Don't take for granted

 Don’t take for granted the person who actually loves you cares for you and misses you. Those people are few and far between, and when they’re gone, they can be difficult to replace when it comes to love. Sometimes we are looking at all the wrong things or at people who do not really matter, that we forget the one that was always there. Suddenly, one day, you might find that you created the trajectory that caused you to lose something precious while in pursuit of something that was never there to begin with. Be appreciative of those who appreciate you while you can.

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗮 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗮 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂, 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗮𝘆 𝗵𝘂𝗿𝘁𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗱𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗿𝗴𝘂𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗰𝗿𝘆 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗵𝘂𝗿𝘁, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗺𝗲, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂. 

𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀, 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗯𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗿𝘆 𝗶𝗳 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗰𝘁𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂, 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲 𝗺𝗲, 𝗻𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗮𝗶𝗹, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲.

𝗣𝘂𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱𝘀 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗿, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗲𝘁.. 𝗶𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗸 𝗼𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗿.

𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗴𝗲𝘁𝘀 𝗷𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗼𝘂𝘀, 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗵𝗲𝗿. 𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂. 

𝗦𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝘀𝘂𝗲.

𝗜𝗳 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗲𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗿, 𝗽𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝘂𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗵𝗲𝗿. 𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲, 𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁.

𝗡𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗵𝗲𝗿, 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝘀𝗸𝘀, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝘀𝘄𝗲𝗿. 𝗝𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗯𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘁, 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝗿 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁, 𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵. 𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝗶𝘁 𝗵𝘂𝗿𝘁𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗿, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗹𝘆.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘀, 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗸𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗵𝗲’𝘀 𝘁𝗶𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗼𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝗰𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲. 𝗖𝗼𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗺𝗲 𝗶𝗳 𝗜’𝗺 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗵𝘂𝘀𝗯𝗮𝗻𝗱, 𝘀𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝗮 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱, 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗲𝘆𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘀𝗮𝗱𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀.

If a man really loves you

 If a man is madly crazily and deeply in love with you then no one can ever steal him from you. 

If he has eyes just for you then no other woman can catch his attention other than you. 

If a man really loves you and treats your heart as his own he will never let you down. He will never be dishonest with you and he will never cheat on you.

 A man who is truly in love with you will understand your pain and he will heal you with his love. If he is emotionally attached to you and cares about your feelings then he will never do anything that will make you cry. He will never hurt you intentionally and he will never let you go to bed with tears in your eyes. 

If a man really loves you then he will stay by your side forever and nothing in the world can change his feelings and his love for you..🌻🖤

Where did I go wrong?

 I gave my time.

I gave my heart.

I gave the best of me.

And still, it wasn’t enough.

Was I too much… or not enough? Did I love you in the wrong way, or did you simply realise that you don’t love me anymore? These are the questions that echo in the silence you left behind.

Maybe love is not about who gave more or who failed less. Maybe it’s about two hearts choosing each other every day. It’s sad because somewhere along the way, you stopped choosing me.

And so I ask, not to blame, but to understand: Where did I go wrong?

💔💔💔

I am not FAKE

 I was real, so proud of myself. I am not perfect, I am not easy; I am not even easy to love, and yes, I have my share of faults just like everyone one else. I will never be fake though. It is as it is — you see me pretty much as I am, 100% me. Honestly, I would prefer to be genuine and imperfect rather than appearing as someone I am not in all appearances. Playing dress up is for kids, and life is too short to hide behind masks. Be true to yourself, and that is the real power; those who really care for you will always love you exactly as you are.

It was the sound of a woman breaking over and over

 YOU TOOK MY LOVE FOR GRANTED

I gave you the kind of love that doesn’t ask for anything in return—

except to be seen, to be valued,

to be chosen the way I chose you.

But you wore my love like a backup plan,

kept it on a shelf until it suited you.

You thought I’d always be there—

no matter how cold your words,

how distant your heart,

how absent your presence.

I stayed long after I felt lonely beside you.

I kept pouring into a well that never gave back.

And every time I asked for the smallest effort,

you called me too emotional, too much, too dramatic.

But the truth is—

I was just asking for the bare minimum

while I was giving you everything.

You misunderstood my patience for weakness.

My forgiveness for permission.

My consistency for convenience.

But love doesn't survive on one-sided hope.

It needs to be fed, watered, held—

and you let mine starve.

So now that I’m gone,

don’t call it sudden.

It wasn’t.

It was quiet.

It was slow.

It was the sound of a woman breaking over and over,

until one day—

she didn’t.

I used to pretend that I was a strong person

 I used to pretend that I was always okay so that no one would ever worry about me. I don't want to bother anyone around me, so I always show them that there is nothing wrong with me. But every time I'm alone in my room, that's where my tears start streaming down my face. My heart will start pounding with pain, and my surroundings will be filled with sadness. I am not really okay. I am barely surviving every day, yet I still pretend that I am happy.

I used to pretend that I was not having a hard time with myself, but now I think I can no longer hold back all my pain. I just want to scream and tell the world how hurt I am. I want to tell everyone that I've been bearing this for a long time. I am slowly dying inside. I am falling apart every night, and no one ever notices it. I used to pretend that I was a strong person, but now I feel like I am just so tired of everything.