Don't force him to do anything, don't pressure him to give you a place in his life, don't condition him so that he is thoughtful....
Don't beg him for caresses, or a furtive kiss, or hold your hand, don't make him give you explanations when something has you dissatisfied.
Don't insinuate how much you would like him to surprise you with a rose, don't show him that it hurts that he doesn't tell you how beautiful you look...
Don't tell him to treat you with tact and affection, that he saddens you when he stops talking to you, when he hangs up the phone, when he is not gentlemanly, or to dedicate songs, or romantic lyrics to you...
Don't commit him to supporting you in your difficult times, in your sorrows or when you have a broken heart, don't ask him for a hug, much less let him know what you need.
Don't die to hear him tell you: I love you, I need you, when he is no longer born to do it,
Do you know why?...
-Because whoever loves you sincerely, will not take care of you telling him anything, or asking him, or reminding him of the special dates.
The right man, the man who is for you, your exclusive, of your time and your life, the one that destiny has brought you for an indefinite time, will do all that and more to see you and make you happy if he really feels for you something real, unique... and never, but never will ever make you humble yourself and step on your dignity waiting for a "I love you".
Whoever is the right piece, will fit into your soul and will choose you every day to love you infinitely, he will procure you, he will respect you, you will not need to do something extraordinary, he will love you for the fact of being you, with all your virtues and all the mistakes.
Alone, do not despair, do not open the door to anyone without deserving it, there is that great love, which will come and heal every wound and every tear, to turn it into an excessive cry of happiness... there you will know and say...
It was worth the wait.
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