LIE

People need STORIES.

Stories of:

• Love
• Hope
• Survival
• Wisdom
• And sometimes Pain.

Maybe, you don't tell them

The full TRUTH;

Maybe, you tell them LIES

BUT

What is this WORLD actually?

"A LIE IN ITSELF"

😢

If a person has wealth, health and wisdom

Then only he or she gets everything

Otherwise no one gives them value or respect or response...


This is the real fact of the world...


No one can have a little trust on anyone...

Dream

Everyone have a dream
A dream that to be fulfilled
A dream to store memories
A dream of great achievement


But there are some restrictions in life
That doesn't allow us to move forward with our dream.


Stick to your dream..
It will happen one day or in our next life...


Haha ☺️

My inner soul

I am not able to share my feelings
I am not able to feel
What's going on in my life
How to rectify or understand
What would happen next
Just letting it go
Without any reason
Please let me know the answer
So that I can give

A MEANING TO MY LIFE

Don't wanna feel another touch..

Don't wanna feel another touch
Don't wanna start another fire
Don't wanna know another kiss
No other name falling off my lips
Don't wanna give my heart away to another stranger
Or let another begin
Won't even let the sunshine in
No, I will never love again
I will only love you

When you are of certain age...

When you are 20,

You are concerned about what others think of You.

When you are 40,

You stop caring about what others think of You.

When you are 60,

You realize that no one was thinking about You in the first place. 

The Perfect Tomorrow

The Perfect Tomorrow

The better days will come,

They will trail with heavy feet,

At the pace of elephants 🐘 traveling,

Their flights will be delayed,

They will come and go before they stay.

But they will come,

They will stay longer than before.

Those days will be yours sooner than later.

There's a certain sacredness..

There's a certain sacredness..
In the way I Live..
I am walking down a Path..
A path I wished I would never choose..
For when I will have to leave..
Willing to renounce every gift of God..
As am always been a meddler..
In my willingness to help..
Inviting troubles all my way..
There will be no regrets..
Whatsoever says the world..
And however they treat..
I can't give up..
Never ever can I wish to..
The only gift I would wish..
Is the Gift of Love..

There will never be a perfect time...

• There will never be a perfect time.
• You will never have complete peace in your life to make sense of this chaos.
• Life is supposed to be a message.
• Don't sit and curse your luck, waiting for the bad phase to pass.
• Nothing gets fine on its own.
• Time can't heal everything.
• Face this storm.
• Fight your demons.
• Take control of the situation.
• It's your life, and it's your mess.
• Don't wait for a miracle.
• Be your own miracle. 
• And fix it yourself.

India????

India banned bikini in Goa. India banned bikini clad mannequins in Mumbai. India banned sex toys. India banned consensual sex. India banned 50 shades of Grey. India banned the documentary India's daughter. Recently India banned the Porn. However if you think, our government only knows how to restrict us, then let me point out the things that are still allowed in our country.
Marital rape tops the list...
In case you fail to rape a woman on the road, you can always come back home and rape your wife!
Also materialising the actresses to the tunes of utterly shameful lyrics in item numbers is allowed in our country, followed by moral policing because kissing your partner in public is more offensive than raping a woman in a secluded place. Making fun of people belonging to the LGBTQ community, social exclusion of patients with AIDS, religious extremism of all kinds, littering and peeing in public are also encouraged in India.

And you thought India only knows how to ban on everything!! 😜😜😁😁😁

Silly Ignorant People!!! 😁😃😃

Beauty and the Beast..

Legend has it There is always a reason why Souls meet.

Maybe they found each other for reasons That weren't so different after all.

They were two Souls searching and Found a home lost in each other.

When Souls find comfort in one another separation is not possible.

The reasons they are brought together are no accident...

Maybe she needed someone to show her how to live and he needed someone to show him how to Love.

Are you sure of yourself

Be alone.
Eat alone,
Take yourself on dates,
Sleep alone.
In the midst of this you will learn about yourself.
You will grow,
You will figure out what inspires you,
You will curate your own dreams,
Your own beliefs,
Your own stunning clarity,
And when you do meet the person who makes your cells dance,
You will be sure of it,
Because you are sure of yourself.

How to make 2018 Great

How to make 2018 Great

Get excited about your goals.
Grind like you still got a point to prove.
Network with the right people.
Step out of your comfort zone.
Be brave when it comes to challenges.
Spend less time in bed.
Feed your mind.
Go out there and make things happen.
Complain less.
Let the shit go.
Stop negative habits.
Keep your circle positive.
Smile, laugh and love often.
Make kindness a priority.
Keep counting your blessings.
Talk about the things you love.
Try new things out.
Travel when you can.
Live in your means.
Spend more time with your loved ones.
Take good care of your body and soul.
Make your happiness a priority.
Be humble.

You might not be the first

You might not be the first

To crawl into my Heart,

Kiss me apart

Or share my skin

In the dark,

But you could be

The first one that matters,

You could be the first

One that lasts.

Yours only!

If you want to be someone in Life
If you want to achieve something
If you want to win
Always listen to your heart
And
If your heart doesn't give any answers
Just close your eyes
And
Think of your parents
And
Then you will cross your hurdles.
All your problems will vanish
Victory will be yours
Only Yours!

