Dead-end relationships won’t magically lead you to something better

 A man who gives you the bare minimum and expects you to be happy is a man who can never truly love you in the way you deserve to be loved. Love is not just about being present—it’s about effort, intention, and consistency. If he only does the least required to keep you around, that’s not love—that’s convenience.

Yes, it’s comfortable to stay where it feels familiar. But comfort isn’t always happiness. If you sometimes feel like you deserve to be loved more, to be cherished and admired, to feel appreciated without having to beg for it, then it’s time to move on to your next chapter.

Dead-end relationships won’t magically lead you to something better. You can’t grow where you’re being emotionally starved. Staying in a situation where you are constantly questioning your worth only delays the love and happiness you are meant to experience.

Your new chapter is about leaving behind everything that no longer serves you. It’s about recognizing that real love is out there—love that is patient, love that is intentional, love that meets you at your level and grows with you.

You don’t have to settle. You don’t have to shrink yourself to fit into a space that was never designed to hold the fullness of your love. Walk away from what drains you. Walk toward what fulfills you. Your future self will thank you for it.

LOVE ❤️

LOVE isn’t always perfect. It isn’t a fairytale or storybook. And it doesn’t always come easy.

LOVE is overcoming obstacle, face challenges, fight to be together, holding on and never letting go, it’s a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define, and impossible to live without. 

LOVE is work, but most of all, LOVE is realizing that every hour, every minute, and every second was worth it because you did it TOGETHER.🖤

One sided love

 I’m exhausted… not just from the sleepless nights, but from carrying a love that feels one-sided.

I’m tired of the lies, the excuses, and the way I always have to be the one to initiate a call, just to feel like I still matter. Do you know how heavy it feels to always be the one reaching out, while the other person keeps pulling away?

At first, I told myself it was just a phase. That maybe you were busy, maybe you were tired, maybe you just needed space. But over time, I realized that love isn’t supposed to feel like chasing. Love isn’t supposed to feel like begging for attention, for honesty, for effort.

Now, the only thing that keeps me standing are our little kids. They are my reason when my heart wants to give up, my strength when my soul feels weak. Their laughter, their hugs, their tiny voices calling me “Mama”—that’s what reminds me why I can’t completely fall apart.. 

But here’s the lesson I’ve painfully learned: sometimes, love is not enough when respect, honesty, and effort are missing. You can love someone with your whole being, but if they keep choosing lies over truth, silence over communication, and distance over presence, you’ll end up destroying yourself while trying to save a bond that’s already broken.

I used to think quitting meant failure. That walking away meant I wasn’t strong enough. But now I understand—quitting doesn’t always mean giving up; sometimes it means choosing yourself, your peace, and your dignity.

Our children deserve a mother who isn’t drained from fighting battles alone. And I deserve to feel the kind of love that doesn’t make me question my worth.

God saved you

If someone is TEXTING your PARTNER, it's because your PARTNER is WELCOMING it. It is a reflection of how they are carrying on behind your back. The ENEMY of a WOMAN isn't a WOMAN rather the IRRESPONSIBLE man.

Never FIGHT another woman over a MAN. Truth is no WOMAN can DATE your MAN, if your MAN didn't allow it.

If another WOMAN STEALS your MAN, there's no better revenge than letting her keep him. REAL and GENUINE MEN can't be STOLEN. God just saved you from a COMMUNITY PROPERTY and a MAN OF THE PEOPLE.

If you love an overthinker

If you love an overthinker, there are things you need to understand.

Their neediness isn’t weakness, it’s fear. They don’t want to be “too much,” and I promise you, no one is more exhausted by their racing thoughts than they are. They live with a mind that never rests, and they wish they could turn off the noise of “what ifs” and “maybes.” But they can’t.

What most people miss is that there’s beauty in their overthinking. The same thoughts that make them anxious are the same thoughts that make them love harder. They’re careful with hearts, because they know too well what it feels like to have theirs broken.

If you love an overthinker, don’t see them as a burden. See them as someone who cares deeply, sometimes too deeply. Be patient with them. Reassure them. Remind them that you’re not going anywhere.

Because the truth is, behind every overthinking mind is a heart that simply wants to feel safe, loved, and understood. And when they finally do, you’ll realize their love is one of the purest kinds you’ll ever know.

Birthdays 🎂

 Birthdays remind us not only that we are growing older, but also that our parents are too—and sometimes that thought takes away the excitement. Yet, in the midst of these reminders, what truly matters to me is the love behind a simple wish. The fact that you took a moment from your day to think of me means more than words. May God’s blessings be upon each of us—granting good health, peace, and everything our hearts truly need.

Don't beg him

 Dont beg him.

Don't beg him to communicate more. 

Don't beg him for fast replies. 

Don't beg him to listen to you and understand your opinions. 

Don't beg him to treat you better. 

Don't beg him to make time for you. 

Don't beg him to write you a love letter. 

Don't beg him to unfollow women on social media. 

Don't beg him to take you to your favorite restaurant unannounced. 

The right man will be willing to do anything for you and understand you without you having to beg. 

Stop settling for the bare minimum.  

