*I CAN I WILL*
Every great opportunity has many reasons why it could fail. You have to trust your ability to solve problems along the way.
People who look for reasons why things won't work, struggle to take action.
People who look for reasons why things will work—and solve problems as they arise—make things happen."
*Be Catalyst*
*Make things happen*
ππ
You may think that you don't matter in this world.
But, because of you someone now likes themselves a little bit more because you made a passing comment that made them feel good.
Someone has read a book you recommended and they got lost in the pages.
Someone has remembered a joke you told them that made them smile to themselves on the bus.
Someone has tried on an outfit and felt beautiful because you complimented them on it.
Never think you don't have an impact, your fingerprints can't be wiped away from the little marks of kindness you have left on the world.
If someone comes into your life and has a positive impact on you,
But for some reason they can't stay, be thankful that your paths crossed and that they somehow made you happy, even if it was just for a short while.
Life is change.
People really do come and go.
Some come back, some don't, and that's okay.
And just because one person leaves, doesn't mean you should forget about everyone else who's still standing by your side.
Continue to appreciate what you have, and smile about the memories.
Without society to rebel against and to sail away from,
There would be no advances in civilization;
There would be no need for healers and mystics, priests and artists, including writers.
It is our curiosity and refusal to be satisfied with the status quo which compels us to challenge ourselves to learn and continue to grow.
To those I may have wronged,
I ask forgiveness.
To those I may have helped,
I wish I did more.
To those I neglected to help,
I ask for understanding.
To those who helped me,
I sincerely thank you so much.
π
Music is an unique art
It touches your heart
And makes your worries depart
Music is the essence of life
It helps sweet memories to revive
It gives stability to the disturbed soul
And entertainment to both young and old
Music can add life to your soul
And give you the confidence to reach your goal.
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If we are honest with ourselves,
There are people whose heart we have broken.
We run as the pieces fall to the floor,
Then turn and run back,
Wanting to help them put it all back together.
We grow angry when they don't want us to be part of their healing project,
Afraid that our participation can only lead to the worst,
All while we grow frustrated that they still aren't convinced of our good intentions.
We all want to be forgiven quickly,
Yet want to take our time forgiving others.
You can give a kiss,
But never take it back.
While gift a heart and hope to never get it back.
What actually is True Love?
It's just as simple as Sunrise π and Sunset.
If you find someone comfortable,
To share your desire with..
To shake hands π€with..
To walkπΆ♂️πΆ♀️with..
To share a hug π€with when needed..
A look into those eyes π..
Never makes you feel odd π..
Will make you miss their touch,
During every sleeping hour π΄..
While making you miss their voice all day long..
But still someone who would know π€..
You are sick π·π€§without telling them..
Understands words without expression
That's True Love ❤.
If you find someone less than that.
That's probably just a fluke.
Save your mind and use your brain.
Mostly we Save our brain and use our mind more,
And this is where we get into problems.
We keep our minds so fragile
That even a small thing throws us off balance
And we go on with that for so long and feel so unhappy, pathetic and depressed. ππ
The irony in the present situation:πππππππππ
“ Never have I seen
such a mess in life.
The air is pure but
wearing a mask is
mandatory.
Roads are empty
but it is impossible
to go on long drive.
People have clean
hands but there is a
ban on shaking hands.
Friends have time to
sit together but they
cannot get together.
The cook inside you
is crazy, but you cannot
call anyone for lunch or
dinner.
Every Monday,
the heart longs to go out, but the weekend does not seem to end.
Those who have money
have no way to spend it.
Those who don't have
money have no way to
earn it.
There is enough time
on hand but you can't
fulfill your dreams.
The culprit is all around
but cannot be seen.
A world full of irony!
Be positive but test negative.”
I have now learnt the importance of the following:
*1.* Why bathrooms and toilets were *outside* our houses and not *inside*.
*2.* Why we should not touch anything or anybody when we return from a barber shop or a funeral. You may return to normalcy *only* after having a bath as soon as you enter the house.
*3.* Why footwears were kept outside the house and not inside.
*4.* Why we needed to wash our hands and feet when we returned from school or after playing outside.