Joke

कभी kissi🙏अंधे का मजाक ना करे ।।😀😜
.
एक अँधा आदमी एक फाइव स्टार होटल
में
गया !😍
.
होटल मैनेजर ने उससे पूछा :- ये
हमारा मीनू है, आप क्या लेंगे सर?😘
.
अंधा आदमी :- मैं 🙏अँधा हूँ, आप
मुझे
अपनी किचन से, चम्मच को आपके खाने
के
आइटम में डुबोकर ला दें, मैं उसे
सूंघ कर,
आर्डर कर दूँगा!😁😎😘😘
.
मैनेजर को यह सुनकर
बड़ा ही आश्चर्य हुआ,
उसने मन ही मन में सोचा कि, कोई
आदमी सूंघकर कैसे बता सकता है😙😙
.
कि हमने
आज क्या बनाया है, पकाया है ! 😍
.
मैनेजर ने जितनी बार भी, अपने
अलग-अलग
खाने के आइटम में, चम्मच डुबाकर,
अँधे
आदमी को सुंघाई, अंधे ने
सही बताया कि वो क्या है,
और अँधे ने सूंघ कर ही खाने
का आर्डर
किया !  😍
.
हफ्ते-भर यही चलता रहा.
अँधा सूंघकर, आर्डर देता और
खाना खा कर
चला जाता !😁😘😘
.
एक दिन मैनेजर ने, अँधे
आदमी की परीक्षा लेने
की सोची कि यह
सब एक अँधा आदमी सूंघकर कैसे
बता सकता है ?😁😎😋
.
मैनेजर किचन में गया और
अपनी पत्नी मीना से बोला कि, तुम
चम्मच को अपने होठो से गीला कर दो !😘😃
.
मीना ने चम्मच को अपने होठों पर
रगड़
कर चम्मच मैनेजर को दे दी!😁
.
मैनेजर ने वो चम्मच अँधे
आदमी को ले जा कर
दी और बोला, बताओ आज हमने
क्या बनाया है ? 😍
.
अँधे आदमी ने चम्मच को सूंघा और
बोला :-😍
.
.
ओह मायी गोड! मेरी क्लासमेट
मीना यहाँ काम करती है !😘
मैनेजर अभी तक
बेहोश है😂

Breaking through the clouds

Breaking through the clouds,

When the faint sunrays,

Our bodies, kiss...

While lying down on them,

When we fondle each other,

The dry leaves giggle and hiss...

I wish the time

Stands still here

When unite our Lips...

As this Horizon of

Summer and Monsoon

For Life am going to Miss...

Everyone speaks about this World as not perfect..

Everyone speaks about this World as not perfect..
Just an excuse to cover up their own Sins..
As if YOU were too lazy enough to think it wasn't Your Job to do so..
You have already proved that You gave the Wrong people the power..
But have You ever tried to change this World on your own?
If every last one of You had did it with Your Heart's True desire..
I don't believe an eight year old would have been raped..
Shame on all of You who just tend to post on social media!!
Tell me when was the last time you did something to see a better World??
Your actions will change your World..
Not your DP's or Status..
So Now it's time you all grew some Spine!!
Stop posting bullshit!!

For every beautiful thing, will happen in its time.

If there is ever a day when you feel tired of saying GOOD FOR THEM and you are wondering when things will be good for you, take heart with great hope, and consider all the things this season of growing will lead into. Like an ocean that awaits many miles way, you may not be there yet, but you are surely on your way. So take your time while you are journeying, travel light, be safe. For there will come a time when you finally arrive on those shores and you will be so glad you did not settle. You will be so glad you did not give up. You will be so glad you did not sync yourself to someone else's pace and chose instead to anchor yourself in the steady rhythm of Grace. And after Everytime you went through, you arrived where you needed to be on time, and everything will be fine. Not perfect, but at least it will be fine. For every beautiful thing, will happen in its time.

Eternal Loneliness

Eternal Loneliness

Where has it led me?

Grief at every step

Shaken or Shattered

My heart is broken.

I don't have any grievances against you

Tell me,

Why does this happen?

I got separated from the one

I dreamt of living my life with

I won't get back, whatever I lost or what I lost

Where it has led me?

On the verge of destruction

Shaken or Shattered

My heart is broken.

Never forget how far you have come

Never forget how far you have come.

Everything you have gotten through.

All the times you have pushed on even when you felt you couldn't.

All the mornings you got out of bed no matter how hard it was.

All the times you wanted to give up but you got through another day.

Never forget how much strength you have developed along the way.

I Was Raised...

I Was Raised

To Show Respect.
___________________________

I was taught to knock before I open a Door.
Say 'Hello' when I enter a room.
Say 'Please' and 'Thank You', and to have respect for my elders.
I would let another person have my seat if they need it.
Say 'Yes Sir' and 'No Sir', and help others when they need me to, not stand on the sidelines and watch.
Hold the Door for the person behind me, say 'Excuse Me' when it's needed and to Love people for who they are and not for what I can get from them and most importantly, I was Raised to treat people exactly how I would exactly like to be treated by others.

It's Called RESPECT.

Dedicated to the special person in everyone's life

Isn't it funny
How some special person
Doesn't realize
They are special at all?

They are always Thoughtful
Without even thinking about it.

They are always right there
When you call.

They share,
Not expecting anything in return.

Yet always seen Richer
For giving..

Isn't it lovely
How those special person
Can teach us so much about living.

I Always Feel Happy. You Know Why?

I Always Feel Happy.
You Know Why?
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Because I don't expect anything from anyone.

Expection always hurts.

Life is Short.

So Love your Life.

Be Happy.

And keep Smiling.

Just Live for Yourself and before You Speak, Listen.

Before You Write, Think.

Before you Spend, Earn.

Before You Forgive, Pray.

Before You Hurt, Feel.

Before You Hate, Love.