You and I both know you're worth more than that. 

One day, you will miss me

 One day, you will miss how much I care for you. You will be alone in some days, and you will remember me as someone who stayed with you when everybody else had left you. You will miss me when you realise that I was always there for you, even at your worst. I may not be perfect, and you might find someone better than me, but you know so well that nobody else has ever loved you the way I did.

I know someday you will remember me as someone who used to stay outside your door whenever you bid goodbye. You will miss me taking care of you when you're sick, you will miss me singing for you when you're feeling alone, and you will miss me telling you I love you and how much I'm proud of you even when you're feeling low. Maybe one day, even just for once in your life, you will miss the way I made you feel loved. And maybe, when that day comes, I am no longer the same person that you used to take for granted.

One day, you will miss me... and I won't be there.

It hurts to let go

 I try. I try so hard, every time. I give people chance after chance, hoping that this time it’ll be different, that maybe they’ll see the effort, feel the love, and meet me halfway. I hold on, even when it’s tearing me apart because I don’t want to give up on someone I care about.

But there comes a moment, after trying and trying, when I realize something painful: I can’t be the only one fighting. I can’t keep breaking myself to fix something that isn’t mine to fix. No matter how much love I pour in, I can’t make someone show up for me the way I’ve shown up for them.

So I reach a point where I have nothing left to give. Not because I didn’t try hard enough, but because I’ve tried so much that I’ve lost pieces of myself along the way. And I realize that walking away isn’t quitting,it’s survival. It’s reclaiming the parts of me that I’ve spent trying to save someone else.

It hurts to let go, but it hurts more to hold on to someone who doesn’t see your value.

I don't want to fall inlove ever again

 I don't want to fall inlove ever again.

I've come to this point where falling inlove doesn't excite me anymore. Whenever I think about it, the first thing I feel is pain. The first thing I remember is wound. And the rest of my mind will remind me about how many times I risked everything for it and lost myself in the end.

I'd rather be alone than suffer the same kind of pain over and over again. I seriously lost my faith in love. I certainly believe that there are some people who are destined for each other. But maybe there are also some people like me who are meant to be alone forever. Maybe some of us have already found the right one. Some of us are still searching or waiting.

And maybe some of us have already met the right person, yet we never had the chance to hold them a little longer.

Don't take for granted

 Don’t take for granted the person who actually loves you cares for you and misses you. Those people are few and far between, and when they’re gone, they can be difficult to replace when it comes to love. Sometimes we are looking at all the wrong things or at people who do not really matter, that we forget the one that was always there. Suddenly, one day, you might find that you created the trajectory that caused you to lose something precious while in pursuit of something that was never there to begin with. Be appreciative of those who appreciate you while you can.

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗮 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗮 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂, 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗮𝘆 𝗵𝘂𝗿𝘁𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗱𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗿𝗴𝘂𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗰𝗿𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗵𝘂𝗿𝘁, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗺𝗲, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂. 

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀, 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗯𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗿𝘆 𝗶𝗳 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗰𝘁𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂, 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲 𝗺𝗲, 𝗻𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗮𝗶𝗹, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲.

𝗣𝘂𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱𝘀 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗿, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗲𝘁.. 𝗶𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗼𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗿.

𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗴𝗲𝘁𝘀 𝗷𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗼𝘂𝘀, 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗲𝗿. 𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂. 

𝗦𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝘀𝘂𝗲.

𝗜𝗳 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗲𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿, 𝗽𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝘂𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗵𝗲𝗿. 𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲, 𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁.

𝗡𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗿, 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝘀𝗸𝘀, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝘀𝘄𝗲𝗿. 𝗝𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗯𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁, 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗿 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁, 𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵. 𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝗶𝘁 𝗵𝘂𝗿𝘁𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗿, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗹𝘆.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘀, 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗸𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗵𝗲’𝘀 𝘁𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲. 𝗖𝗼𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗺𝗲 𝗶𝗳 𝗜’𝗺 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗵𝘂𝘀𝗯𝗮𝗻𝗱, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱, 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗲𝘆𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘀𝗮𝗱𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀.

If a man really loves you

 If a man is madly crazily and deeply in love with you then no one can ever steal him from you. 

If he has eyes just for you then no other woman can catch his attention other than you. 

If a man really loves you and treats your heart as his own he will never let you down. He will never be dishonest with you and he will never cheat on you.

 A man who is truly in love with you will understand your pain and he will heal you with his love. If he is emotionally attached to you and cares about your feelings then he will never do anything that will make you cry. He will never hurt you intentionally and he will never let you go to bed with tears in your eyes. 

If a man really loves you then he will stay by your side forever and nothing in the world can change his feelings and his love for you..🌻🖤

Where did I go wrong?

 I gave my time.

I gave my heart.

I gave the best of me.

And still, it wasn’t enough.

Was I too much… or not enough? Did I love you in the wrong way, or did you simply realise that you don’t love me anymore? These are the questions that echo in the silence you left behind.

Maybe love is not about who gave more or who failed less. Maybe it’s about two hearts choosing each other every day. It’s sad because somewhere along the way, you stopped choosing me.

And so I ask, not to blame, but to understand: Where did I go wrong?

💔💔💔