*5.* Why a mandatory 10 days isolation/quarantine was required when there was a birth in the house or death in the family).
*6.* Why households must not cook if there's a dead body inside the house.
*7.* Why washing of clothes was done outside the house and not inside.
*8.* Why it was mandatory to have bath before getting into the kitchen and cooking.
*9.* Why once you have had a bath, you were not supposed to physically touch those who were still to take bath.
Our "western education" brainwashed us to view all these things as "orthodox" with no place to follow in our 'modern" world. But these are the things which are coming to our rescue now. Maintaining physical hygiene, social distance and cleanliness were laughed at, ridiculed, insulted, systematically.
Think how advanced our ancestors were and their knowledge of causative agents, sanitary practices and infection control .
Time to go back to our roots.π₯π
"Madutengil kalanjittu povuka veruthe sneham abhinayichu pattikyan nilkaruthu....
Sneham orupad ayal pinned dukhikendu Ida varum...
Anubhavam Guru"
"Agar mere se mann bhar gaya to mere zindagi se nikal jana hamesha ke liye
Faltu me behla fusla kar pyaar karne ki Natak mat karna
Warna shayad baad me pachtana pade"
If you are tired of being with me then leave from my life forever
You don't need to show me fake love
Otherwise later on it'll be very difficult and unhappy situation for me or you.
KARMA
At the age when I had to fall in love with someone, I was against love at that time.
At the age when I had to marry and have a baby, I just started with a relation.
At the age of raising kid, I was struggling to make myself perfect.
So for me, it was too late for everything.
Opinion is really the lowest form of human knowledge.
It requires no accountability, no understanding.
The highest form of knowledge is empathy, for it requires to suspend our egos and live in another's world.
It provides profound purpose larger than the self kind of understandings.
Devotion to God begins with devotion to your family and community..
It is much easier to proclaim abstract and remote love, then to step into the midst of living and keep an open heart through the thick of it.
Be there where you are needed the most.
Take a moment
Now to stop and
Thank yourself
For how far you have come.
You have been trying to make changes in your Life and
All your efforts count..
Fir hua esa ki sab sunsaan ho gaya
Bhidbhaad wala wo rastay viraan ho gaya
Udd raha wo Parinda dekh kar is mahol ko
Apne hi Shahar se jese anjaan ho gaya
Mar rahe hai log hazaaron ki tadaad me
Waqt bhi insaan ke liye haiwaan ho gaya
Ro raha hai wo majdoor ghar me beth kar
Khatam ghar me khane ka samaan ho gaya
Ladne ke liye is Bhayanak mahamari se
Ghar me khed sara Hindustan ho gaya!!
No matter what happens to you,
You always have freedom of mind...
That means you have always freedom to choose the path of Virtue over the path of Suffering,
To choose one being with God over being Alone.
Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. And unselfishness is letting other people's lives alone, not interfering with them. Selfishness always aims at creating around it an absolute uniformity of type. Unselfishness recognizes infinite variety of type as a delightful thing, accepts it, acquiesces in it, enjoys it. It is not selfish to think for oneself. A man who does not think for himself does not think at all. It is grossly selfish to require of one's neighbor that he should think in the same way, and hold the same opinions. Why should he? If he can think, he will probably think differently. If he cannot think, it is monstrous to require thought of any kind from him. A red rose is not selfish because it wants to be a red rose. It would be horribly selfish if it wanted all the other flowers in the garden to be both red and roses.
Everytime you victimizing someone you're victimizing myself
Every act of kindness you've done you've done to yourself
Every happy and sad moment ever experienced by any human was or will be experienced by YOU
Once you have lived every human life throughout all time
You will have grown enough to be born
So the whole universe.. it's just an EGG
If you lack in one area of life then turn your focus to an area you prosper in,
Let go of any negative lacking thought and
Embrace the abundant thought.