Before You Quit, Try.

Before You Die, Live.

Stop apologizing

Stop apologizing

You don't have to say SORRY for
How you laugh😁,
How you dress 👗,
How you make your hair,
How you do your Make-up,
How you speak.

You don't have to be SORRY for being Yourself.

Do it fearlessly.

It's time to accept;
This is YOU,
And
You gotta spend the rest of your life with you.

So start Loving your sarcasm,
Your awkwardness,
Your weirdness,
Your peculiar habits,
Your unique sense of humor,
Your voice,
Your talents,
Your everything.

It will make your life so much easier to simply be Yourself.

Beauty and the Beast

She was never afraid of his Darkness
Or
The demons who danced in his eyes.
He thought no one could ever Love him
If he revealed what lurks inside.
He always knew he was different,
How could anyone Understand?
But she was never afraid of his Darkness
Or
The beast within the Man..

The Love, he holds

The Love, he holds an Unconditional thing..
For what he has within him..
Is a heart that's heavenly Beautiful..
To Be damn right Honest..
Am not the one, deserves to be Loved..
He can be whatever he wanna be..
When the world counts him as, Naive..
He's brave to have Loved Me..
Everytime I Lost Hope..
He's bled him into Me..
Drop by Drop into my Heart..
He's the Midnight Sun, I longed for..
Became a part of Me..
As my dreams lit up True..
While we have been the Opposites..
He endured the patience and passion..
To keep Us together..
All that I can Name Him..
He's my Almighty's gift..
Because if I had to be the Best..
Then he will always be..
The One who brings the Woman in Me..

It wasn't Love at First Sight..

It wasn't a Love at First Sight..
But more probably..
What happened was..
When we crossed each other's..
You changed my Path..
As we started to Speak..
I knew in my heart's ❤ desire..
I wanted You to be MINE..
Because
Love conquers all..
And
It was your's that swept me away..

Relationship

*_Relationship is not about Age.

Not about Distance.

Not about Communication each other every day.

What important most is:

1. Trust

2. Loyalty

The Trust of a Girl to her Real Man,

The Loyalty of a Man to his Girl._*

Different between Lonely and Lonesome???

Being Lonely and Lonesome are different.
Loneliness is hopeful of someone's arrival.
I wanted to get lost in the crowd.
But now I want someone to find me.
Because
A heart can never be alone.
It needs another heart to survive.
I wish someone comes to share my loneliness.

I 😃

I have understood that..
That you can't walk around the World..
Treating people with Love and Care..
After all You do..
Crooks are the one's You greet..
What if, a best is what it deserves??
If it is their wish to burn..
Be my pleasure to play..
Surrounded by wickedness all-around..
What good a daemon be??
If I Live without the Ravana's game..

Being complicated

Being complicated was never a Choice..
But beyond what I have lived through..
Was only viable to be Unpredictable..in a world, full of Demons..
All I harnessed was..
The very Face's I keep..
Exists with the very pain I endured..
For it is what made me be..
Immersed in Sorrow..
Hid everything under that Smile..
For now, I have those who Care..
I can truly be who I am..

You are the very breeze I LOVE

It's been a Long Sleep..

Never did I Wake Up..

Had missed You with Pain..

Soon as I was missed..

And it all changed into a Pleasure..

Always fell for someone Kind, Simple and Outright Honest..

But as You walked in..

My soul-less sleep had it's End..

For it's my time to breathe in..

For You are the very breeze I LOVE ❤..

If a girl is Silent, It's Dangerous

If a girl is Silent,
It's Dangerous.
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Why????

1. Over Thinking

2. Tired of Waiting

3. About to blow up

4. Needs a Hug

5. Falling Apart

6. Crying Inside

7. All of the above

9 places where Men want a Women's touch

9 places where Men want a Women's touch
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Do you know where Men want to be touched?

Do you want to be more intimate with your Lover or Husband?

It is important to know where Men want to be touched for growing your Relationship with him.😍

1. It is all on his Face

As per Chinese medicine, Yang is a kind of male energy that has been associated with male sexual drive for years and to top it all, Male face is the ground for most of the Yang channels. You got it right! Try and relax your partner's mood by running your fingers gently over his face. You will see a marked difference in his mood instantly.

2. Soothe the neckline

Neck is the next region to explore. Neck region that holds thyroid gland is believed to get stimulated upon gentle caresses, which is responsible for body's metabolism, including his sexual drive. After a while, switch the action with your Lips!

3. Play it along his Ears 👂

Ear 👂 lobe is a zone that has numerous nerve endings, so every time you touch his ear lobe, he will go crazy. Use imaginative ways to entice his senses by using your tongue, teeth or simply play with your fingers.

4. Magic touch for his hands ✋

Though his Palm can seem a bit rough to work under your gentle strokes, still this trick is quite effective to complete the business. Circle your fingers starting from the outer edge of his Palm, slowly progressing towards the centre. Gently press the webs with your thumb and forefinger to ease his tension and see him go crazy.

5. Route through the Spine

His lower back can be a great route to arousal. Move and rub your fingers on the region just above the hip bone. This will generate heat, warm his skin and relax him. Now go gently towards the Spine above while exerting the pressure. You can also entice his senses by tickling him very sensually with your hair.

6. Behind his Knees

The region behind his knees is very delicate and has many nerves to stimulate his senses. This sensitive volatile spot can be explored to drive him into pleasure Villa. Scratch gently behind his Knees to generate heat and ticklish sensations.

