You are my life and my little world

 "I miss the way you treated me when we first started talking."

Back when every message felt like magic,

when your words were soft,

and your attention was undivided.

When I didn’t have to wonder if I mattered,

because you made it obvious —

in the way you listened,

the way you cared,

the way you made time,

not excuses.

I miss the good morning texts,

the random check-ins,

the genuine excitement just to hear from me.

I miss feeling chosen —

not like an option,

not like an afterthought,

but like I was the center of your world.

Somewhere along the way,

something changed.

The spark faded.

The effort disappeared.

And I’m left here —

missing a version of you

that maybe only existed in the beginning.

But that version?

That’s the one I fell for.

And I still wish he’d come back.

Life continues

 "If there is one thing I know, it is that life goes on. People change, and love transforms, and our hearts break and grow within us. The things we once wanted fade into new hope, we lose those we thought we would never lose, and we walk away from those we thought we would never walk away from. If there is one thing I know, it is that even through all of its confusion, even through the messiness of our existence, life continues. We push on."

Part of growth

 I haven’t always been a good person.

In some lives, I’ve been toxic.

In others, I’ve helped them reach the top.

In some stories, I’ve been a bad friend.

In others, I’ve always been the best listener. 

Part of growth is admitting that you weren’t always the better person in all the stories. 

Part of growth is admitting that you weren’t always the victim. 

I'm going to love you

 “I'm going to love you..

I'm going to love you in your weakest moments to your strongest ones.

I'm going to love you when you're happy and l'm going to still love you the most when you're sad.

Don't you understand? I'm here, and I'm not going anywhere. I want to love you, each and every piece of you.

I want you with your imperfections as much as I want you for you. And l'm always going to want you, l'm always going to be here loving you with everything.”

Real love is worth fighting

 “Let’s stop running from what we both know to be true: we can’t live without each other. Let’s meet again, not to dwell on the past but to embrace the love we’ve always shared. No overthinking, no doubts! just raw, real love worth fighting for..”

Quotes

 "I know I’m not enough.

So if you choose to leave or replace me,

I won’t hold it against you — I understand."

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 None of my pain came from enemies. 

It came from the ones 

who said they loved and cared for me.🌻🖤

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                          💔💔💔💔💔💔

Silence feels safer

 "I don’t really want to be around too many people lately.

I’m tired — not just physically, but emotionally.

Sometimes, silence feels safer than having to explain why I’m not okay."

I miss you

 "I miss the little things the most —

your random updates, your good mornings, your late-night thoughts.

I miss the way you made the ordinary feel special.

Truth is… I just miss you. All of you."

I lost connections with people

 I want to apologize to all the people l've lost connections with, to the friends I failed to send greetings on some occasions especially on their special days, to those who were once my human diaries that I no longer send updates, to my circles I rarely hang out with. Know that I never considered our friendships and bonds over. Neither did I think of burning our bridges. 

There might be just some spaces formed out of busy days and individual priorities. But you were never out of my prayers. I still long for your presence, but these days, I am already happy seeing each of you gradually reaching your dreams. I am cheering you from afar. I am proud of you, though I may not be vocal. I believe that deep and strong connections do not require constant catching up, because no distance and duration of silence can break a genuine bond.

Married, but doing it all ALONE

No one really talks about what it feels like to be a married single mother.

You’re not divorced. He’s not gone. But the weight? That’s ALL on you.

You pictured a teammate, but somewhere along the way, you became the DEFAULT parent. The one who remembers, plans, fixes, and carries everything.

Bedtime routines. Doctor visits. School events. Emotional support, for everyone. Meanwhile, he clocks out… or expects YOU to manage him too.

You’re not crazy, you’re DRAINED. And some days, you wonder if being on your own would at least make the loneliness make sense.

This isn’t what partnership should feel like.

It’s not just exhaustion. It’s grief. It’s burnout. It’s invisible work while holding everyone together, and LOSING yourself in the process.

But here’s the truth:

You’re not the only one.

So many women are carrying this silently, questioning themselves, wondering if anyone sees them.

We see you.

You’re not failing, you’re SURVIVING something impossible. And you don’t have to carry it all alone anymore.

You’re seen. You’re strong. And you STILL matter.🥺

Just don’t forget to treat yourself

 I know sometimes it feels like no one really sees the effort you’re putting in, and it makes you wonder if anything you do even matters. I’ve felt that too—like you’re showing up, trying your best, and somehow it still doesn’t feel like enough. 

People can be careless with their words, quick to overlook the quiet ways you keep holding yourself together. But that doesn’t mean what you’re doing isn’t valid. Every little thing you manage to push through counts. You don’t need to constantly prove your worth to anyone. It’s okay to take a breath and do things for yourself, not because someone else expects it, but because you matter too.

