I understand people who choose to keep all their problems to themselves instead of reaching out to others for help. I understand them for choosing to be alone instead of being around with people. Some people might never understand, but I know that they don't want to reach out because they are afraid to be invalidated. What people don't know is that they've already heard enough from toxic people. They've already been told that their problems are nothing compared to those of other people. They've already been told that it's just in their heads. That what they feel is not even a big deal because some people are going through the same thing. You see, some people are secretly dying inside, but they still continue to hide it because not everyone will understand them. You can't really blame those people who chose to keep their feelings to themselves because I know somehow that they've tried to talk about their feelings to someone, yet some people made them feel like their feelings were so unimportant. It's sad to think that some people have to face all their battles alone because they do not receive the support that they need. And it's sadder because the ones that we are hoping to understand us better are sometimes the first to make us feel invalidated.

The greatest love story

 The greatest love stories are not about finding perfection, but about choosing to grow together.  It's about recognizing the potential within each other and supporting each other on the journey of becoming better, together.

Poem

In quiet moments between day and night,

A heartbeat echoes, pure and bright.

With eyes that glow like stars above,

A soul that knows only boundless love.

Through storms and shadows, they stand tall,

With whispers of comfort, they hear our call.

In every wag and every paw,

Loyalty shines, a beautiful law.

When silence falls and dreams take flight,

They lie beside us, a peaceful sight.

Through crowded days or lonely nights,

Their gentle presence ignites our lights.

So let us honor the love they share,

For in their hearts, they always care.

With gratitude, we hold them near,

Our loyal friends, forever dear ..

The word Yellow

I looked up the word ‘yellow’ the other day. 

I found so many shades of yellow that they had been distinguished by words like 

gold

honey

daffodil.

I found words like fire and sand and champagne and lemon and sunbeam and I even found a song.

Now imagine someone telling yellow that it’s ‘just yellow’.

When yellow is a sunbeam and a daffodil and fire.

When yellow is a song.

Without yellow, we couldn’t make orange and we couldn’t create green and our world would be far less colourful because of it.

Yellow’s true colours are not limited to one thing.

And neither are yours.

Some days you are dark and fiery and intense.

Some days you are rich and bright and vibrant.

Some days you are buttercups and dandelions and some days you are champagne and a song.

And without you, someone’s life would be far less bright and far less beautiful. 

You are you as 

yellow is yellow.

And the world needs you.

Because, no matter what you think, you are not ‘just you’.

You are so much more.

💛💛💛

Getting Too Attached to Someone is Dangerous

"Getting Too Attached to Someone is Dangerous"

Attachment is a beautiful yet delicate thread that ties us to others. It offers comfort, connection, and a sense of belonging, but when it becomes excessive, it can feel like walking on a tightrope over a sea of uncertainty.

When we become too attached to someone:

1. We Risk Losing Ourselves:

In the process of loving someone deeply, we may begin to forget our individuality. Their happiness becomes our sole focus, while our own needs and desires fade into the background.

2. We Fear the Uncontrollable:

The thought of losing them becomes our greatest fear. Every small argument, moment of silence, or change in their behavior feels magnified, as though it could shatter our world.

3. We Place Our Happiness in Their Hands:

Depending on someone else for your emotional well-being creates an imbalance. When they’re happy, so are you. But if they falter, your happiness crumbles too.

4. We Overlook Red Flags:

Extreme attachment can blind us to unhealthy patterns. We excuse behaviors, overlook flaws, and sacrifice our boundaries, all in the name of love.

5. We Risk Emotional Burnout:

Giving too much without receiving the same energy in return leads to emotional exhaustion. You find yourself drained, questioning your worth, and wondering if your attachment is one-sided.

Protecting Yourself from Over-Attachment:

Maintain Your Identity:

Nurture your passions, dreams, and friendships outside of the relationship. Remember, you’re a whole person on your own.

Set Healthy Boundaries:

Love doesn’t mean losing yourself. Communicate your needs and ensure the relationship is balanced.

Focus on Self-Love:

The stronger your relationship with yourself, the healthier your connections with others will be. Prioritize your mental and emotional well-being.

Accept Impermanence:

Life is unpredictable, and people may come and go. Cherish the moments, but don’t cling to what’s beyond your control.

