If you love an overthinker, there are things you need to know.
Their neediness isn't simply neediness-it's fear. I promise you, no one is more tired by their overactive mind than they are. They live with it every day, and wish they could live life without the dozen hypotheticals invad-ing each moment. But they can't.
It's sometimes difficult to see, but there is beauty in over-thinking. Those people who are most afraid to hurt are also those ones who love the most. If you love an overthinker,
you should appreciate that. Be there for them.
Tell them you're not going away.
Reassurc them. They are still learning to trust. They're learning to let go of
their fears because the one before you walked away after love got a little hard. They are fighting every day to win the biggest battle, the battle against their own mindππ
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