Don't be a toxic coworker

 Sweet Reminder

Don't be a toxic coworker. Work with passion and kindness, no matter your rank or position—we are all in this together. Don't be the reason someone feels unmotivated, burned out, anxious, or outcast. Please, don't be the person who makes someone else lose their self-confidence.

Let's create a safe space and a healthy working environment for everyone who just wants to grow in their careers. We are all fighting silent battles, and the world is already chaotic enough. Let's be kind to one another at work. 😊

WHY KISSING IS IMPORTANT IN MARRIAGE

WHY KISSING IS IMPORTANT IN MARRIAGE

1. It reminds your spouse he/she is your lover, not just a parent to the children you have

2. Kissing when you wake up and when you sleep make you both start and end the day right

3. Kissing communicates to your spouse that there is still warmth in the marriage. When a couple is drifting apart, one of the first things to suffer is kissing

4. Kissing is part of making out. Yes, married couples should also make out. Making out is the grabbing of butt, fondling of breasts, rubbing of the tip of the penis, passionately hugging, touching up even when fully clothed; as you kiss deeply - without necessarily making love

5. Kissing welcomes you to each other when you meet each other at home or outside after some hours of being a part

6. Kissing says "I love you"

7. Kissing promotes emotional intimacy. Conversations become more heartfelt when a couple embraces kissing. You bond better

8. Kissing promotes spiritual intimacy. When a couple kisses after praying to say "Amen", they value praying together more

9. Kissing releases the tension and a couple gets to have difficult conversations in a relaxed atmosphere. Imagine talking heavy stuff with random kisses

10. Kissing makes your spouse feel wanted and desired

11. Kissing heightens sexual intimacy as foreplay

12. Kissing is an activity you do exclusively that makes you both feel special

Sometimes all your spouse wants is for you to shut up and kiss him

You lost me

 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐋𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐌𝐞

One day, you’ll remember the person who loved you so much that they forgot to love themselves. You’ll remember them when you wake up, when you eat, when you’re about to sleep. They will be your greatest nightmare. You will be the one crying, and they will be the one happy with someone else.

One day, you’ll regret losing them. You lost the person who did everything for you. You lost the person who was always there for you when no one else is. You lost them because of your ego. You lost the person who stayed by your side even if you threw harsh words to them. You lost the person who tried to understand you when they needed you and you were not there.

One day, you’ll realize that they were the one for you. The person who stood by your side even if you don’t appreciate them. The person you chose to let go because you’re full of pride. One day, you’ll realize that the person you screwed up and left for another person, was the person who kept on fighting and defending you when they heard gossips about you.

One day, you’ll see them happy and contented with the life they have when you left them. They will thank you for letting them go and for making them realize they are worth of something so much better, that there is someone out there who is willing to do everything for them. They will look into your eyes with no feelings for you at all.

One day, when you see them, you will feel like you’ve been stabbed in your heart a millions times for giving up on them. And when that day comes, no matter what you do, no matter what you say to them, it will not make sense because they were already done spending years of their life trying to make you love them as they loved you. But you didn’t 💔

MEN SHOULD PREPARE THEMSELVES TO HANDLE WOMEN WHO ARE OVER 40.

MEN SHOULD PREPARE THEMSELVES TO HANDLE WOMEN WHO ARE OVER 40.

(Boy Child Take Notes)

When some Women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality. 

They become bolder, more rebellious, more religious, more focused, more opinionated and more emphatic about what they want.

Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive Woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.

Most especially when she had given birth to Children. 

At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to ask some questions :   

      -  Is sex food?

      -  Query some of your instructions

      -  Even the way you behave. 

She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind. 

If care is not taken, you may have to do for yourself :

     -  Dry cleaning 

     -  Preparing food to eat 

Because it might take her more time before she responds to your request.

There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for Women.

If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.

The only way to avoid total breakdown of Peace and Harmony in the home is for Men to become fair, objective and reasonable in their approaches to issues at home and/or at work.

Men should bear in mind that at this age, Women also harbour lots of regrets about the decisions they have made in life so far ... Their Husbands may be one of them!

A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a Man using very different & weird parameters.

Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their Wives/Partners/Bosses/Subordinates. 

What you put in is what you get!

If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about. 

She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past. 

On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.

LADIES, TAKE NOTE

If another woman gets close to your man, the problem is with him, not her. He’s the one letting her feel welcome, which means he’s doing something he shouldn’t when you're not around.

Don’t fight over a man. If he’s showing interest in someone else, let him go. You deserve someone who is fully committed to you.

A truly good man will make you his priority, respect you, and set boundaries to protect your relationship.

You're not meant to fix a man who cheats. You can't make someone stay faithful, they have to choose to be because they respect and love you. If he doesn't, he’s not worth your time.

Don't accept cheating. The real problem isn’t the other woman, it’s a man who doesn’t respect or value you. A man isn’t worthy of your love unless he truly appreciates you and brings peace into your life.

If another woman ends up with your man, you’re better off letting her keep him. Real men can’t be stolen. You’ve probably been saved from wasting more time on someone who’s not right for you.

ADVICE FOR WOMEN FROM A MAN'S PERSPECTIVE

• What one man won’t do, I promise another man will.

• He is going to cheat if he wants to, it’s never your fault.

• Stop accepting “this is just who I am.”

• A man will treat you how he feels about you. When he shows you how he feels, believe him.

• With men, we are creatures of actions, not words. Believe all of what you see and half of what you hear.

• We men will do anything for a woman we want to be with. If you always have to call him out on something he doesn’t do, he never intended to do it from the jump.

• Your feelings are always valid, if he isn’t emotionally intelligent enough to understand how you feel, then he will never know how to love you.

• You shouldn’t have to tell a grown man how to love you. If he loves you the way he claims he does, then his actions should show it.

• You’re not asking too much, you’re just asking the wrong man.💙

Be thankful for those who do show up

 Do not beg anyone from either side of yours or father child’s family to be a part of their life. They all know your child exists. If they wanted to be involved, they would. If they don’t make an effort, wash your hands of them. Be thankful for those who do show up 🙌🏼...

Neither you or your kid's need them in your life...live your life peacefully without them because toxic people won't show you that they are 😌

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