7. Bellybutton urges

His navel is an exciting spot to explore his Urges. Start by making circles around the Navel and then go towards the outer edge. But do remember, the amount of pressure has to remain consistent or the entire process can turn completely laughable. You can use a feather or maybe an ice cube to heighten his Pleasure.

8. Bottoms high

Soles of his feet are another tried and tested region. However, precaution should be taken while exercising the pressure or you will send him to one of his laughing sprees, which is something that is not going to get him into the mood. So, move your fingers gently like a Rhythm.

9. Caresses the tresses

His hair is as important as the rest of his body. Run your fingers through his hair, very gently and sensually. Play with his locks, moving your fingers up and down his neck and ears. This would definitely prepare him for everything you have on your mind.

So, ladies, use these steps to heighten your bedroom experience and to send your Man's spirit soaring!

Back in Time

Back in Time I was an Introvert..
Been treated as a Lone 🐺 Wolf..
A misfit among the honoured Alpha's..
Bullied for being the Nice guy around..
I ran away from every Life situations I had to deal with..
I never Trusted anyone with myself..
I have prayed people could leave me Alone..
I was always comfortable within the Shadows..
Hiding from the Laws of this Society..
Yet I touched the Master Manipulators..
Learned the ways of the Con..
And did what I could never have..
I Loved myself..
Inner engineered into the person I am today..
For I embraced the Con in Me..
I witnessed the Magic..
That she happened all Along..
That's more than I ever asked Thee..

Not Every Girl Wants To Be In A Relationship

Not Every Girl Wants To Be In A Relationship

_________________________

Some just want good company,

A guy to Vibe with,

Converse with & laugh with,

Not in a rush.

Start off Simple,

And let the rest find itself.

Having someone to talk to

And feeling comfortable around them is quite beautiful,

And it's a good Feeling.

Some men think women want money, cars, and gifts.

But the right woman wants a man's time, effort, passion, honesty, loyalty, smile, and him choosing to put her as his Priority.

Love

The distance between me and you

The distance between me and you is only a dream distance,

So there is no need to feel any sadness,

No need to feel that it is going to be a very simple and very natural phenomenon.

If you can relax - and nothing can be easier than relaxation -

Things will start happening on their own.

He is my Cup of Tea!

I can say he is a cup of good,

Stirred with bad,

With a few drops of innoncence.

The way he Smiles,

His Laugh,

His Love,

Is sometimes innocent.

But behind all of those things,

Sometimes hides a boy who isn't

Always mature and full of bad intentions.

Not evil but bad.

I am not saying this to condemn him,

But to remind others that even 

The Prettiest and Good Looking people on Earth

Have some Ugliness inside them.

It's the Reality of Life.

As you are shifting...

As you are shifting,
You will begin to realize that you are not the same person that you used to be.

The things you used to tolerate, 
Have now become intolerable. 

Where you once remained quiet, 
You are now speaking Truth. 

Where you once battled and argued, 
You are now choosing to remain Silent. 

You are beginning to understand the value of your voice 
And 
There are some situations that no longer deserve your Time, Energy and Focus.

Seeing you makes me feel....

Seeing you makes me feel

A departed dream returns to me

Passing through that century long night

A burst of morning returns to me

Keeping awake, crossing miles

The dream held me by the hand

Breathe held for many years

I can breathe again

As my breath mingles with yours

I can breathe again

I am in love with you

I am in love with you,

Totally, completely, madly,

Manoshi has fallen flat in love with you

There's no need to say anything,

I know you're not at all interested, and it's... it's totally cool

Until now, boys have always run after me,

I have never run after anybody,

But you're special, ya

I will never find a Lover like you,

And now that I have met you,

I can't love someone lesser than you,

So basically, I am screwed up, boss

I have no idea about my Future...

I honestly have no idea about a Future or anything that comes forth. 

All I know is I Love.. and our Story didn't come with a Guarantee that it might with stand every Storm. 

What I do wanna convey is that.. 
Loving You soulfully is what I wanna be.

And our Relationship is not between two People of Faith but a LOVE between two Souls.

So, I am not Afraid of what happens to us Tomorrow.

What matters is YOU are mine now and this is The Best Life I could ever Dream to be in.

As long as we are together I am going to Love You as GRACIOUSLY as I can.

I wanna make YOU feel Handsome in every step of the way.

And Loving You like no one has ever Loved before.

If only everyone could see the Love we share without the blinding distractions around the World they will see.

Just so that even if we shall part.
We can cherish every moment spent with each other in our hearts FOREVER.

Let's Love like never before as I need those memories and the Love we share to be a part of our Soul Forever and Ever..


🙏🙏👏👏 SOUL FOREVER & EVER...👏👏🙏🙏

If we are Honest with ourselves..

If we are honest with ourselves,

There are people whose hearts we have broken.

We run as the pieces fall to the floor,

Then turn and run back,

Wanting to help them put it all back together.

We grow angry when they don't want us to be part of their healing project,

Afraid that our participation

Can only lead to the worst,

All while we grow frustrated that they still aren't convinced of our good intentions.

We all want to be forgiven quickly,

Yet want to take our time forgiving others.

Whatever it is that makes you

Listen --

Whatever it is that makes you wake up, whatever it is that makes you feel a moment of Peace, live for it. Make sure that you focus on it. Make sure that you make time for it. I don't care what it is. You have to understand that happiness does not have to be this big, all consuming thing. Sometimes happiness is your morning cup of coffee. Sometimes it is the smell in the street after it rains, or your favorite song played on repeat for three hours straight. Sometimes happiness is your friend's laughter, or the way the sky looks through the trees in your favorite park. If it keeps you going, if it ignites something within you, it doesn't matter how small or grand it is. Just hold on to it. Let it save you.

