WHAT KILLS LOVE?

1. LACK OF COMMUNICATION

The less you two communicate, the more you two slowly learn to live without each other. The more you two take breaks from each other, the faster love dies 

2. ENDLESS FIGHTS

Constant fighting will make you two avoid each other for the sake of peace, thus drifting apart

3. LACK OF MUTUAL ACTIVITIES

Yes, you two might be in different careers and have different likes; but if you don't have common activities to do together, the bond will fade

4. AFFAIRS

Affairs distract, your love for each other withers

5. ADDICTIONS

Addictions such as porn or alcohol take the best of our time and we end up defending the addiction more than the relationship, we get too hooked to see how we are neglecting or hurting our partner 

6. THIRD PARTIES

You might end up siding with third parties such as parents, friends or siblings to the point that they pull you away from your spouse 

7. LACK OF APPRECIATION

The more appreciation lacks, the more loving starts to feel like a strain; worst of all is when things are done, not out of joy but obligation as a spouse 

8. UNFORGIVENESS

Your heart cannot love and hold a grudge at the same time

9. DISTANCE

Physical distance but most of all, emotional distance can make two people fall out; try as much as possible to connect as a couple 

10. WORK

When your work or business becomes too demanding, you might struggle to balance, and your love life, because it appears not to have financial value, might suffer the consequences 

11. BLAME GAME

When you two keep exchanging blames and finding fault in each other, you will begin to dislike each other's company 

12. LACK OF EFFORT

Love doesn't just happen, doesn't just grow; it needs constant watering, nurturing and attention. If you both don't put in the effort, it will gradually die