It’s okay to love deeply, but never at the cost of your own peace. True connection thrives in balance, where love is shared, not depended upon, and attachment is healthy, not overwhelming.

You are Magic

You are not here to be ordinary.

I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking “but what’s so

extraordinary about me?”

Well…

You are so extraordinary that the moon has to move oceans just to erase

your footprints from the beach.

You are so important that the earth itself pulls you close to stop you

from floating away.

You are so full of wonder that your eyes contain more atoms than there

are stars in the known universe.

And if you think of all the people you love the most, you will realise that

the way in which you love them is not in the least bit ordinary. You love

with such power, such passion and such fire that it is comparable only to

the sun.

No, you are not here to be an ordinary thing in an ordinary world my

darling. The world itself knows you are not.

It knows you are magic.

Just me, my husband, our goals, and our kids

Just me, my husband, our goals, and our kids. We're keeping it simple, focusing on what truly matters. That's it. That's all. No fancy expectations, no grand ambitions.

We're working together to build a life that's filled with love, laughter, and a sense of purpose. We're raising our children to be kind, compassionate, and strong, and we're striving to be good role models for them.

That's it. That's our everything. 💗🥰

Afraid but still willing to try

 There comes a day when you realize that the fear never really goes away,

that if you really want something,

you have to be willing to do it afraid.

And maybe this is the only way you ever get to discover your fullest potential.

Maybe you just have to dive right in and face the thing that scares you the most.

Because in the end,

it's not the rejections and so-called failures that will haunt you.

It will be your own potential left unexplored.

So maybe you don't need to wait until you overcome your fears to take the first step forward.

Maybe you just need to know there's something more important than fear. Something greater.

Something worth fighting for.

And maybe overcoming your fears is the least important part of your story anyway.

Maybe what matters is that you're scared but still determined.

Shaky but still standing.

Afraid but still willing to try.

Focus on what’s happening within yourself.

 I’m slowly learning that reacting doesn’t change anything. It won’t make people love or respect me, nor will it alter their opinions.

Sometimes, it’s better to let things be—let people go, stop seeking closure, and stop chasing answers. Don’t expect everyone to understand your perspective.

I’m slowly realizing that life feels lighter when you stop centering it on external events and instead focus on what’s happening within yourself.

Ecological wellbeing

Every worm, every insect, every bird, every animal is working for ecological wellbeing of the planet, only we humans, who claim to be the most intelligent species here, are not doing that. 

𝙄 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙮, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪… 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙖𝙧

 "𝙄 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙮, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪… 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙖𝙧."

I give my all, but you only show up when it’s convenient. I’m here, standing firm, hoping, waiting. But every time, it's like I'm holding on to thin air. I pour my heart out, but silence fills the space where your words should be.

People say love is patient, love is kind, but where’s the kindness in fading away without a word? Sometimes, it's better to know a 'no' than to be led by hope. 

Ghosting doesn’t break us; it shows us who truly deserves to stay. If they can’t meet you halfway, maybe it’s time to walk your own path.

If someone can’t show up for you, if they can’t stay, then it’s time to let go. Don’t keep watering something that doesn’t grow. 💔

You don't have to give up being an adult

To be more childlike, you don't have to give up being an adult. The fully integrated person is capable of being both an adult and a child simultaneously. Recapture the childlike feelings of wide-eyed excitement, spontaneous appreciation, cutting loose, and being full of awe and wonder at this magnificent universe.

As a good woman

 No one bears the weight of silent cries,

Like a good woman with faithful ties.

Her heart, a fortress, steadfast and true,

Yet shattered by love she once thought grew.

She gave her all, her soul, her fire,

Built dreams on the whispers of his desire.

But promises faded, like mist at dawn,

Leaving her clutching what was gone.

Her loyalty a gift, her love unspoken,

But he saw her heart as easily broken.

She stayed through storms, through darkest nights,

Hoping he'd see her worth, her light.

But some men are blind to treasures they hold,

Trading diamonds for glitter, warmth for cold.

She learns too late, in her endless ache,

That loving the wrong man was her mistake.

Yet pain births strength, like a phoenix's flame,

From ashes of sorrow, she’ll rise again.

No one endures more, yet no one’s as strong,

As a good woman who’s been done wrong.

Loving you...