BOMB OF LIFE

BOMB OF LIFE

Bomb suits are meant to protect you from danger,

To protect you from getting hurt, or being wounded,

But more than bombs it's Life, that hurts you,

At every corner there's betrayal, some pain.. 

So if we don't wear bomb suits to save us from the dangers of Life,

What's the point of wearing it to save us from Death?

Every day, Life kills us a little,

A bomb will kill us just once.

I will cherish...

I will cherish this Love..

Even when You would never be Mine..

That's the kind of Hope..

I wanna Live on with..

To be Eternally drowned in Your Love..

It's all that I have Truly felt..

Nothing else would keep Me..

From believing in Miracles..

That I have your Heart..

All I need is to win the World around..

For it's the dream that makes me Breathe..

You are still mine...

You are still mine,
He will never be yours,
Because even till today,
The promise he made to me,
Is greater than the promise he made to you,
There's this simple little thing you don't seem to understand,
More than you, he is in love with me
If you had at least left me for another person,
I would have felt pity and forgiven her
But...
How do I feel pity for God?
By loving you every single day, I can live for another 100 years
Either... either God kills me,
Or then accepts defeat and send you to me..

Until I take breath in this Life my

Your eyes, impish and mischievous

Your laughter's nonchalant insolence

Your hair unfurled their Waves undone

Never shall I forget

Until I take breath in this Life

Until I take breath in this Life

Your hands that abandoned mine

Your shadow that turned away it's gaze

Your look that never looked back

Never shall I forgive

Until I take breath in this Life

Until I take breath in this Life

Your unabashed dancing in the rain

Your silly sulkings at all things small

Your innocent childlike mischief

Always I will Love

Until I take breath in this Life
Until I take  breath in this Life

Your false vows and promises
Your burning scorching dreams
Your cruel ruthless prayers
Always I will Hate

Until I take  breath in this Life
Until I take  breath in this Life

When I felt You...

When I felt You...
In my Heart💓 like I held a blossom...
Enamoured by your Kindness...
I left my Wild ways behind...
For once I decided to stay...
Love as a Man with Blind courage...
As your Maturity outlived Mine...
I had learned to Love from You...
Trying to keep You happy was...
The only desire I heard to live with...
Your blissful Love is what lit my Soul...
Just wanna give away Everything I got...
Everything in Me...
Because that's all I wanna be...
When I think of You...

Realistic shit of life

Every Relationship will get " Boring" after you have been Together for years.
Love isn't a Feeling it's a Commitment to love every day, physically and emotionally.
It's difficult, it's not always laughing, smile and fun.
People tend to quit when it stops being fun, and they go look for someone else,
Because "The Spark Is Gone".
No, that's not how it works.
You want somebody to never give up on you and love you unconditionally then do the same.
Be the Change.
This isn't Hollywood, this isn't the movie.
That shit isn't true and real.
Love someone when you don't want to,
When they are easiest to deal with.
When they are hard to love.
That's the realistic shit there is.

BOYS DO CRY

BOYS DO CRY

Boys Do Cry When They See Their Mother In Pain.

Boys Do Cry When Their Sister Leaves Them After Marriage.

Boys Do Cry When They See Their Father In Trouble.

Boys Do Cry When They Are Hurt.

Boys Do Cry When They Are Heartbroken.

Boys Are Not Robots!!

They Too Have Feelings And Emotions.

They Just Don't Show.

But Boys Do Cry.

One person is so special...a friend

Twenty years from now,
I am gonna look back and remember
That you were that one person
Who could turn every frown into a smile in a few simple words;
That person who lifted my head when I was losing faith in myself,
That one person who carried tears on her shoulders after every fight,
Every break up,
Every death
That one person that accepted every decision I made,
That one person who knew who I really was
And
That one person that made the biggest difference in my life...

My Best Friend

Toxic relationship habits most people think as normal

Toxic relationship habits most people think as normal

There’s no class in high school on how to not be a shitty boyfriend or girlfriend. Sure, they teach us the biology of sex, the legality of marriage, and maybe we read a few obscure love stories from the 19th century on how not to be.

But when it comes down to actually handling the nitty-gritty of relationships, we’re given no pointers … or worse, we’re given advice columns in women’s magazines.

Yes, it’s trial-and-error from the get-go. And if you’re like most people, it’s been mostly error.

But part of the problem is that many unhealthy relationship habits are baked into our culture. We worship romantic love — you know, that dizzying and irrational romantic love that somehow finds breaking china plates on the wall in a fit of tears somewhat endearing—and scoff at practicality or unconventional sexualities. Men and women are raised to objectify each other and to objectify their relationships. Thus, our partners are often seen as assets rather than someone to share mutual emotional support.

A lot of the self-help literature out there isn’t helpful either (no, men and women are notfrom different planets, you over-generalizing prick). And for most of us, mom and dad surely weren’t the best examples either.

Fortunately, there’s been a lot of psychological research into healthy and happy relationships the past few decades and there are some general principles that keep popping up consistently that most people are unaware of or don’t follow. In fact, some of these principles actually go against what is traditionally considered “romantic” or normal in a relationship.

Below are six of the most common tendencies in relationships that many couples think are healthy and normal, but are actually toxic and destroying everything you hold dear. Get the tissues ready.

1. The relationship scorecard

What it is: The “keeping score” phenomenon is when someone you’re dating continues to blame you for past mistakes you made in the relationship. If both people in the relationship do this it devolves into what I call “the relationship scorecard,” where it becomes a battle to see who has screwed up the most over the months or years, and therefore who owes the other one more.