The buzz of the honeymoon phase in a relationship makes falling in love such a great feeling. But once this high fades and the relationship shifts, you could notice your man changing as well. But how will you know if he’s no longer into you? There are some telltale things that men do when they lose interest in a relationship:
10 THINGS MEN DO WHEN THEY LOSE INTEREST IN A RELATIONSHIP
1. HE TAKES A LONG TIME TO RESPOND TO YOUR MESSAGES.
There was a time when every message you sent to your man got an instant reply. Lately, however, he’s noticeably answering your messages without any sense of urgency even when you know he’s not tied up at work. He also doesn’t make any effort to call you back even if his phone registered five missed calls from you. Additionally, he doesn’t make any attempts to call or send messages to you first since you are always the one initiating it.
2. HE STOPS PLANNING YOUR DATES.
You got so used to him setting up your weekend dates that all you needed to do was anticipate what exciting things and surprises he had in store. But now, you are the one deciding your weekends together and it feels like he’s just tagging along. He doesn’t actively plan your dates anymore.
3. THERE’S NO MORE PASSION IN HIS KISS.
He used to make you feel positively weak in the knees because there was passion in the way he kissed you. But now that his feelings might have changed, his kisses feel different as well. The worst thing is that he kisses you like he’s kissing a cousin – with a peck on the cheek! What’s that about, right?
4. HE BAILS ON YOU AND HANGS OUT WITH HIS BUDDIES.
You were practically together every night during the first few months of dating and he even made efforts to rearrange his schedule just so he could hang out with you. Now, he can afford to bail on you and spend his free time with his friends. When the honeymoon phase has passed, a relationship usually balances out, according to psychologist Randi Gunther via Psychology Today. Couples normally get back into their routines and disruptions, but there’s something off about a man who would rather spend time with his friends than his partner.
5. HE OPENLY FLIRTS WITH OTHER WOMEN.
Do you catch him looking at other women? Does he openly flirt with them even when he’s with you? A study revealed that while a man can still be attracted to other women, acting on this attraction even when he’s with someone could signal commitment problems. However, it’s one problem that can be resolved if you communicate your issues with your partner.
6. HE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
He changes the topic when you bring up stuff about your relationship. He’s not keen on defining your status at this point. His non-committal action might be his subtle way of telling you that he’s not ready to get serious with you.
7. HE DOESN’T TALK ABOUT HOW HIS DAY WENT ANYMORE.
You used to get blow-by-blow accounts of how his day went. You always knew what he was up to every minute of the day. You had his daily schedule pretty mapped out in your head because he would often send you photos of the interesting things he saw or did while you weren’t together. He would chat you up even when in a meeting or with other people. Now, you don’t even have a clue where he’s spending his time after work and he’s been awfully silent or vague about what he did for the day, aside from being in the office.
8. HE STOPS SMELLING FRESH.
It seems like a chore for him now to freshen up and you are getting this feeling he is deliberately trying to repel you by skipping showers. He doesn’t make any effort to look good around you. This level of comfort might indicate a new phase in your relationship but it could also mean that the romance is dead. If he doesn’t care enough to impress you anymore, he might no longer be interested in other aspects of your relationship too.
9. HE HAS BECOME MOODY.
Everyone has his or her good and bad days but when your man is always in a bad mood and doesn’t even make any apologies for his behavior, it might indicate dissatisfaction. When slightest hitches set him off, it could be that he is struggling with his feelings of needing to do the right thing for your relationship when what he really wants is different. It’s possible he would rather be someplace else than with you.
10. HE’S SPOILING FOR A FIGHT.
He gets into an argument with you for no reason. It’s either you’re getting under his skin or he’s pushing your buttons. His behavior makes you wonder if you should break up with him. But he could be deliberately spoiling for a fight so that he won’t come off as the bad guy when you do call it quits. This is actually a manipulation. From the outside, it might look like you drove him out of the relationship with your anger.
FINAL THOUGHTS
Despite positive thinking, it might be heartbreaking to realize that your man could be losing interest in your relationship. However, you can choose to see these signs as a positive wake-up call. It’s up to you to decide if you would like to stick it out and fight for this relationship or stop wasting your time.
Thank you for coming into my life
And accepting me.
Thank you so much.
Ever since I have met you
There's seriously been happiness in my life.
Even though when there was any sorrow
You held my hand and brought me out of it
If you were not with me,
Then I wouldn't be myself.