I’ve had days where I looked at myself and didn’t feel proud, where I questioned if I was falling behind or just not built for everything being thrown at me. But I keep going, not because I always feel strong, but because something in me still believes I’ll get to where I need to be. I hope you know it’s okay to not have it all figured out yet. Feeling lost or tired doesn’t make you any less of a person. 

You’ll have your time, truly. Just don’t forget to treat yourself with the same patience you offer everyone else. 😇

Part of growth

 I haven’t always been a good person.

In some lives, I’ve been toxic

In others, I’ve helped them reach the top

In some stories, I’ve been a bad friend.

In others, I’ve always been the best listener.

Part of growth is admitting that you weren’t always the better person in all the stories.

Part of growth is admitting that you weren’t always the victim.

Being true means being clear about your intentions

 I know now that whether there’s a label or not, it still hurts when you’re giving attention to someone else while you’re already interested in another person. 

It’s not about being “official”—it’s about being real with yourself and the people involved. If you’re spending time with someone, sharing parts of your life, then you owe it to them to be honest and not keep your options open just because it feels easier. Flirting with someone else while you’re already invested is confusing and unfair, not just to them but to yourself too.

I used to think having more than one option made me feel safer, but it only made things messier. If you really want to be with someone, you have to treat them like they matter—fully and without holding back. Saying “we’re not official” shouldn’t give you a free pass to act like it’s okay to chase after someone else. 

Being true means being clear about your intentions and giving the person your respect, even when things are still new or uncertain. At the end of the day, if you want something real, you have to stop entertaining what’s not.

I am sorry to force you to stay

 I'm sorry for forcing you to stay. I'm sorry for forcing you to make time for me and to give me attention. I'm sorry for forcing you to love me even when you don't want me anymore. I thought I could make you love me right. I thought if I continue holding on to you, you would learn to treat me right. But you didn't. In fact, you always make me cry. You always make me sad and always make my heart pounding with pain.

I'm so unhappy, and you never care at all. Why do you have to make me feel so alone when I'm with you? Why do you always have to make me beg for your love? I wish I could just learn to unlove you. I'm hurting so bad, yet you always have a way to hurt me even more. I'm tired— not of loving you, but I'm tired of all the sadness and pain that you're making me feel.

I thought loving you hard will make you love me better. But it wasn't enough. I was not enough. Most of the time, I just wish not to wake-up anymore. So that you would never see me again. So that my heart would stop aching. And maybe, when I'm gone, only then you would realize that I was always been there for you all along.

It makes me sad how you treated me poorly despite of loving you so selflessly. It was sad loving someone with all I have and realized that I was still not enough.

Don't try to fix

 "Sometimes you just have to turn the page to realize there’s more to your book of life than the page you’re stuck on. Stop being afraid to move on. Close this chapter of hurt, and never re-read it. It’s time to get what your life deserves, and move on from the things that don’t deserve you. Don’t try to fix what’s been broken in your past, let your future create something better." 

I am a paradox

 "I’m a paradox. I want to be happy, but I think of things that make me sad. I’m lazy, yet I’m ambitious. I don’t like myself, but I also love who I am. I say I don’t care, but I really do. I crave attention, but reject it when it comes my way. I’m a conflicted contradiction. If I can’t figure myself out, there’s no way anyone else has."  

I stay quiet 🤫

 I stay quiet, but that doesn’t mean I don’t see what’s going on. 

I notice the small things—the shift in someone’s voice, the way people move when they think no one’s watching. I don’t always speak on it, not because I don’t care, but because I’ve learned that you understand more when you just watch and listen. Talking isn’t always the answer; sometimes, staying quiet tells you everything you need to know.

I choose peace because I don’t want to waste my energy on things that don’t deserve it. That doesn’t mean I’ll pretend not to see the truth. Don’t confuse my silence with not knowing—I’m just waiting for the right time. I hear, I see, I understand. And when it matters, I’ll act. I may be quiet, but I’m not blind.

Value who cares

 "Value the one who checks in without being asked.

The one who notices the silence behind your smile.

The one who stays when things get heavy.

Because people like that are rare — and they mean it when they say they care."

I’m not oblivious.

 I don’t always react, but that doesn’t mean I didn’t notice. 

I catch the shift in tone, the hesitation in your voice, the way someone leaves something out or says a little too much. 

I notice the looks, the timing, the patterns that change when someone thinks no one’s paying attention. 

I just choose not to respond to everything. Not out of weakness, but because I’ve learned that silence can be its own kind of strength. 

Sometimes it’s not about calling things out in the moment—it’s about understanding more than what’s being shown on the surface.

I’ve come to realize that people eventually reveal who they are, with or without your reaction. You don’t have to rush to confront, explain, or correct every little thing. Letting things unfold, letting people show you their patterns over time—that’s when the truth really settles in. And when you stop reacting to every small thing, you start to see the bigger picture much more clearly. 