You were an asshole at Cynthia’s 28th birthday party back in 2010 and it has proceeded to ruin your life ever since. Why? Because there’s not a week that goes by that you’re not reminded of it. But that’s OK, because that time you caught her sending flirtatious text messages to her co-worker immediately removes her right to get jealous, so it’s kind of even, right?

Wrong.

Why it’s toxic: The relationship scorecard develops over time because one or both people in a relationship use past wrongdoings in order to try and justify current righteousness. This is a double-whammy of suckage. Not only are you deflecting the current issue itself, but you’re ginning up guilt and bitterness from the past to manipulate your partner into feeling wrong in the present.

If this goes on long enough, both partners eventually spend most of their energy trying to prove that they’re less culpable than the other, rather than solving the current problem. People spend all of their time trying to be less wrong for each other instead of being more right for each other.

What you should do instead: Deal with issues individually unless they are legitimately connected. If someone habitually cheats, then that’s obviously a recurring problem. But the fact that she embarrassed you in 2010 and now she got sad and ignored you today in 2013 have nothing to do with each other, so don’t bring it up.

You must recognize that by choosing to be with your significant other, you are choosing to be with all of their prior actions and behaviors. If you don’t accept those, then ultimately, you are not accepting them. If something bothered you that much a year ago, you should have dealt with it a year ago.

2. Dropping “hints” and other passive-aggression

What it is: Instead of stating a desire or thought overtly, your partner tries to nudge you in the right direction of figuring it out yourself. Instead of saying what’s actually upsetting you, you find small and petty ways to piss your partner off so you’ll then feel justified in complaining to them.

Why it’s toxic: Because it shows that you two are not comfortable communicating openly and clearly with one another. A person has no reason to be passive-aggressive if they feel safe expressing any anger or insecurity within the relationship. A person will never feel a need to drop “hints” if they feel like they won’t be judged or criticized for it.

What you should do instead: State your feelings and desires openly. And make it clear that the other person is not necessarily responsible or obligated to them but that you’d love to have their support. If they love you, they’ll almost always be able to give it.

3. Holding the relationship hostage

What it is: When one person has a simple criticism or complaint and blackmails the other person by threatening the commitment of the relationship as a whole. For instance, if someone feels like you’ve been cold to them, instead of saying, “I feel like you’re being cold sometimes,” they will say, “I can’t date someone who is cold to me all of the time.”

Why it’s toxic: It’s emotional blackmail and it creates tons of unnecessary drama. Every minor hiccup in the flow of the relationship results in a perceived commitment crisis. It’s crucial for both people in a relationship to know that negative thoughts and feelings can be communicated safely to one another without it threatening the relationship itself. Otherwise people will suppress their true thoughts and feelings which leads to an environment of distrust and manipulation.

What you should do instead: It’s fine to get upset at your partner or to not like something about them. That’s called being a normal human being. But understand that committing to a person and always liking a person are not the same thing. One can be committed to someone and not like everything about them. One can be eternally devoted to someone yet actually be annoyed or angered by their partner at times. On the contrary, two partners who are capable of communicating feedback and criticism towards one another, only without judgment or blackmail, will strengthen their commitment to one another in the long-run.

4. Blaming your partner for your own emotions

What it is: Let’s say you’re having a crappy day and your partner isn’t exactly being super sympathetic or supportive at the moment. They’ve been on the phone all day with some people from work. They got distracted when you hugged them. You want to lay around at home together and just watch a movie tonight, but they have plans to go out and see their friends.

So you lash out at them for being so insensitive and callous toward you. You’ve been having a shitty day and they have done nothing about it. Sure, you never asked, but they should just know to make you feel better. They should have gotten off the phone and ditched their plans based on your lousy emotional state.

Why it’s toxic: Blaming our partners for our emotions is a subtle form of selfishness, and a classic example of the poor maintenance of personal boundaries. When you set a precedent that your partner is responsible for how you feel at all times (and vice-versa), you will develop codependent tendencies. Suddenly, they’re not allowed to plan activities without checking with you first. All activities at home—even the mundane ones like reading books or watching TV—must be negotiated and compromised. When someone begins to get upset, all personal desires go out the window because it is now your responsibility to make one another feel better.

The biggest problem of developing these codependent tendencies is that they breed resentment. Sure, if my girlfriend gets mad at me once because she’s had a shitty day and is frustrated and needs attention, that’s understandable. But if it becomes an expectation that my life revolves around her emotional well-being at all times, then I’m soon going to become very bitter and even manipulative towards her feelings and desires.

What you should do instead: Take responsibility for your own emotions and expect your partner to be responsible for theirs. There’s a subtle yet important difference between being supportive of your partner and being obligated to your partner. Any sacrifices should be made as an autonomous choice and not seen as an expectation. As soon as both people in a relationship become culpable for each other’s moods and downswings, it gives them both incentives to hide their true feelings and manipulate one another.

5. Displays of “loving” jealousy

What it is: Getting pissed off when your partner talks, touches, calls, texts, hangs out, or sneezes in the general vicinity of another person and then you proceed to take that anger out on your partner and attempt to control their behavior. This often leads to insane behaviors such as hacking into your partner’s email account, looking through their text messages while they’re in the shower or even following them around town and showing up unannounced when they’re not expecting you.

Why it’s toxic: It surprises me that some people describe this as some sort of display of affection. They figure that if their partner wasn’t jealous, then that would somehow mean that they weren’t loved by them.