Thank you ππ
I can be myself
When you are with me.
I am nothing without you.
I am your shadow
As well as your reflection
But I am nothing with your reflection.
I am a river, a canal and a wave of the sea.
But if you are not the shore,
I am nothing.
I am a kite, a bird I want to fly high
But if you are not the sky,
I am nothing.
Every breath of mine is yours
I am alive for you
But if you are not close to me
I am non-existent.
People that are all different kinds of negative, are dealing with their own demons, which have nothing to do with you.
So don't take it personally and internalize it as your own.
Hopefully they will come to the terms with their troubles, but you can't control that either.
In every century,
In every country,
They will call us something different.
They will say that we're ghost, angels, elemental spirits, demons and, giving us a name doesn't help anybody.
When did the name change,
What someone is?
Karma is an universal law of cause and effect.
All kinds of depression are caused by something, with depression by being the effects.
I say "effects" because depression usually has more than one cause occuring simultaneously.
Depression is not a disease or illness such as cough, diabetes, maleria etc.
It is more like a dangerous illness such as cancer, tumour etc.
Life sucks!
We have a choice to
What is Fear and what is Fantasy?
Many of my fears in a day to day life are baseless; things that will never happen.
Why do I picture the worst scenario?
Fear is love upside down. If you have fear, then know that you have the ability to love. So when you fall in love or raise in love, your fear will simply dissipate. Fear is nothing but another way of Love ❤️.
Repentance means letting go of our ways when they're not God's ways.
*Today's Prayer*:
Dear Lord, give me a docile, attentive, and persevering spirit to discover Your presence in my life. I yearn to be filled by You. Amen.
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You don't have to do something to make a bowl of water calm.
Just don't shake it;
Don't put your hands in it.
Leave the water alone and it finds its own natural tranquility.
The mind is exactly the same.
Whenever you see anything unhelpful in your mind,
Just remove it by putting in something positive.
By this method,
You can always keep the mind free from disturbance.
Live life to the fullest
Be someone to look up
Don't be phased by difficulties
Take time to reflect
Enjoy a little space
Honor the cycles of nature π
Light up the nights
Nobody can dream to win everything with only being good at something..
Because everyone is average and is not the best..
And to the best, you need to be exceptional.
If you always have an excuse ready, then nothing can be ready..
Nothing can be achieved..
Or just say..
I can't do this..
I don't like to do this..
That means you are giving up before it ever started..
Greatness comes with sheer determination
Or else choose to be a Gardener in a War..
Raavan
Why there is no justice for the people who does wonders with their works?
Why they are being killed or tortured instead of getting appreciation for their loyalty and dedication to industries?
What will happen to others if they are also equally important component?
It's good to be competitive in any way; but bad to torture and kill them for their own benefit and business.
God created man and woman in different kinds. All have different styles and colours in their life. Then why fight for unknown reasons. No one is perfect.
You should love each other and appreciate others too to come forward. Supporting others will not let you down for failure. It's the best part of success.
Have the trust in Life that you are not Alone,
And there is someone with you.
Whatever be your troubles, problems and pains just surrender it to The God (our creator).
And after surrendering your problems,
You March ahead in life, free of all tensions and live happily.
Look at the past as destiny so you will not keep regretting the past and see the future as free will so that you don't procrastinate or become letargic and say whatever, ' God willing it will happen'.
A Master makes you sufficient.
A Master takes away all your dependency and makes you more full and centered.
You are depending on so many things around you.
You love somebody and are dependent on their feelings and emotions.
If it is a little bit disturbed, you also get disturbed.
And you depend on so many things around you, you don't know your own freedom;
You don't know your own nature;
You don't know how hollow or how empty and how beautiful you are.
And a Master makes you aware how Hard you are from inside.
I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up all alone.
It's not.
The worst thing in life is ending up with the people who make you feel all alone.
If you don't make the time to work on creating the life you want, you are eventually going to be forced to spend a lot of time dealing with a life you don't want.
