Friday, 3 January 2025

They live with us forever

 “Nothing you love is lost. Not really. Things, people—they always go away, sooner or later. You can’t hold them, any more than you can hold moonlight. But if they’ve touched you, if they’re inside you, then they’re still yours. The only things you ever really have are the ones you hold inside your heart.” (Bruce Coville)


Nothing we love is truly lost, not in the ways that matter most. Everything and everyone we cherish will, in time, move on, just as moonlight slips through our fingers no matter how tightly we try to grasp it. But love isn’t about possession; it’s about connection. 


If something or someone has touched our soul, shaped our spirit, or illuminated our life, they become a part of us. 

Their essence weaves itself into the fabric of our being, living on in memories, feelings, and the lessons they leave behind. 

The things we hold within our heart are eternal, untouchable by time or loss, and they remain ours forever. ❤☀

Cherish people while you can

When you hurt genuinely kind people, you might not see an immediate reaction. 


They won’t raise their voice, make accusations, or cause a scene. 


Instead, they’ll carry their pain silently, showing the same warmth and compassion they always have. 


But deep down, something has shifted. 


They’ll start to distance themselves, not in anger but in quiet acceptance. 


Slowly, they’ll create space, walking away without any dramatic goodbyes and they won’t look back.


These are the people who valued you deeply, who trusted you without question. 


When that trust is broken, it doesn’t shatter, it fades away, leaving them with no choice but to protect their peace. πŸ•Š️ 


They won’t stop being kind or lose their gentle nature, but they’ll never see you the same way again. 


Remember, losing a kind heart is losing something irreplaceable. 


Cherish them while you can, because once they’re gone, they’re truly gone.

The Marriage

The Marriage ✨


Marriage is not about the age. 

Not about the distance. Not about communicating every moment of everyday. 

What is important is having Trust and Loyalty. The trust of a woman to her man. And the loyalty of a man to his woman🀍

Love is within ME

 Patience visited me

And it reminded me 

That good things take time to come to fruition

And grow slowly with stability 


Peace visited me 

And it reminded me 

That I may remain calm through the storms of life 

Regardless of the chaos surrounding me 


Hope visited me 

And it reminded me 

That better times lay ahead 

And it would always be there to guide and uplift me


Humility visited me 

And it reminded me 

That I may achieve it 

Not by trying to shrink myself and make myself less

But by focusing on serving the world and uplifting those around me


Kindness visited me

And it reminded me 

To be more gentle, forgiving and compassionate toward myself 

And those surrounding me


Confidence visited me

And it reminded me

To not conceal or suppress my gifts and talents 

In order to make others feel more comfortable 

But to embrace what makes me me 


Focus visited me

And it reminded me

That other people’s insecurities and judgements about me

Are not my problem 

And I should redirect my attention 

From others back to me 


Freedom visited me 

And it reminded me 

That no one has control over my mindset, thoughts and wellbeing 

But me


And love visited me 

And it reminded me 

That I need not search for it in others

As it lies within me.

You must never waste Life

“Whatever happens, keep living.

Don’t let yourself fade before your time.

Don’t lose who you are, don’t lose hope, don’t lose your way.

Stay alive—fully, wholly, with every cell in your body, with every fiber of your being.


Stay alive by learning, thinking, reading, building, inventing, creating, speaking, writing, dreaming, and designing.

Stay alive within yourself, but also in the world around you.

Let the colors of life fill you. Let peace fill you. Let hope fill you.

Stay alive with joy.


There is one thing you must never waste in this life—

and that’s life itself.”

Wednesday, 1 January 2025

The Currency of Love and Memories

When someone we love leaves this world, we become collectors of the sentimental.


We find ourselves cherishing the little things that once seemed ordinary—their favorite chair, the scent of their perfume, the sound of their favorite song. Each item, no matter how small, becomes a bridge to their memory, a tether to the moments we shared.


But beyond the things, we collect the essence of who they were. We carry their laugh like a melody, their kindness as a guide, their strength as an anchor. These are treasures no one can take from us, a priceless currency of love and memories.


We revisit the past not to dwell in sadness, but to honor the joy they brought into our lives. These memories are the pieces of them that stay with us, woven into the fabric of who we are now.


So, we continue to collect—not just objects or reminders, but moments, lessons, and love. These are the things that sustain us, that keep their light alive in our hearts.


To all the collectors of love and memories, know this: your collection is sacred, and it tells a story that will never fade. ❤️

Being in peace ✌️ 😌

Being at peace means that you no longer have the need to prove anything to anyone. 


You don't need outside validation, you don't need to tell your side of the story anymore, even when you hear a dozen rumors that tell an untrue version. 


You used to guard your heart, but now you guard your peace, because you know your peace is worth more than proving yourself to anyone. ❤πŸŒ»πŸ¦‹