This is absolutely clownshit crazy to me. It’s controlling and manipulative. It creates unnecessary drama and fighting. It transmits a message of a lack of trust in the other person. And to be honest, it’s demeaning. If my girlfriend cannot trust me to be around other attractive women by myself, then it implies that she believes that I’m either a) a liar, or b) incapable of controlling my impulses. In either case, that’s a woman I do not want to be dating.

What you should do instead: Trust your partner. It’s a radical idea, I know. Some jealousy is natural. But excessive jealousy and controlling behaviors towards your partner are signs of your own feelings of unworthiness and you should learn to deal with them and not force them onto those close to you. Because otherwise you are only going to eventually push that person away.

6. Buying the solutions to relationship problems

What it is: Any time a major conflict or issue comes up in the relationship, instead of solving it, one covers it up with the excitement and good feelings that come with buying something nice or going on a trip somewhere.

My parents were experts at this one. And it got them real far: a big fat divorce and 15 years of hardly speaking to each other since. They have both since independently told me that this was the primary problem in their marriage: continuously covering up their real issues with superficial pleasures.

Why it’s toxic: Not only does it brush the real problem under the rug (where it will always re-emerge and even worse the next time), but it sets an unhealthy precedent within the relationship. This is not a gender-specific problem, but I will use the traditional gendered situation as an example. Let’s imagine that whenever a woman gets angry at her boyfriend/husband, the man “solves” the issue by buying the woman something nice, or taking her to a nice restaurant or something. Not only does this give the woman unconscious incentive to find more reasons to be upset with the man, but it also gives the man absolutely no incentive to actually be accountable for the problems in the relationship. So what do you end up with? A checked-out husband who feels like an ATM, and an incessantly bitter woman who feels unheard.

What you should do instead: Actually, you know, deal with the problem. Trust was broken? Talk about what it will take to rebuild it. Someone feels ignored or unappreciated? Talk about ways to restore those feelings of appreciation. Communicate!

There’s nothing wrong with doing nice things for a significant other after a fight to show solidarity and to reaffirm commitment. But one should never use gifts or fancy things to replace dealing with the underlying emotional issues. Gifts and trips are called luxuries for a reason, you only get to appreciate them when everything else is already good. If you use them to cover up your problems, then you will find yourself with a much bigger problem down the line.

A fight between Love and God!

Simple story of Love,

Undying Love that a MAN had for a WOMAN,

Unflinching love that a WOMAN had for a MAN,

And unending faith that GOD had on their Love

Love that breaks you,
But still keeps you together,

Love that creates distances,
But still brings you closer,

Love that is true,
And forever,

And I learnt that,

If you have the power to Love like that,
Then God makes sure that your Love finds its way

All you have to do is just hang in there
And WAIT...

Wait for your Time

World of Peace

World of Peace

There is a place beyond the Hills

Hidden from greedy eyes by Mistake

Serene and Isolated it is

Nature's true Home it is

Flowers in full Bloom

Away from worldly Gloom

Swept by the Winds

Of Peace and Tranquility

Isn't it very place we all Need

Away from all these crowded Cities.

I have been an OutLaw.....

I have been an OutLaw..

For the very same Reason..

Many don't understand Me..

Walked my way Alone..

Because not everyone Saw..

The world, the way I See..

I have walked Away..

For that am an OutLaw..

I don't Love or Live..

My Life with the Age-old Logic..

All I have is a Handful of feelings..

And a pinch of Love to taste..

Love's never been my Best part..

But it's what I need to Live..

And I would fall in Love with you..

As many times as You blink your very eyes..

For that am an OutLaw..

The world would not understand how I Love..

TIME & KARMA

TIME & KARMA

When a bird is Alive, it eats ants.

When a bird has Died, ants eat it.

One tree can be made into million matchsticks but only one match is needed to burn a million trees!

Circumstances can change at any time.

Don't Devalue or Hurt anyone in this Life.

You may be powerful Today but Time is more powerful than you.

Hi everyone,

Since life is not just pictures..
I decide to follow the idea of a friend and participate in the game called "A meeting between friends".
The idea is to see who reads a Post without a Photo.
If no one reads my wall, it will be a short experience but if you read this message, make a comment with a word about me.
Just a word..

For example:
A place that reminds you of me, an object, a moment, a restaurant, coffee, movie...
Then copy this message on your wall and I will leave a word that reminds you of me!
Please don't post the word if you don't have time to copy the text.

True Power

You will continue to suffer

If you have an emotional reaction

To everything that is said to you.

True Power is sitting back and

Observing everything with Logic.

True Power is restraint.

If words control you

That means everyone else can control you.

Breath and allow things to pass.

The Society

The Society

This whole society, up to now, has been very violent with the individual.
It does not believe in individual; it is against the individual.
It tries in every possible way to destroy you for it's own purposes.
It needs clerks, it needs stationmasters, deputy collectors, policemen, magistrates, it needs soldiers.
It does not need human beings.
The society is very much afraid of your reality..
The whole society tries in every possible way to disconnect you from your essential core, and it creates a false, plastic personality around you and it forces you to become identified with it.
That's what it calls education.
It is not education; it is miseducation.
It is destructive, it is violent.

Workplace rules for happy life

*Workplace rules for happy life:*

1. *Trust no one* but respect  everyone.

2. What happens in office, remain
 office. *Never take office gossips* to home and vice versa.

3. *Enter office on time, leave on time*. Your desktop is not helping to improve your health.

4. *Never make Relationships* in the work place. It will always backfire.