I’m not oblivious. I’m just not interested in wasting energy on performances. I’d rather watch quietly and learn what’s real.

You are not stuck forever

 Just for today, let yourself feel how you feel.

Do something that your future self will thank you for, even if it is small.

Find a healthy, productive distraction for when your mind needs to be rerouted. 

Unfollow every single person who makes you feel bad about yourself. 

Let yourself dream. Imagine what you want to build and create next in your life. 

Spend time with people who understand you. 

Sleep when you’re tired. 

Remember that you’re not stuck forever. 

Staying quiet doesn't mean I don't see what is happening

 Staying quiet doesn't mean I don't see what is happening. Sometimes, observing teaches more than speaking. 

I choose peace over noise, but I won't ignore the truth. Don't mistake my silence for ignorance -- I'm just saving my energy.

I see, I understand and I will act when the time is right.

I am quiet, but not blind.

Self-love.

I still keep checking on you

 I still keep checking on you.

Not because I’m hoping for a reply,

but because some part of me

still wants to know if you’re okay,

even from a distance.

I scroll through your name,

your updates,

your photos,

like maybe I’ll find a piece of you

that still remembers me.

I don’t reach out.

I don’t say anything.

But I’m there—

in the silence,

in the care that never asked for attention.

So if you ever wonder,

yes,

I still think of you.

I still keep checking on you.

Even if you never know.

Show up with honesty

 🙌🪐🧍‍♂️ Dear Men,

Close your eyes and imagine you have a daughter.

Imagine she is dating a guy just like you. Did you smile?

If No, then change.

If that thought made you uneasy, it's not to shame you, it's to wake you up.

Be the kind of man who leads with integrity, patience, and respect.

Show up with honesty, not just for others, but for yourself. Your actions today are shaping the example she might one day follow. Become someone her future wouldn't have to heal from.

We deserve a partner who shows up with love

 Having a partner who’s always in a bad mood?

It’s draining. Truly.

I understand being tired. I understand overstimulation. I understand the stress of parenting.

I feel all of that too.

But when the moodiness is constant? When the tension fills the room the second they don’t get their way or aren’t doing something they enjoy? It changes the whole atmosphere.

It becomes quiet. Heavy.

Like we’re all walking on eggshells.

It starts to dim my own light.

It ruins my mood. My energy. My desire to even try.

Suddenly, I don’t want to suggest doing anything together.

I don’t want to talk.

I don’t want to ask for help.

I don’t even want to be in the same room.

Because joy shouldn’t feel like something I have to fight for in my own home.

Especially with someone who’s supposed to be in this with me.

Parenting is hard, but a bad attitude every day makes it so much harder.

And the truth is?

We don’t deserve that.

We deserve a partner who shows up with love. With patience. With joy.

Not just when it’s easy.

Not just when it’s convenient.

One day someone will walk into your life and make you see why it never worked out with anyone else

 "One day, you will meet someone who makes you see the world in a new light.

It’s brighter. It’s more vibrant. It’s more beautiful. You will meet someone who will be better because you are in their life. You will meet someone who will make you better too.

One day you will meet someone who giggles when you dance and belt out Taylor Swift lyrics on a road trip. They will love you so deeply, that all your other relationships will seem unauthentic. All your other relationships won’t even seem real. Because, one day you will meet someone who is the real deal.

One day someone will walk into your life and make you see why it never worked out with anyone else."

I've had enough

 I am not always strong. Sometimes, I still cry when I'm alone. I still fall apart in every corner of my room. I break whenever somebody hurts me, and nobody knows how hard it is for me. Everybody thought I was okay, but the truth is, I also need someone to hold me when everything goes wrong. I also need someone who will listen to me when I'm having a bad day. I don't want to feel alone; I need someone to keep me safe in his arms whenever I feel like everything is falling apart. You see, people might never see how sad I am, and they might never see how tired I am right now because I always choose to pick myself up every time my world is crashing down. But I swear, I've been through a lot of sufferíng that I don't even deserve, and I no longer want to pretend that I am fine.

I've had enough.

I believe that deep and strong connections do not require constant catching up

 I want to apologize to all the people l've lost connections with, to the friends I failed to send greetings on some occasions especially on their special days, to those who were once my human diaries that I no longer send updates, to my circles I rarely hang out with. Know that I never considered our friendships and bonds over. 

Neither did I think of burning our bridges. There might be just some spaces formed out of busy days and individual priorities. But you were never out of my prayers. I still long for your presence, but these days, I am already happy seeing each of you gradually reaching your dreams. I am cheering you from afar. I am proud of you, though I may not be vocal. 

I believe that deep and strong connections do not require constant catching up, because no distance and duration of silence can break a genuine bond.