Loving you is my greatest

Pleasure but getting 

In your love in return 

Is my most valuable treasure

My beloved

Thank you because 

You make me smile 

When i'm down and 

When i'm in pain 

When i'm sad and 

Even when i felt like

Im tired of everything 

Thank you because 

You are giving me enough 

To fight 👊💝

I love you 

What i need...

I’ve spent so much of my life being the strong one—the one who keeps it together when everything feels like it’s falling apart, the one who pushes through even when the weight feels unbearable. 

I’m so used to wearing that strength like armor that I almost forget what it feels like to be soft, to let my guard down. That’s why being treated with kindness means more than words can express. It’s not about needing someone to save me—I can handle the hard stuff—but feeling safe enough to be vulnerable, even for a moment. 

When you’re used to carrying so much, even the smallest acts of gentleness feel like a reminder that I don’t have to be strong all the time, that it’s okay to rest. And sometimes, that’s exactly what I need.

Learn to accept that some things

Learn to accept that some things are out of your control. You don't have to force people to do something that you want them to do for you. You can't force them how they should behave or treat you. The only thing you can do is let them show who they really are. You just have to stay genuine and let them show how they would respond to you. Let them expose their true intentions and express what you really mean to them.

While it is true that communication is important, you must also know when to stop explaining how you want to be treated. Know that begging is not necessary. Some people don't treat or love you well, not because they don't understand but because they don't want to. No matter how many times you beg people to value you or how hard you convince yourself that they will change for you someday, it will never be possible unless they decide to. You can only tell them that you're hurt and you wish them to act right, but you can never force them to finally give you everything that you deserve.

Let them lose you if they do not value you. It might be easier said than done, but the least you can do for yourself is to stop holding on to people who do not choose you, do not love you properly, and do not value your presence in their lives.

We fight, we fix, we love, we stay

"We fight, we fix, we love, we stay." ❤️❤️❤️

This simple phrase holds the essence of mature love—the kind of love that isn’t afraid of challenges but embraces them, grows through them, and emerges stronger on the other side.

Fighting with Purpose

Fights are inevitable in any relationship, but the maturity lies in how we handle them.

✨ It’s about arguing to understand, not to win.

✨ It’s about listening actively to your partner’s pain, not just responding to defend yourself.

✨ Maturity means speaking with respect, even in moments of anger. It means addressing the issue, not attacking the person.

Arguments don’t have to be destructive—they can pave the way for growth, deeper understanding, and a stronger bond. ❤️

Fixing with Love

Fixing isn’t just about apologizing; it’s about taking meaningful action.

🌹 Maturity means recognizing when you’re wrong, owning up to it, and taking the steps to make things right.

🌹 It’s about compromise, finding common ground, and working together to build solutions.

🌹 Fixing is choosing love over pride, the relationship over your ego.

This process isn’t always easy, but it’s what transforms misunderstandings into stepping stones for a closer connection. ❤️

Loving Without Conditions

Loving someone isn’t always butterflies and romance—it’s about the small, everyday acts of care and devotion.

💖 Love is choosing to be there, even when things get messy.

💖 It’s prioritizing the relationship, showing empathy, and finding beauty in imperfection.

💖 Maturity means loving someone for who they truly are, flaws and all, and helping them grow into the best version of themselves.

Love is the fuel that keeps us moving forward, even on the toughest days. ❤️

Staying Through It All

The decision to stay is what sets mature relationships apart.

🌟 Staying means choosing commitment, even when it feels easier to walk away.

🌟 It means seeing relationships as journeys, with highs and lows, and embracing both.

🌟 Maturity is about persevering through the storms because you know the sunshine will be worth it.

Staying is about building something beautiful together—a life, a partnership, a love story that stands the test of time. ❤️

Maturity: The Foundation of Love

Maturity isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being intentional.

🦋 It’s understanding that relationships require effort, resilience, and a lot of patience.

🦋 It’s recognizing that every fight, fix, and moment of love is an opportunity to grow closer.

🦋 It’s knowing that love isn’t a destination—it’s an ongoing journey.

So, fight with care, fix with compassion, love unconditionally, and stay with commitment. Build a relationship that thrives on maturity, and you’ll create a bond that lasts a lifetime. ❤️❤️❤️