5. *Expect nothing*. If somebody helps, feel thankful. If not, you will learn to know things on your own.

6. *Never rush for a position*. If you get promoted, congrats. If not, it doesn't matter. You will always be remembered for your knowledge and politeness, not for your designation.

7. *Never run behind office stuff*. You have better things to do in life.

8. *Avoid taking everything* on your ego. Your salary matters. You are being paid. Use your assets to get happiness.

9. It *doesn't matter how people treat you*. Be humble. You are not everyone's cup of tea.

10. In the end *nothing matters except family*, friends, home, and Inner peace.

Forever, Lost

I WILL WAKE A HUNDRED TIMES,

Lost in the madness of this nightmare,

Until the sunlight streaming through

My window finally burns the scene away.

EVEN THEN, HOURS LATER,

I cannot be sure I am not still in my dream.

I AM AFRAID THAT, ONE NIGHT, I WILL NEVER WAKE.

I will be doomed to push to that door over and over again

Running from a nightmare in which I am always

FOREVER, LOST.

She doesn't say " I Love You"

She doesn't say " I Love You"
Like a normal person.

Instead, she will laugh,
Shake her head,
Give you a little smile😁,
And say...
" You are an Idiot".

If she tells you that you are an Idiot
You are a Lucky Man.

LET HER BE..

LET HER

She has learned to let her soul soak in peace

And to guard her heart💓,

Keeping it Soft.

Do not beg for her love

If you will not wear it on your heart

Until it stops beating.

Do not chase her for sake of running.

Let her be.

Men vs Women

MEN VS WOMEN

How to make a MAN Happy:

1. Feed him

2. Sleep with him

3. Leave him with peace

4. Don't check his phone (messages)

5. Don't bother him with his movements

So what's so hard about that?

How to make a WOMAN Happy:

It's really not too difficult but... To make a woman happy a man only needs to be:

1. A Friend

2. A Companion

3. A Lover

4. A Brother

5. A Father

6. A Master

7. A Chef

8. An Electrician

9. A Plumber

10. A Mechanic

11. A Carpenter

12. A Decorator

13. A Stylist

14. A Sexologist

15. A Gynecologist

16. A Psychologist

17. A Pest Exterminator

18. A Psychiatrist

19. A Healer

20. A Good Listener

21. An Organizer

22. A Good Father

23. Very Clean

24. Sympathetic

25. Athletic

26. Warm

27. Attentive

28. Gallant

29. Intelligent

30. Funny

31. Creative

32. Tender 

33. Strong 

34. Understanding 

35. Tolerant 

36. Prudent 

37. Ambitious 

38. Capable 

39. Courageous 

40. Determined 

41. True 

42. Dependable 

43. Passionable 

Without Forgetting to:

44. Give her Compliments regularly

45. Go Shopping with Her

46. Be Honest 

47. Be very Rich

48. Do not Stress her out

49. Do not look at Other Girls

And At the Same Time, YOU Must Also say:

50. Give Her lots of Attention

51. Give Her lots of Time, especially Time for herself

52. Give Her lots of Space, never worrying about where she goes

But Most of All, It Is Very Important

53. Never forget

. Birthdays

. Anniversaries

. Valentine's Day

. Arrangements she makes

😁🤩😜🤭😋

To drive Yourself

To drive Yourself

To drive Yourself is much to be..

Controlled by what You feel..

When You have defined Your Life..

Especially the One You Love..

I would always rather be Happy..

With the moments of Joy..

The Memories when I felt Loved..

For it's meaningful for Me..

It's the eternal source of my Smile😁..

As I will cherish every touch of Yours I felt..

I have conjured the Hope..

To summon the Stars..

And have promised to..

Twinkle whenever it's Dark..

That's the way my Love shall always be for You..

Twinkly Twinkle Sky..

As this relationship is ours to Live with..

I would hold Your hands ✋ through..

Every misunderstanding by your Side..

For it is our Love that brings Us together..

Everytime we Fall apart..

SIGNS OF MATURITY

SIGNS OF MATURITY

1. Small talks no longer excite you.

2. Sleep is better than a Friday night out.

3. You forgive more.

4. You become more open minded.

5. You respect differences.

6. You don't force love.

7. You accept heartaches.

8. You don't judge easily.

9. You sometimes prefer to be silent than to engage in a nonsense fight.

10. Your happiness don't depend from people but from your inner self.

You remind me....

You remind me of the Bible.

Though people can see between your lines,
they misinterpret your words,
they try to define you by their misunderstanding.

They preach their rumors as truth,
crucify your name,
mock you for being a misfit,
throw dirt on your good intentions,
and bury your character.

Still you rise,

Still you overcome,

Still you love.

5 WAYS FOR A MAN TO BE COMPLETELY HAPPY

5 WAYS FOR A MAN TO BE COMPLETELY HAPPY

1. Be with a woman who makes you laugh

2. Be with a woman who gives you her time

3. Be with a woman who takes care of you

4. Be with a woman who really loves you

5. Finally, make sure these four women don't know each other.

😜🤩😁🤭

I'M JUST ME

I'M JUST ME

I am not perfect, I am me.

I have made bad decisions and wrong choices, but I am me.

I have said the wrong things, I have said the right things, because I am me.

I don't like everything I have done, but I did it because I am me. 

I have loved the wrong people and trusted the wrong people and I am still me.

If I had a chance to start again, I wouldn't change a thing.

Why?

Because I am me.

There are a lot of good things about me, you just need to look past the imperfections to see what's right.

If you can't do that then it's your loss.

I am the best I can be.

I am ME.