Make yours girl happy

 Make your girl happy. When she's happy, she talks a lot. She smiles a lot. No make up can compare to her genuine smile. When she's happy, she looks a hundred times better. How you treat her is a reflection of you. Treat her like how you want a man treat your future daughter.

I don't recognize myself

 "Lately, I don’t even recognize myself. I don’t laugh like I used to. I don’t smile the same. I speak less, feel less. It’s like the weight of everything has quietly changed me."

I realized love hurt most

 "I used to think falling in love was the easy part...

until I met you — and realized love hurts most

when you feel it deeply… but can never call it yours."

Know your worth and never forget how valuable your love and presence really is

 Stop telling yourself that you’re stupid for loving them!

Stop regretting the fact that you loved them so deeply, that you unconditionally gave them your entire heart, your soul, your mind, your body, and everything that you had to offer.

That’s exactly what you’re meant to do!

You were meant to love them deeply.

You were meant to fight for your relationship and for the person you loved so dearly.

What they chose to do with your love has absolutely nothing to do with the value of your love.

There is nothing to regret, and there’s no reason to keep telling yourself that you were stupid for not seeing things sooner.

You weren’t stupid, you loved and trusted someone in good faith who should have loved you back.

You weren’t supposed to be looking out for things.

You were supposed to feel safe and loved.

What they did has nothing to do with you.

What they did comes from who they were long before you came along, and they chose not to deal with it.

So take all of the hurt and all of the pain, heal from it but learn the lessons from it because you’ll be better for it.

Sometimes the reason things don’t work out is because you deserve so much better than what you were settling for; and you now get to take the beautiful new person that you’re becoming as a result of everything you’ve been through, and give that to someone who truly deserves your heart.

You get to give the best version of yourself to someone who actually appreciates you, who appreciates how hard you've worked on yourself, and to someone who matches the effort and love that you give to them.

Someone who knows how to love properly, and who’s ready to give love from a place of love.

Someone who sees your worth for not only who you already are, but who you’re also becoming.  

So don’t let the person who lost you steal that away from you.

Feel proud of the love you gave.

Feel proud that you gave them your soul, and that you loved as deeply as you could have because that says more about who you are as a person, and that’s something to be truly proud of.

Feel proud about knowing that the one who treats you right will receive all of you.

Know your worth and never forget how valuable your love and presence really is.

You weren't stupid, you did exactly what you were meant to do because what you gave was a reflection of your character and the values that you place around love.

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 “Be careful who you pushes away — one day you might realize you lost the one person who would’ve never walked away from you.”

Your time is precious so don’t waste on someone who doesn't value you

 Who we want in a Relationship.

 We want someone to come into our lives who knows how to manage emotional trauma, that has intelligence, and someone that can give us the world without us even asking. 

  Countless nights go by and we catch ourselves praying that maybe tomorrow we will find our soulmate that will make everything feel like a book that Nicholas Sparks wrote. 

 We want someone that notices us on a daily basis, respects us, admires us and treats us like a priority rather than an option. 

 We want someone who wants to protect our well-being and invests their time in our own happiness. 

 We want to be with someone who isn't afraid to hurt others people's feelings to protect ours. 

 We want someone who wakes up everyday looking for new ways to love us.

 We want someone who chooses us under any circumstance. 

 We want to be with someone who refuses to entertain any other person that's not us.

 We want someone that will continue chasing us long after, they have already had us.

 We all will eventually find someone who will give us the love and affection we have always longed for, but you always have to remember no matter what... It’s never too late to find someone who appreciates and values you for who you truly are as a person inside and out.

 Take my advice .... and always remember that your time is precious. So don't waste it on someone who doesn't realize you are too.

You deserve a real love

 He said “I LOVE YOU” while cheating on you.

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Straight to your face.

No shame. 

No guilt. 

Just lies wrapped in sweet words.

That’s not love, that’s pure disrespect.

He wanted the benefits of 

your loyalty while living like 

he was single.

He wanted your trust while 

breaking it over and over 

behind your back.

And the worst part? 

He made you question yourself.

Like you were the problem.

Like you needed to do more, 

love harder, give more of yourself 

just to keep him.

"No. Stop right there."

He didn’t cheat because you 

weren’t enough.

He cheated because he’s a 

coward who didn’t deserve 

you in the first place.

A man who truly loves you 

doesn’t risk losing you.

He doesn’t lie. He doesn’t sneak. 

He doesn’t cheat.

He protects what he values...

and if he betrayed you, 

that means he never really valued you.

So don’t waste your time 

crying over someone who 

had the audacity to betray 

you while saying “I love you.”

Let him go.

Let him be someone else’s headache.

You deserve real love; 

honest, 

loyal, 

and loud.

Not a walking contradiction with a guilty smile.

Quotes

 “Nothing cuts deeper than being ignored, replaced, forgotten, or lied to by someone you once trusted.”