My inner voice is louder, louder than your screams,
What even when time cannot, I will fix, as I am not here to just chase dreams,
I don't feel depth anymore, as I have drowned enough in Styx,
Drowned too deep but still burn like the Phoenix,
Poisoned so deep, got my name on the Stoics,
Imprisoned and captivated, by some madness, like a lunatic,
I keep drowning, I keep burning, Along with me, even my demons keep hustling,
Yes I ain't here to quit, this world will be conquered, I believe in the legend of my words, they will never go unheard.
You are raising a little human with thoughts, needs, ideas and a personality all their own.
They aren't perfect anymore than you are, and expecting perfection will lead to conflict, not the connection.
When they make mistakes, choose understanding and not anger.
When they make their choices, choose guidance, and not punishment.
When they challenge your authority, choose peace, and not warfare.
Remember you are growing a person, and not fixing a problem.
Attachment is that which gives you pain.
Love is that without which you cannot live.
If love becomes attachment, then the same love which was giving you joy, starts to inflict pain.
Attachment is when you want something in return.
If you love and do not want anything in return,
Then that love doesn't turn into attachment.
Whenever you get so confused analysing your own feelings,
I tell you, just drop it.
Many times you to get counseling and you get even more confused.
I would tell you,
See your whole past as a dream and move on to the future.
You will understand everything π
Learn to be grateful for the Life you have,
Even when you are working towards the life you want.
Difficult events occur for our spiritual growth.
These are not meant to be punishment.
Beautiful sunset awaits after heavy rain.
Expectation has brought me Disappointment.
Disappointment has brought me Wisdom.
Acceptance, Gratitude and Appreciation have brought me Joy and Fulfillment.
Instead of saying, I am damaged, I am broken,
Say I am healing, I am rediscovering myself, I am starting over.
Always end the day with a positive thought.
No matter how hard things were,
Tomorrow is a fresh opportunity to make it better.
When I started using PEN in my primary school, and I made a *mistake,* I would try hard to erase it before submitting it to my teacher.
Sometimes, I use *chalk* to clean my *mistake* but it later re-appeared.
So I began to use saliva, it worked, but only to *leave holes in my books* .
My teachers then used to beat me for being outrageously dirty. But all I tried to do was to cover my *ERROR.*
One day, a kind-hearted teacher who loved me so much called me aside and he said, " *Anytime you make a mistake, just cross it and move on".*
He said further " Trying to erase your mistakes would only damage your book to nothing.
I told him in protest that I don't want people to see my mistake.
My loving teacher laughed and said, " *Trying to erase your mistake will make more people know about your mess and the stigma is for life".*
Have you made some mistakes in life? *Cross it over and move on.*
Don't expose yourself as a result of trying to cover your mistakes.
Better things are ahead of you.
What are we?
I don't understand our relationship.
Sometimes we are friends, sometimes we are more than friends and sometimes I am just a stranger to you.
One minute you are talking to me as I am something special and the next minute you are talking to me as if I mean nothing to you.
One day you will pay so much attention to me and then the next day you completely ignore me.
Don't play with my feelings because you are unsure about your feelings.
Grow up and talk to me when you are done treating me bad.
Never regret trusting someone.
It proves you have a heart ❤️.
But if he turns out to be a lying worm,
I am not going to waste my time crying.
Because I am way too fabulous for that.
Excuses will always be there for you, opportunity won't.
There is nothing more beautiful than when you prove yourself just how strong you are.
If you don't love yourself,
You will always be chasing after people who don't love you either π.
Stop criticizing yourself.
Take a moment to look yourself in the face, atleast 3 times a day, and say 'I Love You'.
Love yourself more than anything else in this world ❣️.
If there is no struggle, there is no progress.
Put your leg on pedal, accelerate it and make history.
Don't give up at any cost, stay strong and be confident.
Don't wait for things to get better π±.
Life will always be complicated.
Learn to be happy right now,
Otherwise you will run out of Time.
Life becomes more meaningful when you realise the simple fact that you will never get the same moment twice.
Things don't always go the way we want them to.
People don't always treat us the way we want them to.
When you get what you want, be grateful and
When you don't get what you want, then be graceful.
To be happy ☺️π you must:
Let go of what's gone.
Be grateful for what remains, and
Look forward to what's coming up next.
